Why is it everytime I start having real feelings for someone they do something bad?

[Anonymous]

I have crushes over there and there but when I'm about to start dating someone and things get serious they do something that makes us separe. Even if they were the one chasing me before. Why can't I get into a relationship?

[Honesttguy]

Real feelings? Do you have fake feelings as well? Gonna start dating and things get serious those two dont go together.
How can it get serious when u dont even date but gonna start.
And what does serious means to you.
Can u pls explain and ask again otherwise its just bunch of guess work.

[20yearsolder]

Just keep trying, if they are meant to be they will happen