It's a good thing I was taught to de-arm suspected mine fields, because that is what a relationship is. AN EMOTIONALLY INFESTED MINEFIELD. BEST TO KEEP A BAYONET ON YOU EITHER WAY. 🥴💫🐧
I learned that one should never judge too fast, and above all that one should always try and learn to listen to one's partner. Rather obvious, isn't it? But it takes time for this truth to sink in.
Other example when man live good older mature woman that cook clean and take care of you over a stupid 20 year old young woman thats useless for a man.
I'm not 100% sure of the point you're trying to make. I'm guessing you are the older mature woman and most guys are dicks.
To me, you're younger woman and cooking/cleaning aren't the main things I look for in a woman, (cleaning maybe:)) but in my opinion, anyone incapable of looking after themselves and their house shouldn't be in a relationship.
This could explain why I'm still single, not feeling worthy of being part of of someone else's life.
My sister was better at 20 than I am now... I know that was almost 20 years a go but surely parents teach their kids something these days... I know schools don't :(
I wish I could tell you, but I've really not had any genuine romantic relationships, and I don't really learn from anything I do in my love life anyway.
Trust is key and will she stick around in tough times. She is allowed to have bad days or days she is needy/clingy like me - recognize it and adapt. All relationships goes through ups and downs, its not just yours.
Never look back unless it's to remember a lesson. The woman is not always right but it's okay to let them think that. Narcissism he is very toxic. I'm not much into sex. And the women can be just. And I love non-traditional things.
I think we should all try to limit our alcohol intake, make "good choices", and not yell at each other unless there is an emergency. Other than that, it's all gravy ;)
To take things slow. People aren't always who they appear to be.
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That women are generally a losing proposition. Don't waste your time unless she's pursuing you. Otherwise you never know her true level of interest and you'll probably always be giving and not getting in return.
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They aren't worth it. It is best for me to stay single and I don't have to deal with the bullshit relationships bring.
It's a good thing I was taught to de-arm suspected mine fields, because that is what a relationship is. AN EMOTIONALLY INFESTED MINEFIELD. BEST TO KEEP A BAYONET ON YOU EITHER WAY. 🥴💫🐧
I learned that one should never judge too fast, and above all that one should always try and learn to listen to one's partner. Rather obvious, isn't it? But it takes time for this truth to sink in.
Don't feel too pressured to have one, all women want is sex and if you refuse, they won't see you again.
Ok, very small sample size and I wouldn't really call them relationships, also not really a lesson but just an impression I got.
Other example when man live good older mature woman that cook clean and take care of you over a stupid 20 year old young woman thats useless for a man.
I'm not jelous of younger woman just making a point here.
I'm not 100% sure of the point you're trying to make. I'm guessing you are the older mature woman and most guys are dicks.
To me, you're younger woman and cooking/cleaning aren't the main things I look for in a woman, (cleaning maybe:)) but in my opinion, anyone incapable of looking after themselves and their house shouldn't be in a relationship.
This could explain why I'm still single, not feeling worthy of being part of of someone else's life.
All 20 year old woman are stupid and useless they don't know how to cook or clean and still have their parents paying their bills.
I'm actually 28 but people always tell me I look 18. I look better than a 20 year old woman.
My sister was better at 20 than I am now... I know that was almost 20 years a go but surely parents teach their kids something these days... I know schools don't :(
Your sister is a rock Star I am talking about now a days 20 year olds
Try your hardest, even if it is out of your comfort zone, otherwise you could get stuck wishing for what could've been
Love is a feeling and a choice. You must actively work in a relationship to maintain love for one another. This concept is very misunderstood.
I wish I could tell you, but I've really not had any genuine romantic relationships, and I don't really learn from anything I do in my love life anyway.
Trust is key and will she stick around in tough times. She is allowed to have bad days or days she is needy/clingy like me - recognize it and adapt. All relationships goes through ups and downs, its not just yours.
Never settle for anything less. Don’t be with a person who will drag you down to their issues.
Never look back unless it's to remember a lesson.
The woman is not always right but it's okay to let them think that.
Narcissism he is very toxic.
I'm not much into sex.
And the women can be just.
And I love non-traditional things.
That his family is important. If he has a bad or toxic family that's not good.
I'm selfish and a very poor communicator and I end up inevitably hurting people while hurting myself. Not the healthiest guy here.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
That man will live a good mature house material woman for a much younger one.
To listen more of what my partner has to say and to never settle for less
I’ve learned that “ you don’t know , what you don’t know!”
Communicate well by asking specific questions before you get involved or fall in love for the wrong reasons.
I think we should all try to limit our alcohol intake, make "good choices", and not yell at each other unless there is an emergency. Other than that, it's all gravy ;)
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To take things slow. People aren't always who they appear to be.
That women are generally a losing proposition. Don't waste your time unless she's pursuing you. Otherwise you never know her true level of interest and you'll probably always be giving and not getting in return.