How would you feel if your partner offered you weed?

Question

I never smoked it, but she said she thinks that a little blunt could actually make my nerves relax. What about you?

Massageman · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't take it,  and doubt she would ever offer it.  But I digress - - - - Here is some info you should know before getting into cannabis as a drug - - Indica strains  are believed to be physically sedating, perfect for relaxing with a movie or as a nightcap before bed. Sativas  are said to provide invigorating, uplifting cerebral effects that pair well with physical activity, social gatherings, and creative projects. The effects of any given cannabis strain depend on a number of different factors, including the product’s chemical profile, your unique biology and tolerance, dose, and consumption method.  The cannabis plant is composed of hundreds of chemical compounds that create a unique harmony of effects, which is primarily led by  cannabinoids . The cannabinoids  THC and CBD ( the two most common) are the ones that are typically mentioned as the effective ingredients in pot.  THC (Δ9-tetrahydrocannabinol) makes us feel hungry and gives a euphoric high. This is the chemical fraction that can become addictive and makes it a gateway drug for some. CBD (cannabidiol) is a non-intoxicating, non-high-inducing compound known to alleviate anxiety, pain, inflammation, and many other medical ailments. An average cost for CBD-containing tinctures and pills is about 10¢ per 1 mg of CBD, or about $1 USD for a typical 10 mg dose. Be skeptical to prices that stray too far from this. So, a bottle containing 350 mg of CBD- regardless of whether it's one ounce, two ounces, or four ounces,- would run about $35 USD. Elixinol is a brand that has a good reputation and publishes the test results of each batch of product made.  Disclaimer-  I get no compensation whatsoever from Elixinol for mentioning the company, they are just a reliable supplier at the average price point for CBD-containing products.  Note: Products with under 0.03% of THC is considered by the US government to be "THC-free". If one is particularly THC-sensitive, even this tertiary amount may cause a bad reaction in them.

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Well its not my cup of tea, but it does have some medicinal properties so it could help. However I would warn against using it as a cruch as many do. You do want to resolve your problems and that will take time, self reflection, and probably counciling so while it may be useful and if your not against it for any reason you could try and see if it helps, I would say don't make it a primary source of help. Try to use it sparingly and only to get over hurtles while using other methods as your primary source of help.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

She's right, it does help a lot of peoples' nerves. I agree it might be a good benefit for you.
It's used legit medicinally for all sorts of health issues, and it's non-addictive, no one can die from it, and there's nothing synthetic or dangerous about it.
Stick with indica, not sativa.
Try just a couple of tokes and sit with it for up to an hour, just to make sure it agrees with you. If nothing, have a little more.
Don't do edibles. That's not for beginners (you can't control for the outcome as much.)

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Well that would be so sweet of him. he's not allowed to smoke or anything cuz he gets drug tested at work but he's always trying to talk me into doing drugs 😆😆

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would break up with them - I have no tolerance for that - and will not be friends with somebody who uses it unless they are brother or sister from church

pervertedjester · Answer

Same thing I always say "Just because you're sharing with me doesn't mean I will."

Dongtai · Answer

“Damn. She’s so pretty. But she smokes weed 🙄.”

I wouldn’t willingly go into a relationship knowing a girl smoked weed for recreational purposes. Medical would get a pass. Most people I know who regularly smoke weed use it as a way to escape emotional/psychological stress that “needs” to be confronted in order for them to keep growing as an individual. It becomes a crutch and those people become stuck. Sure “some” people are high functioning smokers but they aren’t the majority. Weed shouldn’t be used to escape personal issues.

Anyway, I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with a woman like that because eventually the burden of her problems would become my problem. I need a partner who is able to face themselves completely sober.

I would date a woman who’s in therapy before I would date a girl who regularly smokes weed because “it feels good”.

seansin · Answer

Take a couple puffs every night I'm a recovering Norco addict I do have arthritis in my shoulders and rip rotor cup pouring concrete for the last 25 years my body is kind of using be honest couple hits at night so let me sleep a little better and some aspirin I broke three ribs completely and lost 40% of my lung and did not let the doctor give me nothing but Tylenol even when I went in the emergency room in an ICU yes it was f****** painful but I was alive I felt I felt the pain I was on Norcos for 5 or 6 years it took 11 of them for me not to get sick so a little bit of weed I would be more than happy if my mate asked me I don't smoke a lot I won't smoke a whole blunt but I'll take a couple puffs

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I used to grow weed in bulk and distribute to my personal dealers. I've smoked it but smoking isn't really my thing... I prefer some beer. With that it depends on you as a person. Some people act like it's crack. Like they want to pick buds and smoke them before they're even developed... makes no sense.

