How would you react if your partner wants to try alcohol and weed with her friends (both male and female) from a resort?

[Anonymous]

If your partner want to take a resort at night and smoke and drink from there for the first time, how would you react?

There will be other both female and male friends along. We know how men think.

How would you react and what would you say?

[Screenwriter]

It's sort of when in Rome, eh? You're at a resort, away from home, on vacation. This is the time people often experiment.

What you have to determine is how you feel about this departure from the norm. You could say something, or nothing. You don' t have to partake, and as long as the friend doesn't get drunk or out of control, there is little harm in either.

[Asker]

But we cannot say what her friends would do

[Screenwriter]

WHy are you worried about what her friends will do? They aren't your responsibility or your friends, are they? And you can't control them. Again, if they get out of hand, retire to your room.

[jahaims]

Responsible use of either substance is perfectly safe

[Asker]

But all of them are beginners and I'm sure they won't have any sense after getting drunk and using weed.

[jahaims]

She is an adult. You have to let her make her own mistakes. It's fine to voice your concerns with her though.

[Asker]

Okay thanks man

[NathanDavis]

how do men think? since you say that you do know...

[Asker]

After taking weed and alcohol there might be a chance to happen something wrong. Isn't it? What's your opinion? What would you do if your partner wants to do that?

[NathanDavis]

so... when you drink and have weed, you as a man... do you really feel the urges to go around and do wrong bad things to women?

or is that all other men, but not you?

[Asker]

I've seen my friends doing that. I've never had weed with females. What would you do

[NathanDavis]

I would get new friends

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'd be alright with that, after all I'm out partying and drinking myself four nights out of seven in a week...

[TrillXHippy]

“We know how men think” how do men think? Please enlighten me

[Asker]

It's hard to control emotions for beginners