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When do men stop thinking "MY" money and start thinking "OUR" money? (Page 2)
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Yea it's a trust thing. You won't see anything until u get married.
The entitlement overtones here are so sadly gender stereotypical. Seriously what if the roles were reversed and a guy asked the exact same question?
The women of this forum would crucify a man who asked this lol
@admles no kidding.
@globetrotter22 it's amazing how on this forum the bid for equality seems to disappear when it comes to paying their fair share lol
@admles and they keep getting away because men enable them
@admles you know I often see some shitty female behavior and realize it’s partially due to evolution. Women for most of history looked to men for providers and protectors.
Now that’s no longer necessary but they are still struggling with their subconscious impulses. Some of them are self aware but an unacceptably high percentage of them still indulge this shit. They are too lazy to self criticize because society doesn’t check them.
Men on the other hand have some evolutionary behaviors that can be shitty too. We can be promiscuous, violent and abusive (treating gfs/wives like “property”). But of the last 50 years society has checked us f*cking hard over this. Some of it was justified (but other crap like metoo went way way too far)
But anyway men HAVE in general changed and listened to what women “say” they want. But vice versa usually falls on deaf ears.
Him growing up is you leeching off of him... Your mom drank when she was pregnant with your right?
*you
I stopped reading at living with my boyfriend. 💀💀🤡
It seems they like communism.
"What's mine is mine, but what's yours is ours"
Marriage, because our money is usually our money anyways
Poor guy. He should abort this relationship immediately. I'm not even sure why you would post a question like this.
I bet he is paying more than you think and more than his 50% share for common expenses such as meals, groceries, gas, car, etc.
When you stop behaving like a gold digger who wants mens money but not deposit anything yourself.
We risk being evicted when breaking up and guess who empties the joint bank account first? Not us. Look at the homeless and count them by gender.
Why don't you give him a few kids? Then he might change his mind.
What she's gonna say you give me money i give you kids 👻
@Aakash_Hangargi It doesn't work that way.
suggest that you share the bills based on Income... 40/60 or whatever it works out to be... wages for women are lower, and he should be supportive
When the woman earns more than he does and is willing to share it! LOL
Start working and earning yourself, nobody likes to be taken advantage off
Until you're married... It's his money. Accept it, live with it, and move on..
Funny to say that when you're demanding a more successful person pay you.
I start thinking it when she starts earning around half or more.
You need to tell him to pay a share in proportion with his earnings.
Dumbest shit I’ve ever heard in my life. Same reason why progressive income tax is dumb. He should become a dishwasher then he can chill and get high all day and let her foot the bigger bill
Once the ink is dry on the marriage certificate at least for some money but they should still have slush funds and other hidden balances off the record
probably marriage. and even then i expect a prenup that specifies nothing on divorce if we have less than 3 kids or less than 10 years marriage.
It may be easier to convince him if you both have some common goals like buying a home or having children together. The big “hold folks together stuff”. Show him your creative side!
You have to marry. Until then, a man will always be selfish.
How is he being selfish? He's literally paying the 50% that SHE wanted.
Your just a girlfriend lol. And you can't afford 50% maybe you can't afford 100% by yourself and should move back in with your mom
You have yet to explain to us why you feel like he owes you money.
Your money is your money his money is his money till you are married
Almosst 100 percent of young women are like you. You feel entitled to a guy's money.
You are the one that needs to grow up. Couples divide things 50/50. That's how is supposed to be.
He is right. A guy needs to save for his future kids and his future self. No girl wants a broke man to be the father of her children.
moment when women would start thinking "our body" and not my body
I agree with him. Combining incomes is for after marriage.
That's individual difference, everymen are not the same
When women will stop thinking my money is her money, and her money is her money.
Same as when women stop thinking "MY" money and start thinking "OUR" money
We do that when women earn as much as we do. My money is NOT your money until yours is mine.