Evan_aa · Answer

I’d feel special 😂😫.. These people in the comments are prudes.. y’all act like weed is free.. First of all she offering you something for free that she probably paid for.. You don’t even have to smoke it all, just take like 4/5 hits and you’ll be high especially since you don’t smoke it like that. It will make you feel good and you will want a snack. It won’t give you cancer or Make you crazy or anything.. sheesh. Put on a good comedy or something afterwards. It’s not crack or meth.. 🍷🧜🏾‍♀️

Primrose21 · Answer

I would never marry someone who do weeds and drugs.

Anonymous · Answer

I've been smoking bud for 47 years. Its awesome. People who have anxieties in particular are attracted to it. It does not lead to harder things and does not sap motivation. (I have a doctorate and a professional degree). Now that its legal (at least in the enlightened states-the "Blue" states) people are discovering the many benefits-low grade pain killer (addresses the Opioid crisis as opposed to the "Conservative" solution-just let them bear the pain). Addresses anxiety, depression, etc. Next to impossible to OD if you smoke it (although vaping can cause issues). Ridiculous it was ever illegal-glad I lived to see that put right

BeanieCoatman · Answer

I find it kind of petty to brake up with someone jus cos they offered you weed... a lot of petty girls here... really?
You will brake up jus cos he offered you weed?
Its not that big of a deal, like damn, how big must your ego be if you feel theyre not worthy if you, that you're so much better than them jus cos they smoke and you dont, and you feel so superior to them that you must brake up with them cos theyre not worthy of you... fuck off you petty egotistal bitches... thats jus ridiculous... if you brake up with someone jus because of that u must not really love them in the first place, if you loved someone it would take a lot more than that to brake off with someone

JimmyQ · Answer

I have personally seen pot ruin peoples lives leading criminal activity as well as death. The comparisons to alcohol are not true. Just like smoking cigarettes, alcohol can cause illness over a long period of time. On the other hand, pot alters your mind permanently the first time it is used, and your ability to make rational decisions becomes defective.

1stranger · Answer

I don't use it. But I don't want their to be harm either. My partner or my friend can do anything that will not harm themselves. I can't interfere with their life.

hammo21 · Answer

Weeds where it starts, its the gateway to a lot of great drugs that help you relax, i am also not trying to be sarcastic by the way, really want to make that clear

bobalife · Answer

Weed is not for me even if my partner asked me to try it. I hope you aren’t feeling peer pressure. It’s good to stay true to yourself and what you are comfortable with doing to your body. It does help some people with medical reasons though.

Bluemax · Answer

My wife had a visceral reaction to smoking weed. She opposed it very much. I avoid it, but her reaction was much harsher than my own.

Seher999 · Answer

I dated a stoner. He never offered one. He truly loved me but as much as he was good person with lots of issues and regrets in his life. I had say I will never date a stoner again. Call it generalising. Him smoking weed is a sign he has mental issues.

Randomawkwardness · Answer

I've been offered but I'm not interested. My dad used to be a huge drug addict and would get super abusive if he didn't have money for his next fix. While I don't care what other people do with their free time, I'm personally just not interested in anything like that.

Darcia · Answer

I’d be honored! Happy as hell! They would know that I like flower with a strain name. If it doesn’t have a name I’d still accept it. I’d smoke it and sniff it. Experience the high and mellow out. Thank goodness this became a reality when my spouse did finally took the opportunity to get me bud.

smalls95 · Answer

I would say if you’ve never smoked, don’t start with blunts. They can hit pretty hard with the tobacco involved. I would start with a joint or pipe. It won’t let you relax if you get too high for the first time. I smoke and so does my partner so it wouldn’t really phase me.

proteus912 · Answer

I would break up. I would never accept any type of drug from my partner

MissKittyz · Answer

I'd feel disgusted and betrayed especially since he knows it is a huge dealbreaker for me. But my partner doesn't smoke it anymore so will never happen.

SimpleRhubarb · Answer

He's smoked before, I've smoked before. He gets tested now, so we don't smoke together (and I don't regularly anyway), but if he were doing it, I'd want to be involved. Being under the influence alongside someone is fun, of course, but marijuana can impair your judgment. I don't think it would cause him to be unfaithful, but I don't trust him not to drive under the influence. His safety is the most important thing to me.

Lynx122 · Answer

Let me be your spliff therapist

JackSmy · Answer

Is that a problem, for some, if it is legal, where you live?
My personal choice is California Red Wines with dinner. Maybe hers is a joint, before watching a move, and pop-tarts at midnight?
I'll play that game, at least once, with the right lady!!

1truekhaleesi · Answer

Just politely decline. I've never smoked weed because I have always worried about how it would clash with my anti-depressants.

MrOracle · Answer

Given that smoking anything or any kind of drug is an instant deal-breaker for me, it would mean the end of our relationship. Though I've never had this problem - my position on this is made very clear from Day 1, and it's never been an issue for me.

es20490446e · Answer

I have dated a few girls that smoked weed. At the time I thought that was not something I would like to do, but not as bad to not date these girls.

