Would you consider a hall pass in your relationship if you knew you could realistically have sex with whoever you want and it would be 100 percent ok?

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Your significant other also gets a hall pass as well though.

Lynx122 · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend said she doesn't wnt to be entirely responsible for my sexual gratification basically and she thinks sex should be shared. Like she said if I watch anime with someone she won't care because she doesn't watch anime but if I watch her favorite tv show with someone she'll break up with me because that's like cheating to her. And she has a similar idea about sex I think. If someone can offer something different then she thinks I should sleep with them.

Personally I want it to be just me and her because we're in the beginning of our relationship. Maybe in the future I'll consider her ideas but for now I don't care about it. Maybe I'll never will but we'll see.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

Yep absolutely. Consensual non monogamy is a thing that works for some couples.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Thats basically an open relationship. Open and relationship dont even belong in the same sentence. A hall pass is unnecessary unless i needed an excuse to get out of class. Im not looking to cheat, not even with permission. If i want to mess around with more than one person, I’d just stay single

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Open relationships only work in our case if we know and trust the other people involved.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No! I want monogamy and I offer monogamy in return. I’ve never cheated on a spouse or girlfriend and I never had anyone suggest a hall pass.

AviatorTom · Answer

I would, but only if my SO and I agree that we both get a hall pass, and we're both okay with that.

Lliam · Answer

Nah.
There is only one person I would give anything to have a hall pass with. That was the girl I lived with for over a year. I met her when I was 36 and she was 30. She got in touch on Facebook 20 years after we had last seen each other. We spoke on the phone a few times. 5 years after that, I read that she had died from a sudden medical problem at the age of 55.
I loved her with all my heart and still do. I will never forget her.
I wouldn't leave my wife for her. But a hall pass would be a dream come true.

Lionman95 · Answer

No simply because it would always effect our relationship. Either one of us gets jealous of the other or the effect would be that we distant ourselves from one another since we´d be focused not us but on whoever comes by and seems attractive.

To me that´s a polygamous relationship and a no go.

Lowiu · Answer

No like Im down for threesomes but I want my boyfriend to be involved always

Anonymous · Answer

No - the only reason a woman would offer a hall pass is that she wants to have sex with or has already had sex with some one usually a co-worker and is looking for retroactive permission, that would immediately have me looking at how they have been acting over the past weeks for anything that would raise a flag, and would cause me to reassess the relationship, If we were only dating I'd be pulling back from that relationship, if married I'd be engaging a PI and talking to more than one Lawyer about my options.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

If this were 8 years ago, most likely. Now, no. Right now the extent of how open our relationship is extends as far as 3somes. From my understanding the feeling is mutual.

joeND · Answer

Yes I would and I think I deserve one after decades with a woman who won't give me oral, yet I give it to her every time. I had oral once she had it 3000 times I bet. 3000 to 1 should I feel guilty? I don't feel guilty. I will do anything I can to make up the void of not being loved and feel no guilt.

SarahP080102 · Answer

I'm really not a relationship person but I would be open to the idea of a Hall Pass.

Kabluie · Answer

Yes, I prefer open and poly relationships. I would have never met some awesome people in my life if I wasn't open when they were.

OnlyMeee · Answer

I would say yes. Just for one night only, I have had my wife for the last 19 years, and will have her for the rest of my life, the night would come and go. Love and sex are separate.

exitseven · Answer

No, I think that afterwards it would still bother me. It would not be worth it.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

I would take a hall pass, my wife as already told me to find a friends with benefits woman, so would be ok with it. She never wants sex as it is.

Pinay_ako · Answer

That’s a no for me.

Highbury · Answer

No. Hall pass doesn't exist in my book.

If there are questions of threesomes; hall passes etc then the chances are it's time up on the relationship or it is on it's way out.

I genuinely have no interest in fucking women other than my partner if I'm being brutally honest.

Andres77 · Answer

When I was younger, I would’ve considered this. Not anymore though.

shades777 · Answer

ah depends if my girlfriend was down for that, might as well make it a threesome and include her in the fun

Alex8736 · Answer

Only on the grounds they have no STD's and can't blackmail me by maliciously trying to get pregnant which it would only be oral and anal 😇

Hanrej · Answer

I would only have sex with someone else than my SO in the unlikely event that she tells me to. Ofcourse, she has a standing hall pass.

KarinMcDonald · Answer

I have that hall pass. But I only use it about twice during the month. It's not like it's every day.

justabuddy · Answer

Ehhh.. negative. Good quality relationships are way to hard to come by. I wouldn't purposely do anything that could potentially harm that. Just my opinion.

PointTaken · Answer

I was going towards that way, but I think I wouldn't do it now.

BryanMoore · Answer

Honestly, yeah, that'd be fine/ Just communicate!

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

Everyone wants a hall pass until the point where your SO wants the same thing. Funny how a player can be jealous in situations like this. In this story, I'm the Jealous Playboy😂

HannesK · Answer

No, your partner should learn over time what you want/need in bed better than someone else. And I see myself as monogamic.

Bobbysworld · Answer

Not really when I'm with some I'm with them exclusively unless a 3 some or something happens

krin_m · Answer

That is not a hall pass for me. Just a fact.

TrillXHippy · Answer

What do people take too seriously? This is something that I would take more serious than anything I ever took serious in my entire life. Realistically she better not even imagine it and no that’s not a threat. Best believe it’s a promise

Anonymous · Answer

Not in my current relationship. My ex was cheating on me in the past and to make it up to me gave me a hall pass. I f*cked her younger hotter sister.

Dan_cColt · Answer

Could never be a guy who knew his girl was f*cking other guys even if given a "pass" That's cuck territory..

Christoff92 · Answer

Well. A hall pass wouldn't mean someone with a hot head attitude just because she's pretty. But some very courteous that has great honesty and personal traits.

ginger_snap · Answer

Yes, with some caveats.

Agape93 · Answer

Long as everyone was clean and good with it, sure

Wise4myage · Answer

I don't know. In the back of my mind, id wonder if she was springing some sort of trap my horny self fell into, lol.

MFM3WAY · Answer

I have given the hall pass to my girl at the times many times with no regrets. It was many exciting experiences. Glad I did. I will do it again if possible!

jahaims · Answer

Zero desire for that. I personally don't think you can be in love and want to sleep with others.

Anonymous · Answer

I would love to be able to fuck other guys, but my husband isn't on board with it

Anonymous · Answer

I already try to get with every girl that will give me half a chance. So wouldn’t be much different.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I feel of that is the case then you aren't commited to the realtionship fully and if that's the case then there is no point in being in it in the first place.

muscles_glasses · Answer

to get a hall pass you have to be in a relationship first

Tim-loves-it · Answer

Absolutely! (thats called swinging, by the way)

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Nope, I'd just stay single then

SoJust · Answer

Yes I would like relationship kiss

Sparkie460 · Answer

If we both agree on it , sure I'd consider a pass.

Justinslay · Answer

Meee maybe depends on how much I love that person

bananathunder · Answer

sure... sex is fun. Why not?

TallAnon · Answer

That all sounds like bullshit to me, I'll pass

Boomchakalaca · Answer

No 😄 dont put that thought in my mind

Mansearching · Answer

Nope. Thats still cheating regardless.

ShesRad80 · Answer

not at all

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well my SO is always ok with it

larry69 · Answer

Not for me. I will not cheat on a woman

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Nope not into open relationships.

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes and no.

NoFollowReqestPlz · Answer

Nope. Never

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

Bigjake1995 · Answer

Yes I would

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Sure

BLP11520 · Answer

Oh wow

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