As soon as someone says, "It's complicated," it's a red flag to me...
That's like saying, "We're together, BUT (insert random nonsense or drama here).
Basically they're a headache and not a real couple... no thanks. Not worth my time or effort.
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Nah that’s an oxymoron in just the phrase. Relationships are work but they should be clear. Those types of relationships indicate a third wheel as another person on their mind. That will always be no good as they are hoping to go back or settling for you. Personally I’m no one’s second choice they either like me all the way or I’m outta there life is short time is precious. Don’t fuck off your time you only get so much that’s just my life philosophy it’s served me pretty good for a lot of years.
No, they are not. It should really be simple: Either you're in a relationship, or you're not; either the two of you really love each other or you aren't together. Relationships are not for children (people's feelings---just like their reproductive organs---are not toys to be played with); they're for grown adults who know what they are doing. This life is already too short and too difficult for such 'complications'.
probably not. if a relative passed away or something and it's hard on the other person and made it complicated on your relationship, thats understandable. but if that's not the case, then it's not worth it.
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It all depends on the person.
Some people are worth much time, risk and sacrifice.depends on the complications. most people have complications. question is if you can openly address those issues together in a loving way, manage the stress of change and get to a good place. Change and work required, but that's good a lot of times.
Is there anyone in this world not complicated by something? It's almost like code for "I'm not willing to deal with my stuff".Let me answer that question this way! What do you think the typical monkey brancher would say about "complicated"? A relationship is just that! A frickin relationship, NOT a single thing complicated about it. That person is either yours, or they are not. Trying to maintain in the middle etc, well that makes you an idiot, and the ones that care for you are simps and doormats!
I'm a grown up now... so I just can't get away with "it's complicated"
we either work shit out, or we don't, at all...Nope but I must say they can be fun. It's like a surprise egg, you never know what might happen and what stupid shit they say next.. are you going to be angry? happy? disappointed and hurt? Or just confused as fuck? You never know lol
Most the time no the complications is trying to make somthing work that won't
I think relationships or life is simple we make it complicated sometimes we have good days and bad days and as an human nature we focus more on negative things and complicate the things.
It's better to end things. No matter how hard you try but you're struggling.. and relationships provide love, care and peace. And if you think you can make it work and believe in "forever" and such stuff... then you're gonna hurt! Because there's nothing forever it's better to get hurt in a comfortable and mature manner rather than begging them in future ad being childish... THERE ARE NO HAPPY ENDINGS AND IF YOU'RE HAPPY THEN THAT'S NOT THE END!
Not if it instantly get complicated, but if y'all been in it for awhile and have strong feelings for each other then yeah it can definitely be worth it
Hell no. Did that before but I'm much wiser now. Any 'situationships' like that are only going to result in drama, friction, and ultimately your own unhappiness. Maybe even shame.
I like straight to the point, no wasting time. I am not getting any younger, complicated depends on what that means exactly.
Nah, time flies. One day you are 21 and then all of a sudden you are 30. Time just passes by SOOOOOO quickly. Don't waste your life; I did.
If you love the other, no hurt in trying to make it work. 50-50 chances. If you play the cards right 80-20
Tried that and I felt like I was always be played or my time was getting wasted…
Answering that is kinda complicated. On one hand the triangle situation may work and eventually only 2 people involved. I've also found that your complicated partner may never do that and enjoy the complication as always being that way
They are never complicated. Just a rebranding of dysfunctional.
Nope. We are together or not together there is no in-between that would be pointless.
Depends on how invested you are in the relationship in question.
Yes, usually it's somewhere between separated, non-mono, or ENM which I like.
A "complicated" relationship is not a relationship.
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