Agree with you , you are responsible for your OWN state of mind , and I am not responsible of anyone else's happiness / state of mind either. My former wife just dragged me down , and complained & blamed me for everything , therefore staying single and never dealing with that BS ever again.
Nope, they should only be a compliment to your happiness. My mom used to say if you can’t be happy on your own then you’ll never be happy in a relationship.
You can't be happy if your so doesn't make you happy, period! People talk too much and make poems but reality is different, i do like will smith and he does but in this topic i bet to differ... Even of your individually happy, he/she will ruin it for you and make you feel that your happiness is only shallow...
That is very correct, support is something else though and I think supporting is one of the strongest traits that will hold a relationship together. Support is not a resource of happiness though, it's just a little push towards it, because I think it's still up to you to find happiness.
Even in marriage, happiness doesn’t come from nothing. It must be given and earned back, and you can’t expect your partner to be an endless fountain of joy.
Yes you're right... but sometimes when you feel low and down morally because of yout own circumstances, it's selfish to expect and wait for your partner to make you happy and fill that hole, because one should be strong enough to do it alone. Also, because that happiness that comes from YOUR OWN CORE will last longer and is stronger than anything that others could give you.
I think you will become weak when you expect that person to bring YOU as an individual happiness, and it takes two to tango, both should add their energy in the relationship and add happiness to it. It's simple
No not 💯. You should be fulfill and happy. But we do go through life together and there are times you need support... and your partner has to be your main source of support to be there for you.
Your partner should be a source of happiness for you. You need other ones, but your partner should make you happy. You should also be happy for your partner's happiness or good fortune.
Due to copyright I have to mention his name. It's not like I agree with this whole lifestyle whatsoever, I just agree with this single quote, it doesn't matter who said it, it matters what message it's giving us.
On the other hand, you could find other people who said the same thing. It's like if a homeless person is giving advice about buying houses, most people ain't going to listen.
See honestly I don't agree with his whole lifestyle. Agreeing with one of his quotes doesn't mean I agree with whatever else he does if it doesn't feed my soul positively.
Sure but 1. you didn't answer the question at all , Will Smith does not play a role here only his quote does. 2. I couldn't be bothered with you agreeing or not agreeing was just stating facts. Have a great weekend.
I answered the question by saying that I agree with the statement and it's at least partly why he has a successful marriage and family life whether you agree with some of his lifestyle choices or not ( I honestly don't know much about him ) I wasn't looking for a argument have a good weekend
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Never! You shouldn't put that burden on yourself, or someone else. A healthy relationship can't function with such emotional dependency.
Like rupual says "if you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love someone else"
Agree with you , you are responsible for your OWN state of mind , and I am not responsible of anyone else's happiness / state of mind either. My former wife just dragged me down , and complained & blamed me for everything , therefore staying single and never dealing with that BS ever again.
Nope, they should only be a compliment to your happiness. My mom used to say if you can’t be happy on your own then you’ll never be happy in a relationship.
Wise words, my mom taught me the same and it's the truth
You can't be happy if your so doesn't make you happy, period!
People talk too much and make poems but reality is different, i do like will smith and he does but in this topic i bet to differ...
Even of your individually happy, he/she will ruin it for you and make you feel that your happiness is only shallow...
No, but it's always nice to be supported by someone close who loves you, even in your lowest times when you're depressed and struggle to be positive
That is very correct, support is something else though and I think supporting is one of the strongest traits that will hold a relationship together. Support is not a resource of happiness though, it's just a little push towards it, because I think it's still up to you to find happiness.
No he won't be my source of happiness. As happiness lives within me. He will only add to my happiness. So will I for him.
Even in marriage, happiness doesn’t come from nothing. It must be given and earned back, and you can’t expect your partner to be an endless fountain of joy.
A part of our happiness needs to come from our partner, but far from all of it should come from one person
Yes you're right... but sometimes when you feel low and down morally because of yout own circumstances, it's selfish to expect and wait for your partner to make you happy and fill that hole, because one should be strong enough to do it alone. Also, because that happiness that comes from YOUR OWN CORE will last longer and is stronger than anything that others could give you.
It's not selfish to wait for your partner to make you happy.
It's foolish to wait for your partner to make you happy.
But why are you with someone if they do not bring you any happiness.
There needs to be a balance that if the only one bringing you happiness is 1 person.
You will become to dependent and weak for that person.
I think you will become weak when you expect that person to bring YOU as an individual happiness, and it takes two to tango, both should add their energy in the relationship and add happiness to it. It's simple
No not 💯. You should be fulfill and happy. But we do go through life together and there are times you need support... and your partner has to be your main source of support to be there for you.
Here's exactly right. No one can make another person happy.
No, they should not. Not only is it selfish, it's unrealistic.
Your partner should be a source of happiness for you. You need other ones, but your partner should make you happy. You should also be happy for your partner's happiness or good fortune.
Suicidal people are that way because they counted on another person to make them happy.
I don't take relationship advice from cucks. Anyhow, they should be part of your happiness but not the essential/required ingredient of being happy.
Due to copyright I have to mention his name. It's not like I agree with this whole lifestyle whatsoever, I just agree with this single quote, it doesn't matter who said it, it matters what message it's giving us.
On the other hand, you could find other people who said the same thing. It's like if a homeless person is giving advice about buying houses, most people ain't going to listen.
Nobody can be happy for. You. You have to be happy first and share that with someone
Yes, I agree with you, you should be the one responsible for your own happiness, your partner just have to add to it
Hence Will Smith is hugely successful happily married with successful children to boot
@karaspara yeah he’s a twat lol.
They could be at least be something negative about him lol
@ChrisMaster69 Ok Hutch wasn't great though it should've been 😂
See honestly I don't agree with his whole lifestyle. Agreeing with one of his quotes doesn't mean I agree with whatever else he does if it doesn't feed my soul positively.
@natured that's fine hun what I said still stands didn't ask you to agree with me 💁
Sure but 1. you didn't answer the question at all , Will Smith does not play a role here only his quote does. 2. I couldn't be bothered with you agreeing or not agreeing was just stating facts. Have a great weekend.
I answered the question by saying that I agree with the statement and it's at least partly why he has a successful marriage and family life whether you agree with some of his lifestyle choices or not ( I honestly don't know much about him ) I wasn't looking for a argument have a good weekend
No. Its very selfish and irrational to tell someone they are responsible for your own happiness.
No it shouldn't be the source, but that doesn't mean that they shouldn't actively try to make each other happiER every day
No. I need my own happiness and things to focus on. If it revolves around them, I could be miserable a lot