My girlfriend said she doesn't wnt to be entirely responsible for my sexual gratification basically and she thinks sex should be shared. Like she said if I watch anime with someone she won't care because she doesn't watch anime but if I watch her favorite tv show with someone she'll break up with me because that's like cheating to her. And she has a similar idea about sex I think. If someone can offer something different then she thinks I should sleep with them.
Personally I want it to be just me and her because we're in the beginning of our relationship. Maybe in the future I'll consider her ideas but for now I don't care about it. Maybe I'll never will but we'll see.
I've talked to a billion husbands online, and this is the result of my research. *Most guys would take the hall pass *Most women would prefer to cheat. That's a fact, Jack!
Thats basically an open relationship. Open and relationship dont even belong in the same sentence. A hall pass is unnecessary unless i needed an excuse to get out of class. Im not looking to cheat, not even with permission. If i want to mess around with more than one person, I’d just stay single
you must have great women who please you. I never had a supportive loving woman. I don't think they exist, I get jealous greedy , gold diggers. You must be over 60 when women were nice in your day. Today they are 1 way
Nah. There is only one person I would give anything to have a hall pass with. That was the girl I lived with for over a year. I met her when I was 36 and she was 30. She got in touch on Facebook 20 years after we had last seen each other. We spoke on the phone a few times. 5 years after that, I read that she had died from a sudden medical problem at the age of 55. I loved her with all my heart and still do. I will never forget her. I wouldn't leave my wife for her. But a hall pass would be a dream come true.
No simply because it would always effect our relationship. Either one of us gets jealous of the other or the effect would be that we distant ourselves from one another since we´d be focused not us but on whoever comes by and seems attractive.
To me that´s a polygamous relationship and a no go.
No - the only reason a woman would offer a hall pass is that she wants to have sex with or has already had sex with some one usually a co-worker and is looking for retroactive permission, that would immediately have me looking at how they have been acting over the past weeks for anything that would raise a flag, and would cause me to reassess the relationship, If we were only dating I'd be pulling back from that relationship, if married I'd be engaging a PI and talking to more than one Lawyer about my options.
If this were 8 years ago, most likely. Now, no. Right now the extent of how open our relationship is extends as far as 3somes. From my understanding the feeling is mutual.
Yes I would and I think I deserve one after decades with a woman who won't give me oral, yet I give it to her every time. I had oral once she had it 3000 times I bet. 3000 to 1 should I feel guilty? I don't feel guilty. I will do anything I can to make up the void of not being loved and feel no guilt.
I would say yes. Just for one night only, I have had my wife for the last 19 years, and will have her for the rest of my life, the night would come and go. Love and sex are separate.
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