How would you feel if your partner offered you weed?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I never smoked it, but she said she thinks that a little blunt could actually make my nerves relax.
What about you?

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+1 y

Since I have to work tomorrow, for tonight I'll stick with some warm milk and honey.

[Massageman]

I wouldn't take it, and doubt she would ever offer it. But I digress - - - -

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[hellionthesagereborn]

Well its not my cup of tea, but it does have some medicinal properties so it could help. However I would warn against using it as a cruch as many do. You do want to resolve your problems and that will take time, self reflection, and probably counciling so while it may be useful and if your not against it for any reason you could try and see if it helps, I would say don't make it a primary source of help. Try to use it sparingly and only to get over hurtles while using other methods as your primary source of help.

[AmandaYVR]

She's right, it does help a lot of peoples' nerves. I agree it might be a good benefit for you.
It's used legit medicinally for all sorts of health issues, and it's non-addictive, no one can die from it, and there's nothing synthetic or dangerous about it.
Stick with indica, not sativa.
Try just a couple of tokes and sit with it for up to an hour, just to make sure it agrees with you. If nothing, have a little more.
Don't do edibles. That's not for beginners (you can't control for the outcome as much.)

[4eyes2mouths]

It certainly can be addictive. Your body can also depend on it if used long enough. I agree with the rest of your statement though.

[AmandaYVR]

Ok yes. Technically speaking the body does not become addicted to it in the sense of a chemical dependency, but it can be highly habitual. That is the medically correct way to say it.

[Apple1996]

Well that would be so sweet of him. he's not allowed to smoke or anything cuz he gets drug tested at work but he's always trying to talk me into doing drugs 😆😆

[jennifer_bloom]

I would break up with them - I have no tolerance for that - and will not be friends with somebody who uses it unless they are brother or sister from church

[pleasestopthis]

You tolerate a christian smoking weed, but not an unbeliever who smokes it?

[jennifer_bloom]

@pleasestopthis Christian discipleship is more important than intelligent friendship filtering

[Moonchild714]

So a Hypocritical Church Member can Smoke Weed but someone you're in a Relationship with can't WOW!!! That's more Messed up than Willie Nelson's and Snoop Dogg's Fried Stoner Brains...

[Primrose21]

This is crazy. You are ok with it as long as he is in your church?
Don't u think that makes it more worst?

[Paul09]

Lol religion is funny. They can make a sitcom out it.

[winterfox10]

Y'all DO realize that the Christian doctrine doesn't actually forbid drugs and alcohol, right? The closest it comes to saying anything like that is to place nothing before the believer's relationship with God.

[jennifer_bloom]

@winterfox10 I think of the bible as a puzzle - not everything is explicitly said - some of it should be inferred or hypothesized - it says your body is a temple - meaning honour your body - it says those who destroy the temple of God will face God's wrath - so you should not eat junk food or become an alcoholic or take chemicals which are bad for intellectual performance like weed or excess fat

[winterfox10]

The Bible isn't that much of a puzzle... it talks about moderation and balance very directly. You can take a strict approach if you like; it's probably good for you, but don't think that the Bible requires it

[roland77]

You mix up drug usage with religious believes. That is plain wrong on most believers.

[MrNameless]

you should talk to them about it first

[Victrixen]

Jennifer maybe do some solid research about cannabis before forming such fantastic opinions :)

[pervertedjester]

Same thing I always say "Just because you're sharing with me doesn't mean I will."

[Dongtai]

“Damn. She’s so pretty. But she smokes weed 🙄.”

I wouldn’t willingly go into a relationship knowing a girl smoked weed for recreational purposes. Medical would get a pass. Most people I know who regularly smoke weed use it as a way to escape emotional/psychological stress that “needs” to be confronted in order for them to keep growing as an individual. It becomes a crutch and those people become stuck. Sure “some” people are high functioning smokers but they aren’t the majority. Weed shouldn’t be used to escape personal issues.

Anyway, I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with a woman like that because eventually the burden of her problems would become my problem. I need a partner who is able to face themselves completely sober.

I would date a woman who’s in therapy before I would date a girl who regularly smokes weed because “it feels good”.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree and i dont even support it for medical purposes. There are other options

[seansin]

Take a couple puffs every night I'm a recovering Norco addict I do have arthritis in my shoulders and rip rotor cup pouring concrete for the last 25 years my body is kind of using be honest couple hits at night so let me sleep a little better and some aspirin I broke three ribs completely and lost 40% of my lung and did not let the doctor give me nothing but Tylenol even when I went in the emergency room in an ICU yes it was f****** painful but I was alive I felt I felt the pain I was on Norcos for 5 or 6 years it took 11 of them for me not to get sick so a little bit of weed I would be more than happy if my mate asked me I don't smoke a lot I won't smoke a whole blunt but I'll take a couple puffs

[D_Bone_Steak]

I used to grow weed in bulk and distribute to my personal dealers. I've smoked it but smoking isn't really my thing... I prefer some beer. With that it depends on you as a person. Some people act like it's crack. Like they want to pick buds and smoke them before they're even developed... makes no sense.

[Evan_aa]

I’d feel special 😂😫.. These people in the comments are prudes.. y’all act like weed is free.. First of all she offering you something for free that she probably paid for.. You don’t even have to smoke it all, just take like 4/5 hits and you’ll be high especially since you don’t smoke it like that. It will make you feel good and you will want a snack. It won’t give you cancer or Make you crazy or anything.. sheesh. Put on a good comedy or something afterwards. It’s not crack or meth.. 🍷🧜🏾‍♀️

[Primrose21]

I would never marry someone who do weeds and drugs.

