Is it hard for you to apologize when you're wrong?

[Agape93]

[SteveSmith1985]

No. For me it's not difficult at all.

Once I can see that I was wrong (and if there's anything hard... it might be THIS part, sometime)... then I WANT to apologize.

It's hard for me if I realize I'm wrong, but it's not possible to apologize right away. That bugs the hell out of me. When I feel I owe someone an apology that I haven't been able express yet, I can't stand it. It gnaws at me until I'm able to apologize.

I might not always agree with someone, who thinks I should be sorry for something. In those cases, I'm not going to apologize. I'd never give an apology to someone I didn't mean sincerely. (there are for sure people who feel I owe them an apology. If I haven't apologized, it means I don't agree).

But I don't feel like I am someone who has trouble admitting I'm wrong (although it might take some convincing to get me to 'see' it. Usually, I'm aware I fucked-up though)

Once I know I've wronged somebody, for me, an apology isn't only easy... it's something I NEED to do, or it really gnaws at me until I do.

[DaveJord]

No I have no problem admitting when I am wrong, and when I am with someone who refuses to admit they are ever wrong... its toxic stuff honestly. I can stand it when people cannot step back and reevaluate a situation and admit they are sorry... or take any responsibility for how they contributed to the miss understanding.

This type of behavior is call blame shifting or refusing to take responsibility for their own actions... it's a hallmark sign of a person that engages in codependency type relationships and are usually highly manipulative people.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea. I almost never purposely apologize. I say “my bad” because i truly thought i was right 😂 On occasion i catch myself saying “I’m sorry” even when its the other persons fault but thats unintentional sorrys that i probably didn't mean anyways. A person will know when im truly sorry because i’ll try to get them to stop and listen, I’ll go into explanation mode and i won't use the word sorry. It’ll start off like “I really didn’t know/think...”. They better take it or leave it cause i ain't kissing ass more than a few mins

[DizzyDesii]

I have a bad habit of turning the tables to make them think they were wrong so that I dont have to be wrong alone 😂 Like if im wrong, you’re wrong. Thats the only way

[DaveJord]

@DizzyDesii Oh no Dizzy, that's not good... lol

[DizzyDesii]

@DaveJord yea its not good, its Grrreeat! Gosh i love me :)

[DaveJord]

On my goodness... lol SMH

[Emiliamazing]

Aside from big Pauly's thread, I am very good at apologizing. I think as a parent you have to be. I think if you want to be a fair individual and be a good example to the rest of the world, you have to be. Sometimes it takes others to make you realize you've made a mistake, but you must try to show respect and have the desire to admit you were wrong.

[OlderAndWiser]

No. I have learned that the easiest way to resolve a conflct when I am in the wrong is to admit it.

[Rosexøxø]

Ofc. I always apologize as soon as I can. I don’t like being in the wrong. So much so, I need to hurry up and apologize, so I can be back in the right. 😂😂😭 jk

I don’t like to be on anyone’s bad side whom I care for. If I’m on their bad side. I’m on a bad side, and that means I’m on my bad side 😂👐

[ShadezMcgee]

No, it's not an issue for me as I can take ownership and accountability. But it definitely is something people hate doing, especially when they have to admit it. People would rather die than admit they were wrong to someone they had the disagreement with

[mstbooblover]

No, it's not hard at all for me to apologize when I'm wrong. When I was a teen I learned by myself that apologizing was the best way to avoid building up rancour in other people, and meanwhile sincerely showing I understood having been wrong. This also made me feel better.

[scooogy]

The very first time it was hard for me because I did that in person after I saw her fearfully backing off due to an email in which I told her she better stays away from me after having rejected me despite quite clear signs the student's movie night beforehand.

Anyway I could make it through that and she calmly told me it's okay. But as soon as I told my therapist about that back then, I couldn't hold back tears about how wrong I was and how sorry I felt..

[jennifer_bloom]

I have no difficulty admitting my guilt if I do something wrong but I might be slow to communicate guilt to somebody who is vindictive and aggressive and will hold it against me in future discussions or conversations.

[desidoll]

No, I am very aware of my mistake and I easily apologise even when I don’t have to! However, it makes me sad when people around me can be so unapologetic and lack of empathy.

[worldscolide]

If I am indeed wrong? No, not at all. If on the other hand I'm not wrong and someone else is trying to convince me I'm wrong, to manipulate me, yeah it's hard for me to apologize. Because the apology would be a lie.

[Dinklex3]

Nah.

If I'm sorry then I'm genuinely sorry and want to express that to whoever I'm apologizing to.

[virtue2332]

Im okay with apologizing when I'm wrong but only for the percentage of my wrong that I can't blame on someone else.🤫😉

[Jaximus-Lion]

No. I am not one of these people, i am wrong about a lot of things and that is how i learn.

[Lionman95]

it depends on the occasion. In some cases I have it hard time when I feel embarrassed being wrong but generally speaking not that much.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

If I believe I'm wrong, not really. I usually have trouble apologizing when I think I'm right.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Depends on what the context is and to who.
Sometimes a sorry just blurts out, and other times it's super difficult. Like pulling out teeth.

