Is a marriage doomed if you are already cheating when you are only engaged?

[Anonymous]

[bones_20]

Yes... why would anyone even want to go through the hassle of getting married if they clearly don’t care about the person tho? Doesn’t make sense to me.

[Asker]

Yeah crazy maybe she was his only option at the time and now he feel he can do better

[bones_20]

Cheating is not the way to go. It’s not ok to use someone like that and then cheat on them. If you don’t want to be with them then just leave.
Are these people you know?

[Asker]

Yeah the guy is from my old highschool and his girlfriend got pregnant and is due next month. He's just living a lie. Back in September he said he's always had feeling for me

[bones_20]

Well this story just keeps getting worse

[Asker]

It's fucked up honeslty

[bones_20]

Can’t argue with that

[Anonymous]

whether you’re engaged or not, once both parties agree to be committed, cheating is the biggest no no. It may only get worse from here, please be careful and make the right choice for your sake.

[Leonharted]

It would be if I were involved. If someone's willing to cheat once, then they are willing to cheat again.

[Petermorgan34]

Duh... You'd have to be retarded not to think otherwise!

[Asker]

Why is he going ahead with it if he's hitting up girls before he proposed and still doing it

[Seangreen]

If there's cheating before the marriage is only going to get worse after the marriage because everyone knows there's no sex after you get married

[Finchie40]

Yes, be thankful you didn’t marry them , end that shit now

[slatyb]

Depends on whether it’s supposed to be , onigamous.

[Mangospacho]

Yes. Yes it is doomed. Cheaters suddenly becoming faithful when the stakes are raised has never happened in history.

[888theGreat]

women do that when guy is loaded with money but not happy with the sex. She knows if divorce , she has a big check coming

[Anonymous]

No, people change… but it depends on why the cheating took place. This is too general.

[OlderAndWiser]

Is this a serious question?

[Anonymous]

Yup!!! A cheater is human trash and will never change.

[AmandaYVR]

Yes.

[kareenakapur]

Yes cheat once and will cheat again

[mobiusforniner]

Wow. Thats just bad class.

[Phoenix98]

This can’t be a serious question 😑

[clampfan101]

In grave danger, but not necessarily doomed.

[Anonymous]

Duh. It's doomed before it even started.

[Asker]

People are dumb to keep going ahead with it

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed.

[emperor90]

Yes once a cheater always a cheater

[babyv15]

Preach!!!

[saffoler]

Totally

[Lynx122]

Ehm yeah

[LiamSawyer]

Most likely.

[LiamSawyer]

It happened to me, and I broke our engagement and kicked her and her lover out of my house and my life.

[jahaims]

Duh.

[Asker]

people are so dumb to go ahead with it still lol

[Danny_dan92]

Yes, definitely

[Anonymous]

Leave him alone he deserves better than a hoe

[Luckycharms12]

Of course it is

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Obviously.