[roland77]

Good girl!

[wisefool]

"do weeds and drugs." i guess you didn't do well in English class.

[Primrose21]

@Wisefool In some countries they mean completely different. The world isn't just about US and Uk. Grow up.

[wisefool]

in some countries, they burn off women's clitorises. what's your point?

[Primrose21]

@wisefool my point is u are dumb.

[Anonymous]

I've been smoking bud for 47 years. Its awesome. People who have anxieties in particular are attracted to it. It does not lead to harder things and does not sap motivation. (I have a doctorate and a professional degree). Now that its legal (at least in the enlightened states-the "Blue" states) people are discovering the many benefits-low grade pain killer (addresses the Opioid crisis as opposed to the "Conservative" solution-just let them bear the pain). Addresses anxiety, depression, etc. Next to impossible to OD if you smoke it (although vaping can cause issues). Ridiculous it was ever illegal-glad I lived to see that put right

[BeanieCoatman]

I find it kind of petty to brake up with someone jus cos they offered you weed... a lot of petty girls here... really?
You will brake up jus cos he offered you weed?
Its not that big of a deal, like damn, how big must your ego be if you feel theyre not worthy if you, that you're so much better than them jus cos they smoke and you dont, and you feel so superior to them that you must brake up with them cos theyre not worthy of you... fuck off you petty egotistal bitches... thats jus ridiculous... if you brake up with someone jus because of that u must not really love them in the first place, if you loved someone it would take a lot more than that to brake off with someone

[roland77]

There are a lot beautiful girls out there (and here, too) that don't do anything in drugs or alcohol.

[JimmyQ]

I have personally seen pot ruin peoples lives leading criminal activity as well as death. The comparisons to alcohol are not true. Just like smoking cigarettes, alcohol can cause illness over a long period of time. On the other hand, pot alters your mind permanently the first time it is used, and your ability to make rational decisions becomes defective.

[JimmyQ]

I'm not bursting on you. Just calling you out. Be straight and we will respect you. I know what you are going through and I'm sorry for all your pain. One day this government will finally understand and you will be allowed to live a better life, but till then, God bless you brother.

[1stranger]

I don't use it. But I don't want their to be harm either.
My partner or my friend can do anything that will not harm themselves.
I can't interfere with their life.

[roland77]

At least you can try to help him. :-)

[hammo21]

Weeds where it starts, its the gateway to a lot of great drugs that help you relax, i am also not trying to be sarcastic by the way, really want to make that clear

[bobalife]

Weed is not for me even if my partner asked me to try it. I hope you aren’t feeling peer pressure. It’s good to stay true to yourself and what you are comfortable with doing to your body. It does help some people with medical reasons though.

[Bluemax]

My wife had a visceral reaction to smoking weed. She opposed it very much.

I avoid it, but her reaction was much harsher than my own.

[Bluemax]

by the way, as teachers we agreed in our contracts to be subjected to random drug tests. It could cost us both our jobs and our credentials.

[Seher999]

I dated a stoner. He never offered one. He truly loved me but as much as he was good person with lots of issues and regrets in his life. I had say I will never date a stoner again. Call it generalising. Him smoking weed is a sign he has mental issues.

[Randomawkwardness]

I've been offered but I'm not interested. My dad used to be a huge drug addict and would get super abusive if he didn't have money for his next fix. While I don't care what other people do with their free time, I'm personally just not interested in anything like that.

[roland77]

So you learned from his behavior then?

[roland77]

Please just don't "dislove" him, help him to get off it. Try to make him go to a social institute who is specialized in it.

[Randomawkwardness]

Every child learns from their parents behavior and mine just happened to be a negative; however, I never stated nor implied I didn't love him. After my father was clean, he was one of the calmest and most caring people I had ever met and will likely every meet. Seeing as he committed suicide when I was 10, your suggestion is a little late now but thank you

[roland77]

Oh, sorry for you. And much welcome. :-)

[Darcia]

I’d be honored! Happy as hell! They would know that I like flower with a strain name. If it doesn’t have a name I’d still accept it. I’d smoke it and sniff it. Experience the high and mellow out. Thank goodness this became a reality when my spouse did finally took the opportunity to get me bud.

[smalls95]

I would say if you’ve never smoked, don’t start with blunts. They can hit pretty hard with the tobacco involved. I would start with a joint or pipe. It won’t let you relax if you get too high for the first time. I smoke and so does my partner so it wouldn’t really phase me.

[proteus912]

I would break up. I would never accept any type of drug from my partner

[Helpmeplease10106]

Weed isn't a drug

[musicbrain5]

@Helpmeplease10106 THC is a drug. https://www.dictionary.com/browse/drug

Even High Times calls it a drug hightimes.com/.../

[proteus912]

Yes it ia a drug. Eceryone knows that

[roland77]

Some people seem to forget to dig up dictionaries... Yes, same here @proteus912 Drugs have no chance with me, especially over a relationship. Next she tries, that I start smoking it, too. Na, yuck! Nobody can tell me that anything other than fresh air is health promoting.

[MissKittyz]

I'd feel disgusted and betrayed especially since he knows it is a huge dealbreaker for me. But my partner doesn't smoke it anymore so will never happen.