I have an attractive girlfriend that's looking for a man with who she feels safe and protects her. She found such a man. He is 6' tall with a 6 pack. He is aggressive. I've seen him shove guys to the side. I've seen him treat other guys rudely. He is there to protect her. So his reward is he gets a beautiful girlfriend.
I don't personally know any Alpha males but they sure do seem to have it made in life. Do you agree?
Do You Think Alpha/Aggressive Men Have It Better In Life?
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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Losers.
For now it's "sweet". But that's gonna end up ugly later. Mark my words.
There will be more where that will be coming from. He's obviously a violent asshole but she doesn't realize it. And neither do you. I see controlling behavior coming next.
aggressive men do not have it better... what they get is their ass kicked, become outcasts, jail time, unhealthy relationships and also get killed
and yes, I have stumbled upon towards few aggressive men in my life and the vast majority of them are also impulsive and stupid, the few who also thought they were "alpha" and can just start a fight against some (trained in combat) like me quickly realized that it was just not going to work and they got dealt with
a certain circle of friends of mine are in the lifestyle of boxing, kick boxing, wrestling and mixed martial arts... and the same pattern prevails, those men who are aggressive and also impulsive and more stupid, do not last long, and if they last they do not go too far
the ones who are smarter and more in control, tend to dominate in these sports because well, they are better at these things not because they're more aggressive therefore dominant on their field, they are assertive, smarter and resourceful... big difference right there
and like I've always said... it doesn't really matter much how well trained you are to fight, aggressive or not... a single bullet can always kill you, and any idiot with a fire gun can finish your time on this earth so... just don't get stupid just like that... be smarter than that
Men who can't get along with other men rarely do well in the long term, even if in the short term they do well with women. A "true alpha" tends to be the sort of man who is *capable* of such aggression, but chooses not to use it unless totally necessary. They're the "samurai in a garden" essentially. Any black belt martial artist knows that you learn to fight so that you're less likely to bluster your way into situations where fighting is necessary. The problem with guys like the one you mentioned is that it's only a matter of time before he shoves his way past a bigger, meaner dude who's not gonna take it lying down. And even if that's not the case, the fact remains he can't 'play fair' with other men generally, and so he won't ingratiate himself within the social fabric of his community / peers. Which, in the final analysis of things, is kind of a 'beta' trait to have. Ideally your girl friend should look for the guy who uses his aggressive tendencies in service of his 'tribe'. A guy who knows his 'dark side' well enough to know better than to let it consume him.
Alpha men don't strive and use aggression to get what they want. Aggression is a trait that is useful, but what they are is assertive which means they don't get hostile. They just say what they mean, mean what they say and don't put up with bullshit that breaks their boundaries.
Usually these men associate with like minded men or help men that seek similar goals and mindsets
Being in shape is only a part of the puzzle. Being "alpha" comes down to how you act and carry yourself as a man. How much accountability and responsibility do you have and own up to? Do you have enough confidence to talk the talk and walk the walk? Are you held in high regard and respected by peers, ie fellow men and women?
Men who can do this will have a better life in the long run, but it is never easy. You just learn how to accept it, deal with it and conquer it.
Have it better, probably in some ways. Although personally I never understood the attraction of toddler behavior. Cause the typical "alpha" behavior could be summarized as baby behavior, why some people find this attractive I don't think ill ever understand. It just screams insecurities.
Sounds like a bully with a lack of emotional maturity. He shoves other guys and treats them rudely? I’ve never met somebody who’s self assured and emotionally stable that acts in this way. I characterize an alpha by a man who’s able to lead. The guy who everyone looks to when there’s an issue. Some of the most badass alphas I’ve met was when I was in the Marine Corps infantry. Jordan Peterson’s book “12 Rules for life” illustrates the narrative that alphas indeed to have a happier and more successful life.
In general being attractive and matching the societal beauty standards is going to be an advantage in life. It doesn't mean your life is going to be perfect or that you won't have problems in other areas, but it's till an advantage in life. The halo effect is real and people (of both gender) who are seen as beautiful are going to be treated a certain way over people deemed unattractive. It's unfortunate, but it's the truth in many cases. I know assholes who get by in life because of their good looks, while I know good hearted dudes who struggle because they are unattractive or short.
How hot is this girlfriend of yours? And he may have a six pack which means he's working out, that's great, but there's more to it than just snagging hot biitches. There's no dude out there that is alpha ALL the time.
A man will vacillate between alpha, beta, zeta, omega, etc.. But most of the time I'm alpha and it definitely pays fuuckin off, not just with biitches but also being aggressive in going after goals and money. My investments are paying off already and there's no end in sight as to how high they can potentially go. I'll be so wealthy before my 40s it's not even funny. I may even be a billionaire by then.
