Do you think a marriage proposal should be a great public display or a private intimate moment? (Page 2)

[jshm2]

Neither it should be a family moment. Mainly as marriage is also a marriage of two households.

[Heartache0405]

Private, because doing it I. Public forces a yes answer because if you say no people will be shocked

[Grond21]

Any one can do it however that please, but I personally would only do one in private. Its a moment that I don't want to get diluted with anyone else.

[dragoblack]

Absolutely Private. We don't live in small villages where everyone would see/know. Same goes for gender reversals. Not everyone needs to, nor wants to, know your buisness or personal matters

[Anonymous]

Private, intimate moment for me, but I'm very much NOT a center of attention kind of person. I don't even like being sung happy birthday to lol.

[XXblack88]

Private. I don't like being put in the spotlight like that.

[sheikalana]

more on the private side but please ask someone to record it lol.

[ElliotsRipley]

I think people should make it whatever they want to make it
Every couple is different.

[LauraFalls83]

It depends on how you want to convey the message/question

Love can be displayed in many different forms

[Valso]

I don't know about other guys but I for one don't like being in the center of a crowd's attention, so I would do it in a private setting.

[TexasRed95]

Private. I can't get a date so there is no way I would propose as a big thing. And I have seen so many of them fail.

[TheBigGuy9]

Definitely private. People who ask in public tend to do it because they want to pressure them into saying Yes.

[Anonymous]

I prefer it to be personal
I have social anxiety. If my partnered proposed with a lot of people around I’d probably freak out

[genericname85]

Well depends on the level of humiliation you can tolerate xD i mean what if she says no?

[annabananna]

I prefer it to be intimate. A public one can make the person feel awkward if the answer is no

[Massageman]

At least semi-private - I proposed in a restaurant in a booth.

[Daniela1982]

Did she choke on her drink and spit it out when you asked her?

[Massageman]

@Daniela1982 Ooooohhhh. That hurts! :- ). Naw - she accepted.

[Daniela1982]

I mean in total surprise.

[Massageman]

@Daniela1982 No. She wasn't THAT surprised. ( We HAD talked about getting married before that point. (

[KatherineJ]

Mine was public, which I wasn’t thrilled about. But it depends on the people involved.

[blueflameleo]

Private if she says no that’s gonna suck in front of people

[Subarugirl]

I think it’s none of my business and up to the couple

[Paul09]

Isn't that what it's really about? Showing off? Overspending on a glamorous wedding.. I dont get it. Do it in private.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Neither. What if she just says yes because a bunch of people are around? What if he says no because the commitment isn't there yet?

[Deserter]

More genuine if private, can't put that sort of pressure on someone, especially not when it comes to something this serious.

[Anjaliii]

It basically depend aon the person you are proposing, if they like PDA they would like the grand gesture if not they might like it to be more private and intimate. You know them better you decide

[Buffy_Gee]

I'd rather have a private intimate moment, the most public I can get is proposing to my baby on a boat with dolphins diving out of the water into the sunset.

[clampfan101]

I think it’s all about personal taste. Both can be wonderful in their own way.

[Martha1996]

If it# public in nice quiet restaurant maybe. But in public like that not fan of that.

[Luopio27]

Private because public ones put up too much pressure.

[Anonymous]

You should hold a grand ball when you propose. 300 hundred dollar tickets. Dress up. Masquerade style. And then some.

[Abby005]

Private if asked out in public I would said oh hell no.

[ManHater]

Private, who the hell cares if these people get married they will usually divorce anyways.

[Joshua0213]

Private at first and if they want it we could always do it again in public sometime

[InferiorElegy]

As long as they don't ask me for help or to be there, I couldn't care how they do it.

[JohnQue74]

A little of both. It depends on the situation and the couple

[Mediterraneansoul]

Private unless it's done for attention then it isn't sensiere

[Anonymous]

That's like asking do you think ice cream should be chocolate or strawberry.

[Anonymous]

Private. It gives the one being proposed to an opportunity to give their honest answer.

[Cosmic_Natel]

Private is the best!!! People will already see their wedding or not depends on what she says🤷‍♀️😆

[urway2me]

I think it should be a private intimate moment. Youcan announce it to the whole world afterwards.

[Anonymous]

What if you get the sh!+ rejected out of you in public?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Private intimate moment

[Anonymous]

Our marriage should and will occur in Brazil in a private area

[coconut94]

I’d prefer private, no way I’d want it public

[Pleaznhim4me]

Marriage proposals gross me out.

[VanillaSalt]

Should be frowned upon altogether. Hate marriage.

[douride2]

I think it should be a private thing.

[petitedollbabee]

Private intimate moment

[malakaki]

A private intimate moment is enough.

[HighValue]

I'd prefer a private special intimate moment.

[RebeccaBI2000]

I would want out to be private

[Usernone]

As an introvert, I prefer an intimate setting.

[exitseven]

I wish I made a bigger deal about it.

[kitty71]

privatge private and private

[pleasestopthis]

I prefer it to be a private intimate moment

[awkward_author]

I would want it to be a private intimate moment.

[Layafell]

Wherever people prefer. I would be fine either way

[AlexEfron]

Private

[Babygirl_S]

It should be private.

[NorthwestRider]

Depends on the couple

[Staximus]

Whatever the couple wants, it's their wedding

[pizzalovershouse]

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