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Have You Ever Been "Falsely" Judged Or Labeled as Something You're Not Because Of Someone Else's Lies Or Words Against You? (Page 2)
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at this point of my life... no
I already have a reputation and I am fairly well known and people do not tend to doubt me or go about me with things that others say about me
it's been tried a couple of times, and it just didn't work at all... lol
Lucky you
@myabe123 yes... I know I've been lucky so far
a friend of mine was falsely accused by someone from a position of influence and power, and he was even told nicely that it would be best for him to just cooperate and go through the process so it is easier for him, otherwise... he would just lose a lot more money in court and/or spend a lot more time in prison, so he just took a short time in jail, and a little fine
I am pretty familiar with that and i never bother defending my self. Plus when they know i have a middle eastern background and i have a thick long beard, so i have heard all from alqaida, al shabab and isis "jokes" as they say. I am too smart to be bothered with such, but i find it funny and that's why i enjoy my work
Yes I have and the thought of it alone saddens me there's this wrong friend I made at college some years back who had to tell the most evil of all lies just because he had interest in the same girl I fell in love with as at that time and that ended my relationship with her and sadly some years after she discovered the truth of it all and then it was a little too late
Sorry you went through that💛🙏
Nothing beyond being called the usual racist, sexist, bigot, white supremacist, anti-science... uh... and other items on a long list of goofy stuff that's usually thrown at guys like me.
Yeah people be stuck on stupid these days lol
Now that social media exists, all of these "empowerment" movements, and politics are very polarizing. Yes. All the time with the labels.
Do I care, nope. I troll those that speak up at me, or i ignore them.
Most of the noise made comes from insecure people that dont want to improve so they deflect.
Right!!
Yup. Falsely judged. Talked about. Lied on. All that good shit. Stings when it's from people you thought you could trust, but such is life. Couldn't care less anymore.
That's exactly where I'm at.. Sucks when people you thought cared, try to paint you bad to avoid any accountability themselves, but the real truth speaks for itself... And what you "know" about yourself matters more than what "others" "think they know" or what "others" try to portray you as.. life too short to waste on the bus💛🙏
Yup. 3 sides to every story. Truth will always win. And when you know who you are and know the truth it don't matter what a mfn soul has to say about you. Same person painting themselves as a victim is the villain in someone else's story.
Not everyone paints themselves as a victim... Some people can own their mistakes, some try to put it at someone else's door... Me, I'll own mine, others need to own theirs🤷🏼‍♀️
Sure thing.
Very true
Truth will win for sure but it dies hurt when people beleive the stories with out knowing you
@mpodeszek indeed
Yes for sure hun
Often.
Thats honestly unavoidable, stupid people are going to misinterpret and assume, assholes are going to lie, expecting gossip and rumors (and at this point even images, text, or video) to not be fakes, is unrealistic.
We live in a world where fiction is far easier to find than fact, and even the nicest, most sincere, concerned people, lie and assume their way through life, for roughly 90% of the population.
Yes, I have but that will change one day. Until then I'll be doing me and be the bigger person like I always have.
There you go! Best way to beđź‘Ťđź’Ż
I’ve been falsely labeled, and certain assumptions have been made about me but I don’t think it was ever due to lies or malice.
Sorry if you've been falsely labeled, good though it wasn't because of someone telling lies about you..
Those days are coming to an end people are not taking it no more
I’m sure that everyone has at some point. As your post says, the most effective way of dealing with it is by just being happy being you.
Right!!
I know of some people that get real angry when they see a happy person. Their lives are so crappy that they can't stand to see someone who isn't that way.
@Cathy7734 and that’s the fun thing! I mean be happy for yourself, and let the negative people stew in their own misery.
I think it depends on where you are at. My Uncle is in the marines and he says you have to look tough and mean all the time or people will pick on you. Happiness and smiles is a form of weakness. You can be a target for aggression. That sucks.
I have had this happen and it bothered me for awhile, I realized if they want to listen and believe that crap nothing I can do about. That's their opinion, I'm not wasting anymore of my time caring
Right!!
Oh yes, there were horrible rumors about me in college one that I was ultra promiscuous and that I was a snob. Neither are true I’ve become a somewhat grounded person. Maybe I was a little promiscuous but not ultra, lol. And for the snob thing I was just born into an upper middle class family I had friends of all walks of life as an adult.
almost everyday of my life, but in the end its not my problem its their ignorance and stupidity
Great attitudeđź‘ŤI agree đź’Ż
thank you
Only by one person and at that point, he didn’t matter to me anymore.
Good you didn't let it get to youđź‘Ť
Oh, yes. But my reputation preceded me. The attempt crashed and burned. 🔥
It usually does, cuz real truth always comes to light
Yes, I think so too.
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I'm a man , we are all demonized and misrepresented by modern misandrus society.
I was always just looking for sex, never a relationship.
I was always a potential abuser.
I was always a potential rapist.
I was always guilty till proven innocent.
Because that's how men are portrayed these days.
Gellette... The best a man can get..
No, I probably deserved all the bad things people say about me.
Oh stop, I'm sure that's not true
I own it all.
Well yeah, I own my mistakes as well.. Just won't own other people's cuz have enough of my own lol
Oh yeah, it happened more when I was younger. Now never
That would fit, seeing it's an immature thing to try to do to people
People who I told that I have Bipolar I feel judge me
Sorry to hear that💛🤗
@Brainsbeforebeauty Thank you (( Hugs ))