Modern day women have everything in this world except a happy successful relationship
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Why would you think your boyfriend/husband would want to compete with his lover, men are already competing with the whole world at his job in society to be a man, all a man needs in his girl is a companion a friend someone to make him happy to an attractive women who can cook take care of the kids, I don’t one what else you women want from us because everything we do is a problem y’all can’t be pleased no matter what, plus I don’t even know what lower standards even mean, that’s why
Why are there so many successful single modern day women that have everything except a happy successful relationship?
1. They have an unacceptable past and will never be good enough for a good man. they were lied to by feminists when growing up and told that they could sleep around with many people, have kids by random guys and then some sucker would come along and take care of their mistakes.
2. they focus on a career to the detriment of finding a good partner when they are in their 20s. I don't know why they do this. It is possible to go to college then work and still have time for a relationship. I guess they can't handle doing both. They also don't realize that if they make $100k per year or work part time in fast food and make $ 15k per year that is just as good to most men. They end up in their 30s and realize it is too late for them to find a good man. (very unlikely). They don't want to admit that good men have many more options and they are near the bottom of that list. They are competing against other women that made different choices in life and they dislike them over it too.
3. They don't realize that their past actions like doing drugs or heavily drinking alcohol can affect their future offspring regardless if they quit doing those things years prior to getting pregnant. Their kids are more likely to have birth defects, most commonly learning disabilities due to their past substance abuse.
1. They put their education or careers first 2. They look to settle down later 3. They have too high standards whereas the kind of men they look for have to be on the same level financially and educationaly or better but these high quality guys though have similar high standards value other qualities in a partner and are more forgiving than these women if a woman makes less money or is less educated. 4. The high quality men they like when choose younger women, so when these successful well educated women finish their education and are doing well in their job decide to settle down in their 30s the high quality men they want are either taken already or dating younger because they can. 5. Obesity. As you get older it becomes easier to put on weight and obesity is high In America. 6. Attitude. A poor attitude towards men.
One or all of these things generally add up to why.
I think it comes to two things: 1. My too high standards 2. Their intimidation of me
I won't lie that I would want my man to also have a great career, money, connections... so I kind of "look around" for those, but men like that are usually too self-centered and married to their jobs. They don't look woman with same qualities, they look for attractive woman who they can show off and who can cook them nice dinners and take care of their kids. Otherwise it feels like a competition. Then when I lower my standards and date men who are not so successful, I end up being dumped with "I'm not good for you, you deserve better".
Lots of people dont have happy, successful relationships today. too many people want to play games. Maybe some of them sifted through the filth and came up empty handed for the moment. There's enough garbage on both sides to go around. Rather than focusing on constant disappointment they turned to their work to lose themselves in it. This is what men have always done too, keeping themselves preoccupied. No one should date just for the sake of dating. I always advise women to be choosy about who they sleep with, if for no other reason than so they dont wind up pregnant by a dead beat or contract and STD or get distracted from their life goals. The reverse is true for me, dont get entrapped by a woman who's gonna do you dirty. You just have to take your time in some moments and re-center. Nothing wrong with it. Everyone has their own pace and no one size fits all.
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Easy answer. There are few adequate men left. You know, those, who are not afraid of being called gay for being different or having interest in style and appearance. Those, who aren't "emasculated" by her making more money. Those, who do not blame feminism (or women) for whatever. Those, who aren't butthurt about the Gillette's "the best men can be" ad. Those, who don't hate feminists or women getting tattoos or piercings or abs. Those, who don't call women gold diggers and sluts. Those, who have not fallen to the pseudoscience of "alpha" and "beta". Those, who do not fear, that women will file for false sexual harassment allegations against them. Those, who do not claim, that women belong in the kitchen or that women shouldn't work or drive or vote. Those, who do not make women feel like crap. In short: Lack of adequate men.
not true... they have access to everything... sorta... it's geographic dependent. if you're born a Yazidi in northern Syria in 2000 and ISIS washes though your community when you're 11 years old... you have access to a living hell. if you're born in the west at any time in the last 50 years then you just have to fight against societal norms (which is easier than at any time in the history of the Earth).
A feminist who is very successful financially said she is incapable of giving love in a relationship because life is all about herself but she also believes that men must give her things to show her that they love her. So a lot of those women just aren't suitable relationship material. They can't be team players.
In that case I must be the exception to the rule... I have an extremely successful career as well as having an immensely happy, satisfying and rock solid marriage.
you seem to be a solid rock of a personality. i applaud you and your successes. i might not agree with everything you post and i know you don't agree with all my stuff but i will admit quality when i see it... the thumbs up emoji doesn't do you enough justice.
I guess because you can’t get lucky with everything. I feel like it’s the same for me I got lucky with finding the love of my life but I have very bad luck with friends and don’t have anyone
People just either grow apart, turn out to be fake, or I try to hang out but they always make excuses. I tried making girl friends on bumble but nothing worked out
I failed at finding a long term relationship before I had career, so then I decided to focus on myself and career. I’d rather have a successful career and be single then struggling financially and being single, those were the choices a had.
Because women these days are only desirable for an ONS... their ideology causes issues with compatibility- and in particular the ones who are successful career wise tend to have the unattractive ideology (feminism, often more radical) that deters men.
Life is about give and take. If you want something your gonna have to give something up in order to have it. Most successful modern women have no reason for a man to be their. Most also simply didn't have the time in their younger days and their fore miss out on anyone who could have been a good partner. of course some of these women simply rejected some guys that actually wanted a relationship
Not everyone wants a relationship. Personally, I'm prioritizing my education (collage) and my life. I want to find a wife someday, but I'm not that desperate.
I guess? Being single is way better then being in a relationship in most ways anyway. You don't have to worry about other people's emotions/worries/problems holding you back. You can focus on things you actually want to do.
It is because modern dating society doesn't really do dates or get to know each other before a relationship. People hookup, then see where it goes from there if they enjoyed the sex which leads to quite a bit of toxic relationship and abuse
That book and others of that ilk (e. g. Men are from Mars...) are misogynistic bullshit. I know many successful professional women in happy relationships. All my friends have partners with careers.
I have not met even one A few that pretend they are 'successful' but in fact live in sadness. Unless you are living in joy, you are not successful, period.
Dude, after your update - women are fine, it is the transgender boys who _appear_ female that are ruining it. _They_ do not want to cook and clean, and _they_ are setting the trends since all they can do is that - they cannot give birth, do why bother with how to feed a baby or clean up after it spills something or poos on the sofa/floor etc
Bullshit, I don’t know women think men are intimated by material things of a woman, I don’t get it, no man cares unless men have been telling women this, better women say men aren’t interested in dating women who are successful woman, they are the worst women to date
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