How would that make you feel and what would you do?
If my partner told me that, I'd be pretty upset because I would think that they are already interested in another person and they want to have a "hall pass" to have sex with that person.
I would think that the relationship is in trouble already and that my partner is basically wanting to pursue someone else without actually breaking up with me.
So I'd feel hurt and angry, and I'd really wonder what changed in the relationship that made my partner want something like that.
I could see why they would want it though. Some people do become bored in their relationships and feel the need for excitement.
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I’d *feel* like giving them a good ol’ bitch slap to the face, but I’d never do that. What I’d actually do is tell them how hurt it makes me feel that they’re already thinking of other people like that and that hall passes in relationships is just cheating and then break up with them.
I’m not going to be the second choice in my own relationship.
Irrespective to whether I were married to them or not I'd consider it a serious 'Red' flag as they would only want/offer a 'hall pass' if they were already emotionally cheating and were going to make it physical, I reject 'hall pass' and state that if they wanted to do that the marriage/relationship would be over, and the could take their belongings and leave.
I'd be very surprised. Then I would wonder why she wants that, and have a heart to heart discussion with her and whether our relationship is good or not. Depending on how that discussion goes, she might take the ine hall pass... I don't think that I will.
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I would immediately break up with her. She is obviously wanting to be unfaithful to you and why would you want to be with a girl who would rather be with someone else?
Break up.
One hall pass? Means he's found a girl he'd like to cheat with, but he's too cowardly to break up with me and date her. So he wants a "guaranteed fallback girl".
I don't date cowards. Let him go and be done with him.
I'll take the perma-hall pass from his ass.I would realise he isn't that into me, likely already has been emotionally cheating and has a woman he is ready to sleep with lined up. I would probably start winding down the relationship. And the audacity to suggest I should cheat with him for it to be somehow even. Pathetic.
My ex told me that 3 months before break up, I told him I couldn’t use that hall pass and I was extremely hurt he wanted that.
Looking back, I wonder why I didn’t break up with him earlier.Dude would get smacked upside his head so hard wtf
Wanting to bring someone new into the relationship, either for a “hall pass”, threesome or couple swapping is a sign that they’re bored with you and the love and relationship is dead. Use the extra time to plan your exit and find yourself a better partner before they know what’s happening and try to screw you over somehow.
As a woman, I'd feel uncomfortable with the fact that my partner WANTS another man to have sex with me. It would make me feel unloved and pimped out
like who wants to date a cuck?
I'd be surprised, but probably down. We would need to set ground rules though, like for STD testing and notifying the other when we hook up with the person.
If she asks this then she probably already done it or she got someone already in mind... It might b ok but the guy she picks has to have a smaller dick than me. But I'm a faithful loyal man so even if she did I probably wouldn't do the same n probably wouldn't be able to look at her the same if I did tho I'd want her there
I honestly wouldn't care.. he only has me here as free maid service to cook, clean and watch the kids.. so if he want's to step out he can.. it isn't really gonna change anything between us...
Id feel like eating someones shoe laces.
Ps: (your welcome)I'd be suspicious and I'd assume she has someone in mind all ready.
I'd tell her that I would choose her mum or sister, hope that would put her offI'd ask who it was she has already F-ed or who it is she already has lined up to F.
Then I'd divorce her.
Confused. Like babe, do you not remember the agreement? Follow the rules and you can fuck who you want.
I'd tell them ok then I'd break up with them. Because clearly they want to be with someone else she may not just fully realize it. And I deserve to be with someone as committed as me. Everybody wins!
The only reason she would ask that is because she already had someone in mind. I'd use that as my cue to leave the relationship
Only if she includes me directly because frankly? Open relationships are very slanted in women's favor unless they are dating some sort of player or Chad.
Take it but I'd be preparing to leave either then or in the near future.
I'd be cool with it, and then I'd split. There are too many women in the world who would enjoy being my friend. Besides I'm to shallow to even give a fuck. I'm clearly not the sensitive type.
This is a good indication she is already cheating. Having said that it would depend how I saw her. If she is just a fuck buddy in my mind, than sure. If not, hard pass.
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