I feel like my ex blames me for everything.
Shes a complete hypocrite, pointing out what I do wrong yet she does the complete same thing sometimes.
Ive admitted I've made mistakes and apologized but she won't even admit she's done anything wrong.
I can clearly see she still has feelings for me even tho she won't admit it.
What can I do?
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I say you should just forget about this girl. There is no way you can get her to stop blaming you for things. She's mad at you, and clearly for reasons that have probably nothing to do with the things for which you are being blamed. I say hang around her just long enough for her to give you more grief one more time, and then tell her off. Just rip right into her, and tell her how you're sick of the abuse she's giving you. Tell her what kind of a fucking hypocrite she's being, really just give her shit because what she's doing is uncalled for. There is no reason you need to take this kind of shit from her or anybody else.
Once you've told her off, tell her to get the fuck out of your life and follow up by just walking out (if you're not in your own place), or tell her "get the fuck out of my house, cunt!" (if you are in your house), or hang up the phone (if this is over the phone), and really put this fucking cunt in her place, because it sounds to me like she really has it coming. From there I suggest block her number(s) from dialing your phone, block her from all IM programs, delete and block her from facebook, myspace, tag and all social networking sites and block her emails. If this bitch sends you a snail mail write "return to sender on the unopened envelopes. If you can think of other ways to completely cut her out, be sure to do them.
From here, what I think you should do, is go out, live your life, have fun, check out some pubs, indulge in your hobbies, maybe pick up a new girlfriend, get somebody nice, and ultimately just get over this frankly abusive ExGF in your life. Because really man, you can always do better than an abuser. It's just the truth man. I think the only way you can possibly send her a message is by telling her off, and kicking her out of your life, and I am pretty certain of it that she'll just be abusive right back at you when you tell her off, and she will only take you seriously after she realizes you actually kicked her out of your life.
I know that's probably not what you want to hear but as I see it it's the truth man. Worse yet I am pretty sure that if you ever let her back into her life she'll think she got away with this crap and within a couple weeks the cycle of abuse will begin anew. Nope. It's better you both go your separate ways and more importantly, better that you get over her and find somebody new for yourself. the cycle must end. You need to end it. Simple as that. Are you understanding me? I'm wishing you luck here man. Be strong. Be firm. Stand up for yourself. You deserve it. She has it coming.
Good luck dude.2
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