Guy's can we get some honesty here: why do you sleep with someone and disappear? (Page 2)
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Because we only wanted sex but we knew that we wouldn't get sex if we just told you that that's what we wanted - so from an evolutionary perspective we learned that we have to lie our way into sex which is what we did - her "not being the right person" for me is just you overthinking it - I already know beforehand if I'll care or not.. And yes this is the most honest answer you'll get
I've not done this, but I can provide an answer. They do so because they got what they wanted. Many would rather move on to another woman and try their luck with her than stick around and see if it's better the second time. Doesn't make the man seem particularly virtuous, but then again good men don't go for the hit it and quit method to begin with.
It's all coz when a man just only wants sex... he would do all things to please you and once it got achieved... he wouldn't care about ur feelings. Coz feelings was never been involved in that...
Thank you for being honest.
I think that's as clear as clear can be.
He just wanted sex.
I can't be truly correct maam... but ya mostly if anyone does this... believe me they don't want any emotional relation only physical what they want...
For some, they KNOW deep down they'd ruin the woman's well-ordered world and they themselves cannot measure up to HER level of maturity. Best to leave with a clear conscience, despite HER choice.~
I've BEEN in that situation.
I like the idea of a guy knowing that he's not up to the mark and walking away.
I noticed a lot of guys here were quite happy to easily assume there was something wrong with the woman in question, insulting a woman for meeting the basic requirements to live and survive and be happy, whilst looking for a man to add to her life not save her from it!
Well spoken, Madame! <3
He just wanted to fuck her. He did. Now he wants to fuck someone else. (90% of cases)
He discovered she was bad at sex and that's a deal breaker. (9% of cases)
He was testing her, and he's not interested in dating someone he thinks is easy but will fuck them. (1% of cases)
I think it could be one of the reasons. If I slept with one woman and realize I don´t think we would fit together, I´d try to burn the bridges between of us because all she has to offer doesn´t matter if there is something that seperates us deeply.
It could be something that a guy might not consider important for sex but it´s different looking at a relationship.
There's a plethora of reasons..1. Might be some red flags 2. Might of not actually cared about any other aspect of your life besides sleeping with you 3. Might be busy and not have time 4. Might of wanted a casual fling for a little bit but not anything serious 5. Might be a dick 6. Might be trying sleep with multiple women and not settle down right now 7. Might of decided your not the person he wants... and blah blah blah etc.
Short and sweet answer...
If you put out quick, you lose all long term value.
Your job, house, money, friends, social standing, hobbies, etc are all irrelevant.
If you are attractive, he will want to fuck you...
if you put out quick, it shows you do that a lot which means you have no long term value.
The sex could be wack. If you're a woman that hasn't been w/ many high value men. You may just not have experienced a guy passing on u because of the sex. I just did this, was talking to a girl online met banged her wasn't impressed w/ the pussy, never talked to her again.
well cause after havingsex, the horniness about a person is gone and you can finally evaluate your feelings about them without horniness in mind. that often leads to a sudden realization, that there are no real emotions for that person. and this is very awkward to communicate, as it may come as a surprise to yourself.
that's just my explanation. I don't know if that's actually true.