When she stops spending beyond her means and tries taking what she didn't earn. Money = Life hours of your existence exchanged for fiat goods
The question should be, how can I manage my money better so I don't look like a free loader
the question is why is she generalisng
Lmao forreal
I don't know why but yeah we do seem to control $$ but its better the womans hold on to it
Fake account. This exact question has been on here before
Once you’re married. Until then, he can be as selfish as he wants with his money
That’s just him, he’s cheap. I had the same problem
After they get married... and learn about joint property...
Why? So later on you can claim it as your money?
I love the entitlement generation!
The moment I have money. Then it becomes ours🤣😂
Some guys never grow out of this
and you know this from your 16 years of experience in the world hey?
@admles my dad never did
yes and your dad is clearly a representation of all men
Nobody owes you money ya HIPPIE!
Grow Up!
I agree with him on that being for married couples
When she makes more than him.
What year is it? Can someone help me out... wow.
U ask him that after 6 months? Lollll
Lmao... ENTITLED WITCH
I thought your bible says not to judge... that sounded pretty judgmental to me.
Just a question.. why you feel offended? The scripture clearly imminates that God commands his follwers to disiciple his spirit to others as a reminder of the judge of all (GOD) .
And by the way all money belongs to GOD.
sounds pretty judgy to me. Aren't you called to love other... calling names isn't very loving.
Untruth is called out. Just as we also are commanded to exploit the demons.
And you do that by crying witch… you’re sooo Christlike
Why not? I can't call it for what it is? Yes i can.
You hypocrite
Your God would be so disappointed
@Djaay Ignore her. She's not even a believer. She just likes to troll and talk shit.
Obviously.. she's what i mention on my opinion thats why it erked her nerves.
@Jamie05rhs oh no Im not trolling, I just don't like hypocrite, especially the one who use the bible to justify their bad behavior.
@Subarugirl There's no bad behavior here; sorry.
@Jamie05rhs So calling someone names is good behavior? …. No, calling someone a witch is an insult. Also not a good look consider than women were literally burned at the stake for being accused as a witch.
@Subarugirl He was holding back. I'm pretty sure he meant "bitch.". He was trying to keep it clean.
@Jamie05rhs also an insult…
I meant (witch ) as in witchcraft.
So you’re bearing false whiteness…awesome
@Subarugirl Shut the hell up. Nobody cares about your opinion.
Subarugirl... Be careful how you use GODS words to try and condem one of his chosen. Blastemy agaist the spirit has its cureses.
@Jamie05rhs sweetie obviously you care enough to be so calm down
So you’re saying that you’re not bearing false witness by accusing this woman of witchcraft?
Just stop with your denial.
I’m not the one accusing random people of practicing witch craft…
Im not either... you admited it yourself.
you said "I meant (witch ) as in witchcraft. "
do you know she practices witchcraft? Or were you just making a false accusation?
Any man or woman who operates they're soul outside of GODS spirit and Holy kindom , principly are practicing the fundamentals of witchcraft
Dude... you could make it to the Olympics with those mental gymnastics. You're horrible at back peddling...
Sure , what ever you think
Jesus would be so proud...
@Djaay I told you she's a troll.
@Jamie05rhs oooh look who is talking. He literally called her a witch... with no evidence that she is one and they tried to back peddle when I called him out on lying about someone.
Jamie05rhs... Women these days think they're all empowered to talk down to men. But as GOD has commanded men to be above that and be leaders , here come those females cslling for equality (authority) the same as men so they feel they dont have to listen to men anymore. So you see , that x's out GODS spirit from reaching her and its also denial of GOD. I guess from that point... you can figure out they're eternal destiny.
sweety you are not superior to be just because you where born with a penis... that's not how things work. The bible also justifies slavery so... im not going to obey or respect and hypocrite,. just because he pulls the while " Im a man" card. Respect is earned... and if you don't like that then that's a you problem. I would rathe burn in you so called hell than "submit" to you. Meanwhile I will respect those who are respectable and that has nothing to do with their religious beliefs and everything to do with their actions and character.
When you make more than they do lol
It isn't gender based. Depends on the individual.
When you get married.
From Day 1 of getting married.
Why do you generalise men?
Very common on this forum
Bc you're not his wife you are just bedfriend
Never doing that again
Goooooold diggger hooooe
That's a can of worms.
Are you back again?