[ManHater]

nope, because everyone is wrong at some point. If you are playing the wrong card because you want to get even with your man then that is the wrong way of doing it. It's not a right or wrong it's a finding common ground to the solutions.

[serious]

No, I can and will apologize if I made a mistake but I will only do that if I realize my mistake.

[BCRanger10]

In general, no. I recognize when I'm wrong and do what I can to make amends.

[FreyaRed]

No, but I don't think every person deserves an apology

[lightbulb27]

no. actually I apologize too easily and learned to slow down my response.

[whereismyjohnny]

No. I don’t have a problem with apologising when I’m wrong

[Ms_Facesitter]

No it's easy. But don't rub it in. There is no shame in being wrong.

[AnUglyBarnacle]

I do have a hard time apologizing when I don't care for that person.

[Brandi555]

Nope. I’m constantly apologizing because I always think I’m wrong.

[aaron210419]

No, making mistakes is part of being human and learning from them makes you a wiser person. Accountability is good for the soul.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, sometimes it can be wrong to apologize.

[sassyredhead]

No its hard for me to not overly apologize to keep people happy

[Sisters_Of_Time]

It is if the person who's right is being horrible to me.

[Noodle_fan]

nah , i am actually have a habit , over using " i am sorry" to people

[collie22]

Takes me awhile to Get to admitting then I need forgiveness

[BJP21]

I look like a puppy dog when I get called out for being wrong.

[moonpie89]

I will but I hate it because I rarely feel like I did something wrong

[Likes2drive]

Yeah, sometimes it’s harder unless it’s something stupid

[AngryCarl]

I don't tend to apologize. I just admit I fucked up and move on.

[Anzyy]

Yh I find It very hard. But i do apologise every time

[Alex8736]

when I am wrong I'll just man up along with apologize and move forward

[MrShaun]

I don't think it would be a problem. It's difficult to say whereas I've never been wrong.

[Cheerfull009]

When I am wrong, I never hesitate to ask for apology

[melanieeeB]

Nope

[jshm2]

No. As it's something rare to happen.

[FilmGuy93]

Nope... If I'm wrong, then I'm wrong.

[goaded]

No, not at all.

[Pink2000]

No. If I’m wrong I’m wrong.

[Danny_dan92]

No, when I’m wrong I own it

[LiamJHayden]

No, I own up to my mistakes.

[Pudsmucker]

It is quite hard for apology for me.

[Lis-the-librarian]

Of course not, im never wrong😅

[Pterodon]

Not at all but then I’m a man not a boy

[Twalli]

Depends on the subject

[bigpauly]

No, not anymore

[PrettyPriya]

Sorry, not sorry. 😑

[bigpauly]

@PrettyPriya you should be sorry 😞

[PrettyPriya]

@bigpauly for what?

[bigpauly]

@PrettyPriya bullying me all year

[PrettyPriya]

@bigpauly I am not going to stoop to your level of name calling. It isn't really possible to stoop that low anyhow. 😐

[bigpauly]

@PrettyPriya 😂 here you go again you big bully!

[PrettyPriya]

Perhaps it is the summer heat here that has got to me. I will let cooler heads prevail as it is getting late and was a busy day. @wicked_witch @ashleywonders @blackcupcake @emiliamazing

[Wicked_Witch]

@PrettyPriya I don’t know what he is talking about. He must not be getting enough oxygen down there or something.

[bigpauly]

@PrettyPriya @wicked_witch 😒😒😒

[Emiliamazing]

@Wicked_Witch i'm not sure makes sense to me? You're supposed to have a lower oxygen at higher altitudes. @bigpauly you're not doing any high altitude thinking again are you?

[PrettyPriya]

@Emiliamazing I can say with confidence that @bigpauly couldn't get high even if on illicit substances.

[Emiliamazing]

@PrettyPriya oh I hope he hasn't developed some friendships with the bad kids!

[PrettyPriya]

@Emiliamazing He runs with a crowd of bullies...

[Emiliamazing]

@PrettyPriya 🤣 it must be easy for him to sneak out of the house and tap dance his way across to the bad side of the tracks.

[PrettyPriya]

@Emiliamazing With his mini leather jacket. I would say with flames on the back but not enough room. Probably a lit matchstick instead.

[Emiliamazing]

@PrettyPriya that's perfect!

[Wicked_Witch]

@PrettyPriya the match! I’m dead 😅😅

[PrettyPriya]

@Wicked_Witch Hahahaha

[bigpauly]

@PrettyPriya 😑

[PrettyPriya]

I suppose too late to say sorry, so I won't. 😞

[bigpauly]

@PrettyPriya you still have time

[SnowedIn]

It is not.

[AviatorTom]

Nope

[Fireguy17]

nope not at all.

[chilldude33]

not at all

[In_Trance]

no, not at all

[BLP11520]

No, not for me