I dated my boyfriend for a year. He was my first love etc. Things began to change a few months ago. He had less and less time, and I was less and less important. I spoke with him about this, but things didn't change. I began getting my on life. We then broke up. I was tired of never being a priority. He panicked and begged for another chance. I told him that we could try. By trying he meant for me to be available 24/7. He did not want me to spend time with friends etc. He is controlling and has a very bad temper. When he gets mad, he doesn't listen to anything. I was put on the back burner for months. He cancelled plans, would ignore me etc. for months. So now that I have tried to move on he is very angry. He tells me that me caring for him was a lie etc. Our whole relationship was based on his rules and his schedule. I supported him and his busy schedule for months. Now somehow I am the bad guy. I asked him if he wanted to think about things, and he said that he had and that he was tired of being hurt. I am so confused, because he knows we broke up because he blew me off time and time again. So now I have hurt him? so my reply to that was OK. He then got angry and said that this was so easy for me. I said no I am just respecting your choice. I have not replied anymore. Please someone help me understand why I am the bad guy? becasue I don't understand
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