How would you feel if your date asked you to share a cigarette?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

As in smoking one together?
I wouldn't and did not accept because even though I smoke the occasional cigar I quit cigarettes and really detest their smell. She's free to smoke it though.

Warning - answer if you would accept or not or do something else.
Don't answer "I don't smoke and don't date smokers" because it's irrelevant and your answer will be deleted. Thank you for understanding.

[skrewd]

this all depends on the situation. if we are on our way into a concert that was no smoking, and we got to the point where we were each too close to finish the cigarette that we just passed it back and forth hell yeah that's fine. if we are just driving down the road in a car and I light up a cigarette I don't feel like it have to pass it back and forth. cigarettes are more personal than that. it's not like you're passing the dube. so, it's not romantic it's not anything else except for being cheap most of the time. so unless a special circumstance calls for it keep your cigarettes to yourself. at least I like it that way.

[Kaneki05]

Sure. I am opposed to smoking even tho i try not too and it's mostly just a social thing depending on who i am around and my date would be a factor in that social thing. I vape a tiny bit in my own time. I am not addicted at all and can stop anytime and one smoke wouldn't hurt. And if My So smoked well i would probably join in if i know were gonna be together. Cause it's nice quality time :) like me and my ex used to smoke every night at 3am ish and just talk about life.

[Kaneki05]

Not opposed*

[AmandaYVR]

Well, assuming we're talking non-covid times here...
I think it might depend on if both people are smokers, if they're both in the mood, if they both want enough drags on it that they would want their own. Aside from those aspects, I would think it's a bit hot to pass it over once or twice. But not back and forth constantly. Then each just have your own. I don't think about things like germs regarding this. If you have sex, everything gets exchanged anyway. That's the key difference between them and everyone else in your life, what sets them apart as your partner.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

She reminds me very much of myself in my early 30s.

I'm only a social smoker. I never bought a pack of cigarettes in my life but I'd occasionally bum a cigarette from friends. Yes, I did ask my boyfriend to share a stick with me. I never asked any man for such on a 1st date. I only asked and have been asked to share a stick after we've gotten to know and gotten comfortable with each other very well.

[1Sophisticatedme]

I dated guys that smoked before, and as much as they smoked, i noticed i would get very sick, so they had to start smoking outside so i wouldn't inhale some of the smoke... but it wasn't that they couldnt smoke it bother me. After they smoked they were respectful to wait at least one hour if they wanted to kiss me... lol. i used to smoke but i dont anymore.

[MrOracle]

Smoking is a deal breaker for me, so that wouldn't go well.

[DizzyDesii]

I see random strangers sharing cigarettes with randoms at work all the time and i think thats disgusting. This was before corona but im sure people still do it. They claim its not an issue since only the lips touch it. I remember my ex doing that with a blunt/black with some friends and then tried to kiss me after. I dodged him and told him why. I dont play that. Im not into smoking and wouldn't date a smoker as of now but i did in the past and yea, sharing is disgusting. He also tried to do that thing where they blow smoke in your mouth. I punched his ass when he caught me offguard with that

[Finchie40]

I share a joint so why not sure a cigarette , fuck it if the sex was amazing enjoy the moment after the cigarette is finished fuck her again , now if you really don’t like the taste of cigarettes then just be upfront my with her that you don’t like them but don’t mind if she she has one

[ZackBan]

I would share it.
I live by the conviction that I am the master of my own vices and would never fall into addiction unless I chose to.
So I don't really smoke on my own but I have smoked here and there so sharing one wouldn't be a problem.

[Massageman]

How would I FEEL? Well, that's not the same as "would I accept", though. No, I would not accept. I don't think I would feel one way or the other, unless if I had already told her (that thing you said I shouldn't mention). Then I would feel IGNORED.

[MuffinBoi]

I don't smoke at the moment and don't plan on doing so ever in my life. Not even to "try it out". So I'd politely decline

[Yuup123456]

I would say thank but but no thank you. I’m sorry I don’t smoke. That all.

[korey182]

i was going to answer but read the description, thanks for warning about that👍

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

No problem, I had to put it because last time I made a question about smoking a weird guy went around commenting under all girls' answers that they shouldn't smoke and then insulting them.
Thank you for reading it, I appreciate it!

[korey182]

haa which is funny cause i don't often read descriptions

[Anonymous]

I don't smoke so she'd presumably be taking out one of her own and asking me if I'd like to share it with her. I'd decline because I also really don't like the smell and I'd also not be thrilled that she's about to light up. I'd teasingly ask her if she's just trying to satisfy an oral fixation and offer her up a more fun alternative!

[emerald_17]

Depends, but it can be atrashy kind of hot. Like fuck it...

[Jaximus-Lion]

When i started smoking , it was at school and it wasn't easy to get a cigarette so if we get one , we will be 3 guys smoking one cigarette. I wouldn't mind it.

