Singles, what’s your description of a partner you wished to have?

[Anonymous]

For me:

-he’s needs to live life contended with what he have.

-don’t go after expensive items too much

- is a minimalist like me

-is kind, understanding, helpful, honest and faithful

-is not an addict

-is a virgin like me (I know that is hard to find)

-isn’t rich but earns an average income meaning not poor nor rich, this is why I avoid rich and poor guys due to the rich having to buy luxury brands to maintain a good impression to people he knows and the poor guys won’t have enough to support themselves.

- has to be either the same height as me or taller than me. I’m 163cm.

-willing to compromise together with me

-has to be honest no matter what as I’m someone who’s willing to understand

- is not obsessed with rich and famous celebs

-doesn’t need to be hot, attractive

-is willing to spend time with me whenever he’s free unless he’s tired and needs a rest I will leave him be

-doesn’t want kids

-is willing to make sacrifices

What I will contribute:

-i will teach him how to cook simple dishes

- have hot sex with him everyday

-be willing to treat him as an equal

- Be willing to make sacrifices for the relationship

-dividing household chores

-appreciate what he contributes to the relationship

-be honest with him (basically be everything I expect him to be)

[SlothySlob]

So you're saying you want someone who can use common sense and understands that a relationship demands that you both must compromise.

I guess from the list I could comfortably fill it, except for "doesn't want kids". Right now I don't, but I might in the future.

For what I want in my partner is... someone who can use common sense and understands that a relationship demands that you both must compromise. If we can understand each other, everything else is ultimately secondary.

[Asker]

I heard kids can cause parents to age faster than married couples without kids since raising kids causes stress which can accelerate aging.

[SlothySlob]

By that extent I could then say that being in a relationship ages you faster than being single since if you are in a relationship it will case some stress, and stress makes you age faster.

[Asker]

I mean if the partner you have is a good partner and is more mature it wouldn’t age a person that much right? Maybe a little bit.

[SlothySlob]

Maybe, but just loving someone to an extent is stressful. If you love someone, you also worry for them, if you worry, you stress yourself out.

[Asker]

Yes that’s true especially if he/she loses his/her job, going through losing a family member, going through serious addictions, etc.

[oh_k789]

:) Nice point. It's about giving one's own life sense.

[ChrisMaster69]

She needs to be someone I can really connect with, I need that emotional connection.

sort of a soul mate, someone I can feel next to me even when not with them

sense of humour, sense of fun.

sense of adventure, willing to push her limits.

likes helping out others.

intelligent, confident, an individual

[whereismyjohnny]

I think I'm quite simple when it comes to what I'm looking for in a partner, and that is kindness, loyalty, honesty and open-mindedness.

[whereismyjohnny]

Oh, and not being afraid to talk about or show his feelings!

[TheMajesticKing777]

Mine are quite simple, loyal, beautiful, kind hearted and care about me for who I am

[AviatorTom]

It's been said that the ideal woman is a chef in the kitchen, a lady in the living room, and a whore in bed. I don't think any woman is all three of those... at least I've never met one.

[Icybread]

someone who's always there, someone reliable and trustworthy.

[blissinanarchy1]

Virgin, puts in 100% effort in relationships, open communication, supportive, likes to cuddle, same interests as me, has goals, likes to horseplay, loyal, very intelligent, beautiful, and big butt.

[Iron_Man]

A sweet honorable woman That is there for you through thick and thin

[kit_kristina]

someone who is very very expressive about how he feels about me, and also someone who is very proactive and pursues and loves hard

[Anonymous]

Lol, I fit into your every description except I am already a great cook and cook countless dishes...

[Anonymous]

Loyal, honest, kind, and a virgin. Wants kids. Doesn't want pets. Doesn't smoke or do drugs.

[Anonymous]

Just Rich