Do you apologize when you were in the wrong?

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Yes

No

Maybe , but not using word.

[ohshee]

One of the deepest most beautiful things that has ever happened to me was the friend of mine and I we were arguing I said this happened she said that happen and we stayed calm we kept replaying it over and over and I kept telling her she was wrong and she kept telling me I was wrong and I mean I played this through my head all day long and I kept telling her you're wrong and then probably about 3 to 4 hours into it I played it to my head again and I realized something there was a part that I missed and she was right and I was wrong and I had to look at her and say I'm sorry I am totally sorry I hope you forgive me you are 100% right I forgot all about this and I told her what it was and she goes oh my God yes you're right she even forgot about that she started crying can I see why are you crying I said I apologize. You know and told you I really am sorry it's because you're the first person I've ever heard admit that they were wrong I said well it totally affected me that I kept telling you know you were wrong and I said you weren't that I needed to acknowledge that and the moment I did that it basically changed my life in a lot different ways because I never have thought about something so deep to get to the truth and I was wrong so I had to admit it because I did not want her to think that she was going crazy or whatever but it was one of the most beautiful things I've ever done I mean I could feel it down deep when I said you know what I am wrong sorry

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Powerful

[ohshee]

It really was because in that moment I knew I was right and we just stayed calm and we just kept playing it over and over and I couldn't believe it how many times we played it over and over neither one of us hit that key point that made me say wait a minute you know what you're right

And the thing was even though I was talking out loud when it came to me I said it to myself internally and I said oh crap I am wrong and I sent to her for a few minutes and I played it again in my head and I didn't even have to say anything but that wasn't the point of the whole deal the point have everything was I didn't want her to feel the way that I was making her feel like telling her she was wrong and so I had to accept it and deal with it and it wasn't hard to do with it all I mean it's life I've been wrong many times before and I've had to say it but this time was powerful like you said and the moment I told her I was wrong it's like my whole body just we could metamorphose

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah pretty much all the time, unless it’s like a technicality and the persons is a bigger twat than me

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

😂 bigger twat than you 😂😂. So if that's the case then you withhold the apology? Lol

[littlemisssparkles]

I always feel bad if I'm in the wrong and hurt somebody's feelings, so I always apologize and try to make it up to them

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Excellent

[whereismyjohnny]

Yes (well most of the time). I have no problem admitting that I was in the wrong.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Most of the time so then you definitely weigh the options on apologizing, correct? I suppose there's nothing wrong with that I find myself honestly when it comes to apologizing I definitely make sure that I am in the wrong but I don't want to necessarily address what someone else did wrong if so cuz then that would kind of make me in my mind think I'm being petty

[whereismyjohnny]

If it was solely me in the wrong, I apologize without giving it a thought, like no problem. I'll try to make up for it too. But if both of us were in the wrong, but they are putting all the blame on me then I'll have to think about it (sometimes).

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Ahh. I see

[Chiarac2003]

Yes I’m in trouble if I don’t.

[moonpie89]

I do but I hate doing it

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Why's that?

[Blackcupcake]

I do

[Iron_Man]

Yes i do

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

I gotcha