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Do you care if your partner notices other attractive men/women? (Page 2)
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I'm not insecure that he is going to cheat on me so I don't care at all. I'm actually a little BI so if I see an attractive-looking girl I will point it out to him and we both joke about what we would do to her.
You answered your own question. You said "you don't expect him to not find other girls attractive". How you choose to deal with that is up to you. You'd be wrong if you DID expect a man to "never" notice another woman simply because he's dating you. That said, "how" he notices them is important too. If he makes you feel like you're not good enough, or you're not special to him and he wants to be with YOU, that's not good at all.
Many guys are able to not look. They’ll reassure you until u feel you can trust him.
Many guys feel they have to look. If he feels he has to look and says he can’t help it, to hell with him. Because who knows what else he “can’t help it”
does drinking your pleasure water give you pleasure
@AnggieGirl
Are you saying that if a guy looks, that means he will cheat too?
You know in my own personal experience, I have been guilty of this, although my last 3 girlfriends have done this together. They would ask my opinion of a guy and then I would ask their opinion on a girl. If there is TRUST in the relationship then there usually isn't a big deal. This is my personal experience and not the norm I think but I can only share my experience.
Just because you're in a relationship does not mean that you stop finding others attractive. My girlfriend and I just try to make an effort to not look at others while with each other because it is definitely rude to be caught looking.
Why would you want to hurt your partner’s feelings by making them think you’d rather be with someone else?
My partner is an intelligent girl that is realistic and understands you don't lose your attraction to the opposite sex just because I'm dating her. I'm not sure how you got that I want to hurt my partner and that I would rather be with someone else. What are you reading?
Well my love is sincere. Sure there may be other attractive people. However, I have enough respect to give all my time and focus to the ones who love me while they are with me and honor the. When they aren’t.
And if you’re cool with her looking and potentially second vesting you’re virtues to someone else you’re trash.
Oh wait you have a girlfriend but you’re single. Yeah okay cheater trash.
I'm not blind and notice lot of things. Do I react? Not always. If he finally found his ultimate love I won't be an obstacle and he is free to go but he has to make a choice. I don't share my toys with other girls.
It's ok, in front of him, look at other guys and then see his face and also check out other guys in front of him ;)
I'm sure that day, he'll fuck you hard hehe
Glancing is one thing, doesn’t bother me.. I do it too… but staring is another because guys don’t like it when it’s done back… I feel like that’s disrespectful.
When I was in college, the girl I was dating told me, "I'd get nervous if you didn't look at other women... cuz I know what you're getting from me."
I don't have a problem if my female SO looks at men.
It's alright we notice a lot of people in our daily lives out of which some are attractive too but as long as I know that I love someone and I won't leave them under any circumstances and she would too unless the relationship ends up in a fiasco. I think I won't go even if I notice someone more attractive.
I agree with you. I don't love to see my husband get distracted, but I don't want him to be a machine either. Sometimes we "notice" other people for fun when we're together.
Noticing is different than flirting and making advances.
@Cheechee4me Yes it is very different.
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I can still remember my ex-girlfriend getting flirted with by waiters openly in front of me and after a few minutes she'd lean over and kiss me and leave a perplexed waiter trying to work out what I had that he didn't
When men mature they still notice beautiful woman, they just get better at hiding it.
Woah wise words
I find it disrespectful if my woman did that. I do not do that at all. I only focus on her. I don't need to or care about other women when I have a girlfriend. I'll look at her and appreciate everything she has to the fullest 😊
I usually get mad if I see a girl look at him rather than him look at the girl. I’m not sure why I just do lol
You need to grow up. If you’re mad at her, you should be mad at him. He’s likely cheating on the side or will be soon.
@Cheechee4me okay babes
Looking is never an issue unless it was to become excessive, which is when you might have to ask what is going on.
I don’t mind, because it’s natural to notice other people as attractive. I myself even do it so I won’t hold him to different expectations
I don't. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you're blind to other people's beauty what matters is what he does with the fact that he finds someone else attractive.
Don't care in the slightest. Everyone does it, some more obvious than others.
Looking is one thing... Everything else is another.
It does not bother me at all, she can check out other guys. Often she will point out other women and ask me if I think they are pretty.