I was mistaken. It never worked out well. All their lives go around weed, and if you don't smoke you are like alien and somehow implicitly accusative.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

I say why do people need to get high when they can use cannabis oils to mello out as why most say they used it but if this was true then through just use the cannabis oil an mellow out with out getting high an even over the counted products that make you high can ruin the kjved new evidence has shown this from over the counter stuff to booze pot to cocaine an so on

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’d consider breaking up if they asked. I’d definitely breakup if i saw them smoking it. I dont support it

theCobbler · Answer

I'd be Happy as Hell... I'm a 35 year pot smoker, ! Marijuana is Not the Bad Weed , that Your parents were told it was! For the most Important part about the
" Realm " of Marijuana, is That it is All Natural, and for me that is everything!
Granted , its not for everyone!!! But , for the most part it's safe! Have you ever got drunk, and the next day 🤒🤕⚡ ... well Marijuana doent do that!

Phoenix98 · Answer

I would wonder how long they had been hiding that from me because I won't get involved with someone who does drugs, even weed I'm really strict regarding that.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't think you should do it, man. And if you say no, she should respect that.

7771999 · Answer

I would ask what happened to her. Because she is very anti drugs.

jamesgoldman · Answer

It's great for my back pain so I'll take it but probably make brownies... unless she is smoking then hotbox it

ninjagirl_34 · Answer

I would be honored honestly. It will relax you, that much I can vouch for.

Papajohns · Answer

Like any recreational vice, it's fine in moderation

-Asca- · Answer

That would be close to a marriage proposal tbh.

Unlike alcohol you won't feel anything from weed the next day, so it is not a problem to smoke if you have work tomorrow. But it is a common thing to smoke wrong the first time and not feel anything at all or to start coughing really hard which is quite unpleasant.

StinkinSkunk · Answer

I've tried it once, but I wouldn't recommend it. Made me relax a tiny bit, but not enough to be worth the cost. It probably depends on what kind of person you are though, so I'd give it a try if you get it for free

midnightmoon05 · Answer

How would I feel? I was curious. I did try it. But I have no idea how to inhale.  Another time, it was in some cupcake. No effect on me.  Not something I need.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Nope. Not worth it. Not after what it did to my one cousin. JDB tea from China is a pretty effective nerve relaxer. With none of weed's side effects nor federal level criminality.

nomadia · Answer

If someone offered me weed I would be annoyed cuz the smell of it annoys me and it's also illegal where I'm from so I would never want to see that person again.

friendlymbflirty · Answer

Kinda depends on how long my partner and I have been together. If it was for a while (+1yr) then I might say yes, just to see what it's like in a safer environment. But other than that I'd be a no.

SweetDisaster · Answer

Lol there's nothing wrong with that, is your choice to join or decline.

Redstang88 · Answer

It’s happened before, usually say no. Just not my thing, never seen the appeal.  And I’m going in to a career that drug tests so I should get in the habit of saying no

Miristheiss · Answer

I do not date druggies. She couldn't be my partner.

R_ūshī · Answer

I'd like it. I no longer have a dealer. The guy died apparently and I don't trust any other dealer soooo... yeah I've been relying on my friends for that.

morimeme1 · Answer

He has as he prefers weed to alcohol on social occasions cause alcohols is well... you know how you feel in the morning. I have agreed at times but not really a big fan.

Neko911 · Answer

Break up. I don't do drugs and I don't associate with others who do

Helpmeplease10106 · Answer

Weed isn't a drug and its non addictive but you wanna take pills which could kill you and make you addicted alls weed does is make you hungery and mellow out with no stress

DonCachondo · Answer

I would be super offended because it would mean she has forgotten once again that I have asthma and that she isn't even noticing that her second-hand smoke is giving me a coughing fit!

mermaidia_lol · Answer

I'd be shocked and disappointed that he even smokes them himself.

hellacray · Answer

Ask her if she's going to quit. If she doesn't well then it's over.  I don't want to date someone that smokes. Cause first off I hate the smell and second I think it's a waste of money.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Like in the form of edibles or just to smoke? He knows it makes my anxiety horrible but edibles are alright.

igiem · Answer

Disgusted. I would leave immediately. Any and all kinds of drugs are vile and should be avoided like the plague.

Snickermarstwix · Answer

I don't smoke weed so I'll just say no but if she wants to smoke I don't care

roland77 · Answer

I'm not into drugs of any kind. So I will refuse her.

crazy8000 · Answer

She is single on the spot. Zero tolerance for drug's like that no matter if it's medical or not.

Trooper205 · Answer

I would be quite... Heartbroken! I know for a fact that my Girl would NEVER smoke, let alone weed!

Moonchild714 · Answer

Do they do Random Drug Tests?

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I'd say, ''No thanks"; it would be an instant deal-breaker.

_uck_uckGoose · Answer

I don’t have one but I’d love it. I like smoking when I have free time. Usually at night or on the weekends. It makes me relax and focus at the same time.

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