My boyfriend told me that he would engage me in 2022, but now he’s changed his mind. He said that he is only 21 years old and he wants to engage me when he is financially stable and is able to provide for me. We’ve been waiting until engagement to have s*x, and I am worried that he’ll just dump me and find another girlfriend who he can have s*x with, since it’s a bit of a long way to go until he is financially stable. He’s currently in his last year of college, and then he wants to do his masters, which will take up a year, and then he has to find a job, which will again, probably take some time. He reassures me every single day that he is not going anywhere, and that I am the one for me, but I can’t help but doubt our relationship, I have so much relationship anxiety. I don’t want to keep looking for reassurance from him anymore, because he told me that it hurts him how I doubt our relationship so much. But I know he’s a guy with needs, and I am just worried that even if it’s his decision for us to wait longer to have s*x, he’ll still end up switching lanes. I just don’t know what to think. Lol.
What do ya’ll think of this?
