Do you think a marriage proposal should be a great public display or a private intimate moment? (Page 2)

[ohshee]

No I'm very private when it comes to that you'd have to be just me and her are very beautiful setting a peaceful quiet

[loveslongnails]

Do better be DAMN fucking sure she's going to say "YES" if you do it in public!! You'll look like a fool if she doesn't. I'm not for grand public displays on that.

[Lonewulf57]

Both scenes are where you might be regetted. You want to be in the place where you can recouperate your personal "energy" An extrovert would do this in a crowd. An intovert would prefer a private setting.

[loveslongnails]

@Lonewulf57 I don't agree that's always the case, but, no matter. Even an extrovert better know the answer before he pops the question.

[motownplayer2000]

I think, since society has placed it on the man to always propose. It’s the man that gets to decide how he does it and that the woman should accept it either way. If she wants to control how she is proposed too, or is mad that a guy did it in private instead of public.. that’s a serious red flag and he should not pursue her.. plus, a marriage should be a private intimate things between a man and woman.. according too a lot of people. So why do you need it public anyways?

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't do marriage proposals because when i'm in a serious relstionship, my girlfriend will know that our relationship will lead to marriage...

If and i'm saying IF i was a person who wanta to propose than i'll do it in private so that if she says no! I'll be able to bury her where she's standind "just kidding" 🤣🤣

[CrazyGirl2]

It’s entirely up to the couple involved. Personally while I think they are doing it for romantic reasons, none of us know you, and it can be a pain in the butt to feel awkwardly obligated to stand there and watch strangers getting engaged!

[Casey_Black]

Ben proposed to me in private. And I'm glad that he chose that. It's a special moment for me and him.

[Crazychickgold]

Private. I do not what strangers, friends of family to witness it because frankly if I say yes Its not gonna stay PG.

Plus, I hate turning something beautiful and intimate into a circus show.

[hahahmm]

If it hasn't already been discussed & the answer isn't known 100% for sure then it should be in private. Otherwise public is an option. I don't see the point of a public proposal with an audience.

[lrina]

Private. Definitely private. The other person may feel uncomfortable if you propose to them in public so it should definitely be a more private moment.

[Hürrem]

Private moment.
No need to show to the world nor gather attention from the crowd. What is important is the sincerity in both heart that is felt.
But hey, to each their own 🙂

[Margot1295]

For me, it has to be intimate. I don’t want loads of people there to see it. Also, that puts pressure on the woman to say yes and/or makes it potentially humiliating for the man if she says no. Marriage is an intimate thing between 2 people, and the proposal should be the same.

[Adam1978]

I would say do it private so there is no group pressure involved, it also makes a rejection less of a issue. You don't want to be rejected in full display.

[BCRanger10]

Public, as in proposing at a fancy restaurant, fountain, park, or something like that? That's fine.

More elaborate and over-the-top productions? No.

[slatyb]

I hate the modern trend of turning proposals and weddings into public spectacles.

[Crafteroon]

Private intimate moment.

The wedding is the public event.

[Jintendo18]

Prívate: The world doesn’t need to know all my business.

https://youtu.be/UtPkxzHKLpk

[melanieeeB]

I never understood why people feel the need to make it publicly

[molonski2]

Certainly private for me , I see no reason to try and make such an event public , no reason whatsoever.

[Lowiu]

Both first ask in private and if you have a yes you can make some big public like celebration without any pressure or anxiety for him

[BlackTealLazer]

Proposals should be intimate because it puts a lot of stress especially on the person being proposed to.