What is the difference between falling in love at first sight and lusting after a stranger?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

I've never fell in love at first sight. But I mean I could do walking across the room and I will feel like a little tingle going up the back of my neck and I will get the Shivers like from my neck to the top of my head and I will stop and I will look around because I just felt something I just felt somebody and I can look around the room and with matter of minutes or so I can tell you exactly what it is have you ever been bungee jumping. Or parasailing parasailing are doing something where you're free falling like with bungee jumping you jump you hit the bottom and you go straight back up in the air and when you reach the peak of where you're going you almost come to a stop can you just free float and then all the sudden your breath is taken away and you start going back down in that moment of free float you are alive. Have you ever played sports or done something that that day was so perfect everything was perfect can you have an energy within you that is just benzene if you have it then how about this you're making love and that moment you know your partner is going to have an orgasm are going to come and you are one you are completely one together 30 more seconds another minute and boom orgasm in that little time. Did you feel that it's me that is called energy that is when two energies become one. You could be where you live I could be where I live if my energy connects with you I'm going to feel that and so are you when I feel that and then I look into somebody's eyes and I get the whole package that could be falling in love at first sight but it's not. Hi feel it first and that feeling is the most intense those beautiful feeling that I have ever felt in my life and even though that feeling told me who they were on the inside I still want to know more and once I know who they are on the inside I will look to the outside and I guess yes I Could Fall In Love very easily when all the above is done is done in a matter of seconds. And see if the same thing when I meet a stranger I feel that same energy flowing through me they can feel it too and there's just a bond and connection. And then if I add lust to it I just started adding more and more things to it no matter which one it is it you're going to do for me I have the same feelings no matter what so this is a hard question for me except for the lust part because.
LUST Stands for
Love u Steve Tice lol

t-8900 · Accepted Answer

when i think love at first sight it's not literally love but there are definitely some emotions behind it. How rational they are I guess depends on the individual feeling these emotions. I'm going to guess that some of what past relationships were like and have done to the individual is going to affect their whole mindset going into this. I dont think these people are feeling lust. I know how I feel about things like this and the first thing is not about just having sex with her. Sure she's beautiful and all and yes I'd certainly like to, dont get me wrong. But I get all lovey dovey in my head, not thinking about sex first but rather handholding, dating, spending our life together. I'm not the norm, I freely admit that and perhaps it's due to my childhood. But for random women on porn sites i dont feel that way because they mean nothing to me and it is all just lust. So yeah lets just stick with the mindset.

tatianamay · Accepted Answer

Lust is real, love at first sight is just a synonym for lust in my opinion  When you are in love with a person, you overlook their flaws and choose to stay with them. Lust is just sexual attraction

TacosRAwesome · Accepted Answer

Same thing, except with love at first sight you end up in a rel and with lusting you get laid once or twice if you're lucky.

Interstate · Answer

You have to know somebody to fall in love with them. Otherwise you are just falling for their looks. To TRULY fall for somebody, you have to know A LOT about them. You fall for their heart, emotions and just overall everything about them. Lusting is merely having sexual thoughts about them in inappropriate ways.

humpbackjack · Answer

When I was younger I lusted after a lot of women and was pretty successful at satisfying that lust but when I met my wife she pretty much stopped me in my tracks and I knew I was going to be with her I felt it in my bones with girls I lusted after wasn’t nervous about talking to them and even though I didn’t let it show I was nervous talking to my wife because she mattered

HighValue · Answer

It is the same thing. You can't actually love someone for real when you don't even know them. Many people say they love someone, but in reality they don't.

SnakeBoop · Answer

Well to me, no one can fall in love at first sight anyway. so there's that haha

BossThe2nd · Answer

One is real the other isn't. If someone thinks they are in love with someone they barely even know, they are crazy an/or horribly desperate.

wankiam · Answer

they are the same thing except if it works out we tend to use the first term rather than the second

Morgador · Answer

Love at first site is more with feelings instead of being horny and just wanted to fuck someone. Typically lusting for someone as soon as you sleep with them you have zero attachment to them and you move on

Laura456 · Answer

Same thing. They're both superficial and just crushes unless you take action and see where it goes from there.

Anonymous · Answer

Falling in love with a person that turned out to be a complete stranger…such as you on here trolling and you are not who you appear to be behind this profile.

silkjames · Answer

Falling love the real deal u want to get too know each other down to the soul 🥰 ... Lust u just want to get naked with each other😂😂

loveslongnails · Answer

The first is an illusion, the second is simply pure, real lust !!

Anonymous · Answer

From your past question here and time space, it’s safe to say you are a troll. I’m guessing a guy told you that you aren’t who you appear to be.

Anonymous · Answer

The feeling of love is more localized in the chest. The feeling of lust is more localized in the genitals.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I guess the difference is that falling in love means it's mutual?

Slim57 · Answer

With someone you love you already know their bad qualities and choose to stick with them

Hangry06 · Answer

The first is a delusion. The other is real

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I think it’s the same thing tbh. Love takes time.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

A performance of talent, skill, or intelligence.

ChiPaPa · Answer

Nothing. They're the same thing.

Wise4myage · Answer

Falling in love at first sight is a myth.

Neilbud · Answer

One lasts longer than the other.

EaterPeter · Answer

Both important for fulfilling relationship.

Starman5 · Answer

Good but difficult question. I cannot answer. 🤷

Ninaface · Answer

Probably nothing

Anonymous · Answer

Both are same

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