Has your idea of what constitutes a healthy sexual relationship changed as you got older?

[OnTheLevel]

[StormyWinter]

I think so, at 41 I see sex as method of pleasure, rather than a cure to all that ails my relationships, my sex life is better than it was younger, it's definitely more varied and open to new experiences than what it was when I was younger

[TrueConfection]

I never really put that much thought into it.

[TrueConfection]

Should I have? Now I'm sitting here trying to think of I missed something.

[OnTheLevel]

I'm not sure if it's something all people go through or not.

[TrueConfection]

Did your views change?

[OnTheLevel]

Very much

[TrueConfection]

Thank you for the MHO ❤

[Apple1996]

Not really but I've always had extremely realistic expectations about sex

[RobT312]

Never thought about this but YES. Early 20s I’d have sex with anyone and the mission was to have sex. My roommates jokingly started calling me Jizz.
Mid-late 20’s was all about having a sensual relationship and was mostly monogamous. I felt like I was actually love making. While it varied from vanilla to bdsm, it was a deep kind of sex.
now At 30, It’s still very exciting, and can’t wait to take the condom off to start having kids

[Tiptoetamm]

It happend things change interests change. Men especially get bored easily so spice it up a little nothing wrong with it

[lilyanony1]

Always knew I wasn't perfect so didn't expect it in the other, I expect to put what we have got together. Still waiting for a like minded guy

[Anonymous]

Yeah it shifts with time