[pleasestopthis]

Before I used to share cigarettes with my ex (if we only had one) and other people.

[pleasestopthis]

I'd be okay with it.

[AdithyaR]

I'd refuse to smoke, let her smoke if she wants and just walk away.

[loveslongnails]

I'd say "no thanks, I quit. How often do smoke, truthfully?" If it was the very occasional smoke, I wouldn't care. By that, I mean I can't ever smell it on her breath or clothes, ever. Any more than that and it would be our last date.

[MountAverage]

If I was a smoker, I'd share. Why would someone not?

[codyccc]

Offended if were getting cancer lets do it properly with Cubans cigar with 50 year old scotch

[zagor]

That would be no. I have dated a smoker but she knew not to smoke around me.

[Cryptic-Game]

You say not to say I don't smoke and assume I'd date a smoker. I ask if they smoke early on. So it wouldn't apply.

[DerInuitHamburger]

First date? No, I'd give er a cigarette, but as time progresses it'd be a different story

[StarryCrossing]

I’d say what are you on? Because he doesn’t smoke lol.

[Freddy78361]

"If she smokes she pokes" so I would check my wallet for condoms.

[blutwolfe]

while I'm not against it, I'm more of a chew guy myself, I don't smoke, but if she really wanted me to id share one

[Drumlin2001]

Tried smoking a couple of times, never got the appeal. An occasional cigar on a special occasion only.
If offered to share cigaette, i'd decline

[Phoenix98]

I smoke cigars and pipe tobacco but I steer clear of cigarettes I don't like em. She's free to smoke one if she wants but I'd have to pass.

[regalvfx]

That's absolutely fine, some strangers share cigar's... Although I don't smoke myself, I have plenty of friends who have had this experience and it's safe to say, they don't mind!

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I don't smoke so I won't carry any if she has one maybe light it for fun while she is smoking I will encourage her then show cancer videos lol🚬😂👻

[_Jay_]

I mean if they only have 1 left and I dont have a pack on me. I dont really enjoy sharing cigarettes and other similar stuff

[jamesgoldman]

I wouldn't accept
I'll let them smoke it and light a cigar if I had the forethought to purchase one

[jhnny1331]

I would open my pack of smokes pull out my lighter light it for her take a drag and hand it over to her, what the hell else would I do?

[ryancg]

She's free to smoke all she wants, but I would ask her to keep the smoke away from me. I used to smoke but I can't anymore, my lungs can't handle it.

[abutaher]

I don't know about others. But I would feel negative.

[sweet87]

I'd say "yeah sure". And just before she'd finish it I'd say " if you enjoyed sucking on that I've got something else you're gonna love!".

[not329446]

When I was your age sharing was quite common. I quit when I got cancer. If you smoke I don't care. It's your choice.

[MysteriousDarkness]

That would be a major turn off since I do not smoke.

[DanaeAdam5]

I would politely deny.

[MrTuxedo]

I don't smoke, so I would casually deny.

[michael1469]

Id ask her if she har an oral fixation... unzip my pants so she can take the edge off... giggidy giggidy

[oualid22]

I would refuse and offer back a joint of hash.. way better.. you damage your lungs but get high too

[ManHater]

I would go and pick one up on the ground and say, Sure here you go!

[Paul09]

I'd said no thank-you.. Cigarettes are a huge turn off to me. Let's share a joint instead lol

[najekim]

Perhaps. Depending on the brand. Pall Mall straights? I may pass.

[Anonymous]

I'd break up and leave if she offered that. Nothing against smokers personally but I'm asthmatic and have almost died and been in the hospital due to people around me smoking. Sorry, smoking's a deal breaker :/

[Titlover2001]

I would probably accept. If she was hot and I liked her. And she smoked and wanted to I would try it

[Anonymous]

In my smoking days I would be OK with it, but those days gone...

[Aphrodite_1998]

Well I’d wouldn’t date them in first place smoking a deal breaker.

[Nic1330]

I don't mind sharing so I'd be ok with it

[JCT666]

I would politely decline.

[mikebeckers]

Cigarette? No.
Joint? Heck yes.

[kbharadwaj3125]

Its corona time so hell no.

[Mildra]

I would share it.

[Mustermann]

Are you a smoker or would you share it as a one off?

[Sweetener_]

I would feel disgusted

[ST00PIFY]

Honestly depends on mood.

[angeliquedevereux2]

First date? I'm out o' there

[Shark_61695]

I don't smoke "cigarettes" but I'd share.

[magiusX26]

"what brand do you smoke? i smoke xxx brand"

[soleil2666]

I'd be charmed out of my wits.

[Iron_Man]

Not a cigarette perhaps a cigar would be fine

[Fuentes]

I think she wanna fuck

[BoxySama]

I would just give her her own cigarette 🚬