Why does my ex blame me but still talk to me?

[Magosmall06]

Ex and I split up last year, he reached out and started talking. It ended very badly as he use to put me down erc. We’ve been talking for a few months. But he keeps blaming me for anxiety. He keeps saying I give him anxiety and that he’s scared of me because of the way I am? I don’t understand. He’s the one that use to call me b*tch or tell me to f* off or call me an idiot etc. I never did anything like that! Why is he blaming me?

[TheBootyChest]

He more than likely still has unresolved issues and hurt from the break up.

And no, none of it is your fault.

[Magosmall06]

Thank you. I feel like he’s trying to make me feel bad for it all. But if it affects him that much then I don’t understand why he reached out to me and wants to talk etc

[TheBootyChest]

Because you are the only person who is still "willing" to talk to him.

[boggboss]

Because people rarely blame themself even if they are in the wrong

[Gingerguy33]

It’s not worth it keeping toxic people in your life especially ex’s that don’t respect you

[In_Trance]

Why do you talk to him?

[Magosmall06]

I still came for him and he said he finds it upsetting when I delete him erc so I feel bad

[In_Trance]

Come on...