Them deciding something over my head that influence or affect me. I should always be in the loop regarding these things doesn't matter how small they are.
No effort or enthusiasm. Lack of common sense or a sense of independence, can’t start or carry a conversation/hard to talk too. Thinks that they need to be chased all the time. List is about that long.
Sex being used as leverage or a bargaining chip. I made sure I can't get a girl pregnant, so when we have sex it should be because it feels good and we enjoy it
Lying, deceit, cheaters, theft. I had to deal with all those in my last relationship. That made it really hard to trust, so I have not let anyone close since.
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Not having an emotional connection or it for some reason breaking.
Also someone that is placid.
i need someone I can emotionally connect to and bounce off each other as equals.
Also lack of Communication.
Which also means breaking any of the Trust, Respect, Honesty, Communication things.
Them deciding something over my head that influence or affect me. I should always be in the loop regarding these things doesn't matter how small they are.
Someone who lies, being clingy / needy, irresponsiblility, being a slob and expecting me to always clean up after them , someone with no ambition..
No effort or enthusiasm. Lack of common sense or a sense of independence, can’t start or carry a conversation/hard to talk too. Thinks that they need to be chased all the time. List is about that long.
Not doing what you're expected to do in the relationship would be THE most annoying thing... ever.
Drama, passive aggressiveness, yelling, violence, or self loathing. Not necessarily in that order.
Babygirl, what's wrong?
"Nothing."
Come on, you can tell me.
"No, that's ok."
Two days later...
"How come you're never concerned with my problems? You never listen to me."
Someone who lies. Even if it’s the smallest things. Why do you feel the need to lie to me?
I've noticed several double standards in my past relationships.
I had female friends therefore im cheating.
But her having male friends is ok and nothing to be suspicious over.
Shit like that
Comparison: i refuse to be with a woman who will compare me to her friends/exes
Cruelty (which I have managed to avoid)
Lack of attraction
Someone with no goals, not trying to improve their life in any way.
Lies, distrust, jealousy. These are the first things popping up into my mind.
The relationship.
Don't let that live in your head rent free, deary.
Sex being used as leverage or a bargaining chip. I made sure I can't get a girl pregnant, so when we have sex it should be because it feels good and we enjoy it
Lies and drama, do either and I WILL show you the door!
unfaithfulness, dominating/retarded behaviour in general, cheating
Lying, deceit, cheaters, theft. I had to deal with all those in my last relationship. That made it really hard to trust, so I have not let anyone close since.
Cheating
Gaslighting
Making fun of your partner's hobbies or passions
The absolute worst is ; When a persons actions and words dont ever meet equally.