Why do guys use nice attractive girls as their place holder while they shop around?

[Anonymous]

My personality is easy going, sometimes can be quiet and sometimes chatty depending on the person.
I love to go to the gym regularly and explore different countries. I also love to bake themed cakes and cook meals
I also work in marketing

[Stevefiveo]

I'm not sure about that. You sound like girlfriend material and I love the cake that you made.

[Asker]

Yes, I had some guy treat me like some low life girl

[Stevefiveo]

Sucks, that there are assholes out there like that. Hope you find a good guy.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because often times people are not completely honest and fear expressing their needs

[BarryLiverstone]

Are the guys you are interacting with ambitious and attractive?

[Asker]

I'd say medium nothing crazy

[BarryLiverstone]

But would medium be guys who other girls are also interested in? As you know especially in 2022 there are lots of options out there at our fingertips

[Asker]

I'm not sure what to do. I don't mind I'd they aren't interested it's the fact they treat me like some low life

[BarryLiverstone]

If you love yourself and are confident then you should be able to remove toxic parts of your life. If a guy doesn’t see the value you bring then why keep giving him attention?

[Asker]

So hard getting a boyfriend these days

[Asker]

I wonder what those other girls are doing that I am not

[BarryLiverstone]

Going to disagree with you there. While it can be challenging in certain situations there are many people committing everyday.

[BarryLiverstone]

Other girls are taking risks and trying new things

[Asker]

I might try bumble and see what all the fuss is all about lol

[BarryLiverstone]

If you want to take the lead and chase guys go for it

[Asker]

Yeah nobody chasing me really only if the guys want a fling

[BarryLiverstone]

Usually guys will pay attention if they like what they see constantly

[Asker]

I've had guys say I'm attractive but still didn't want a relationship

[BarryLiverstone]

Some guys are not wanting to be tied down. Anyway I’ve answered the question lol. Feel free to follow me if you would like more feedback