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Would you be okay with your SO getting/giving massages from/to coworkers of the opposite sex at work? (Page 2)
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Mmm maybe. But even if I didn’t say anything I’d be instinctively jealous.
I would have an issue with it and I'd definitely let them knowI had an issue with it
On second thought I agree with you
Eh do they come to work for working or massage? It is definitely inappropriate and disrespectful.
Right!!
I would not be cool with that. I think that should be something reserved for couples, not flirtatious coworkers. I have a feeling those who have a same sex partner or spouse might be a little uncomfortable with the situation as well
If she's giving him a massage, biting her lip, no. If it's just for the sake of a massage, sure no problem
Even if she not biting her lip, I don't think I'd be okay with that lol
Why would she bite her lip? Is this some sort of a sexual feeling?
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I'm only okay with it because we happen to have a colleague in the team who does that xD
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I think doing that at work would be considered crossing the line of work ethics wouldn't it. I know people that have got called out for doing less then that.
I think so, but then again that would tie into my other post about people not having work ethics these days lolol
Honestly, it simply depends. If I trusted her and I knew it was about work; cool. If she’s being deflective, secretive, doesn’t openly introduce me, “work party/family event” then we have a problem. Depends on the guy I guess
My stance is a bit different because I'm also an LMT.
I wouldn't mind, since i don't see it as something sensual. I'd be lying if I said I haven't worked on a few coworkers shoulders before during break.
If I had a wife who did that I would be up in arms over it but would like to sit down and talk things over with her.
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Um, pretty sure something is going on there because thats not normal. And once things go bad, just watch the HR fallout, the he said she said drama and at least one of them quitting their job...
Good point. I can't believe I didn't mention this in my response.
That would raise my suspicions.
Unless she or he works as massager
Masseur*
Damned phone
🤣 don't worry I have a damned phone too lololol
Ummm unless your an exotic dancer or a massage therapist lol I don’t think it’s appropriate, unless of course your SO thinks it’s okay and knows. Normally when you have the desire to please someone physically it implies you may be slightly attracted to them at the least.
Exactly! Not to mention I think it's inappropriate behavior for a workplace
As long as clothes are still on from the bottom up, I have no problem with that at all.
Not everything has to end in a "happy ending".
Why is even yoni massage a thing?
You can't masturbate yourself or what?
Lololol I just think the work place isn't the place to be giving massages unless you work in a spa or massage parlor... And I personally wouldn't want my SO to be giving/getting massages from female Co workers, he needs a massage, I'd give him one when he gets home
In fact massages is done by people who does that for a living, which means it is done in a real back cracking kind of way, at least where I work.
Not in the instances I was talking about
Read the last part of my first comment out loud, or even yell it loudly.
Then do it with my first reply after that and then stop.
Still feel comfortable after that?
Lady you need to start thinking about your habits.
Feel uncomfortable afterwards?
Could mean that nothing is wrong with you and you are living a healthy life.
However, it could also mean that you are living in denial.
Do NOT take the generalisation above as personal what so ever, it is nothing personal in anything I write.
It really depends on who the person who is giving them the massage is.
I would find it a bit questionable tbh and definitely make sure to keep a closer eye on that colleague.
I'm a Massage Therapist. I've been giving and getting massages for nearly 30 years, about 3/4 of the time with females. As far as my wife giving massages, her hands poop out after about 2 minutes. yawn
Something i never want to happen , this is one of them
Agree 💯
I don’ t think that’s ok, and I wouldn’t do it nor let an opposite sex co-worker give me a massage; not even if I was single
I had a good coworker friend... Known for his magical message... Not kidding I recived one... I can't see you saing no because I dont like anyone man or a woman do that to me... When I recieved it couldnt say no after I couldnt even thing to complain.
I dont thing you will be able to say no to that... I mean literally he made another guy be like he was reaching orgasm... No joking because the whole room was laughing
Same here
Oops, wrong thread lolol I would say no if my partner had a problem with it
Same here..
It's possible they have an arrangement where this OK. They might even be more stuff than that. But I wouldn't like it if he did this on his own without me there and agreeing to it.
Yup, I agree that I wouldn't mind it if the massage is being given/taken when I am present or with proper previous planning.
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My friend told me her shoulders were killing her, so I had my boyfriend massage her. I was just too lazy to do it that night.
At first thought, probably would not bother me. Hard to answer, but probably would not bother me, as I am relatively liberal.
Yeh why not, only a massage. We just have a difficulty controlling one part. But with boundaries why not?
Cuz me personally, wouldn't want any women putting hands on my man, he needs a massage, I'll give him one when he gets home..
Well I answered as a single man!, lol
But if you weren't single? Would you be okay with your wife/girlfriend giving or getting massages from or to guys at work?
You have a point!, lol
Sometimes🤣🤣
I don't think that would bother me. It's a professional atmosphere and she wouldn't put up with any hanky-panky