As to getting women it's easy because I also have a six pack during my cutting (after I bulk and lift) and I have a pornstar sized c0ck. I'm also a BDSM Dom and have had tons of subs and slaves over the years. Even when they know I have other biitches on the side, they still stick around too. Being alpha has a lot of perks.
I suppose if they can look themselves in the mirror and tolerate the douchebag they see staring back at them. Lol Personally I can't stand being somebody I'm not. One thing life has taught me you get judged regardless so ya might as well be true to yourself and just worry about what your loved ones think of you.
There are no “alpha” males, humans don’t run in packs. A man thatlabels himself or others “alpha” certainly isn’t one. People who have some talent and the drive to see things to completion tend to be more successful and consequently more attractive. If your story is true, she will end up unhappy. That sort of behavior isn’t very successful in the modern economy.
If we talk about alpha as in successful men it's a given, and we don't talk about self titled ones, no they are just frauds. But success requires a lot of effort. And it really depends what you value in life. If it's worth trying to play in the top league or if your better of at a lower effort level.
I wouldn´t say they have it better in life because they more envyed and they have more obstacles to deal with like jealousy or false accusations. But they have a better discipline and better ability to deal and solve problems. Also being strong and fit they have a higher testosterone and are more likely to be happy with themselves.
That guy you are taking about is a dumb tryhard gorilla. He won’t make it very far. And ‘Alpha’ is not my favourite term, I like to call the socially dominant guys ‘high status’.
The guys who understand the politics at play in every part of life, those are the guys who are not only at the top of the heirarchy but they also control the heirarchy.
I do not believe in the existence of an "Alpha" male. Aggressive guys are just loudmouth assholes that eventually will get their heads handed to them by somebody who is bigger or a better fighter. Physically attractive guys often do better with women but guys that are talented and have their lives squared away are seen as most attractive.
Sounds less like a man and more like a douchebag/dick to be honest.
There’s nothing wrong with having the traits that he possesses but you have to know when and how to use them, something he apparently hasn’t yet.
Being aggressive 24/7 in life in going to do you more harm the good in the long run.
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Anonymous
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Im a nice guy. I get along with other guys
but i can also get very savage, and mean if another guy wants to push me
Being an asshole. And being an alpha male are 2 different things. You want Sombody with a brain, Whos confident. That thinks logically and clearly.
A real alpha male. Would be capable of doing horrible things, But knows better. Because he has a brain and doesn’t go there unless absolutely necessary
He sounds like a simp to me 🤷🏻♂️ It’ll be his downfall
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"Simp is a slang insult for men who are seen as too attentive and submissive to women, especially out of a failed hope of winning some entitled sexual attention or activity from them." He gets plenty of attention and sex from her. She told me so. She is ever so grateful that she met him.
Yeah women love the man with no honour who treats his fellow man like shit and does anything for pussy. I’m not gunna throw my morals down the river to attract such trash. Fortunately not all women conform to this stereotype…many like an assertive man who is reasonable
Alpha and beta is BS, in human society. There is no such thing as alpha or beta in our species modern history.
Not sure how old is your friend, but she is pretty naive. That guy is an agressive man. His agressiveness doesn't mean he'll protect her. In fact, is more likely that he will harm her.
Note: soldiers and police have certain level of aggresiveness, but the ones that do their job efficiently also has self-control; a behavioral trait your friend partner, doesn't have.
they have lots going 4 them but also big responsibilities and big expectations placed on dem. i dont think its an easy life but they are built 2 handle it
I'm 6 feet and tough but I don't try to push people around, that just means you treat other humans like trash. She's in trouble in the long run with that guy.
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Anonymous
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The guys I have known like that have been assholes but they certainly get more attractive women, so they have it better in that sense for sure.
@dolemite89 I don’t hate men lol, on the contrary I adore my husband, father and son. I just don’t tolerate sexist bigots who objectify women, weather that be male or female. They way I treat someone is based off of their actions not genitalia….
@dolemite89 lol you do realize that libido varies from person to person and that certain medical conditions also impact a person’s ability to have intercourse right?
There’s a medical condition that makes you not as attracted to your husband? if that’s true, how is it not absolutely killing you’re marriage? no offense, i’m just thinking from his perspective.
@dolemite89 you wouldn’t say that to a man with erectile disruption so why do you think it’s okay to say that to me. I’m willing to bet that you’ve never even heard of FSAD have you?
@dolemite89 Because a sexual arousal disorder is not an indicator of how attracted or unattracted you are to your significant other. Anyone who is actually informed on the topic would know that.
im not arguing over the semantics of those disorders, im saying how is it not super difficult on relationships? i couldn’t be in a marriage where the sex was once a month and she didn’t even like it 🤷♂️
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