this all depends on the situation. if we are on our way into a concert that was no smoking, and we got to the point where we were each too close to finish the cigarette that we just passed it back and forth hell yeah that's fine. if we are just driving down the road in a car and I light up a cigarette I don't feel like it have to pass it back and forth. cigarettes are more personal than that. it's not like you're passing the dube. so, it's not romantic it's not anything else except for being cheap most of the time. so unless a special circumstance calls for it keep your cigarettes to yourself. at least I like it that way.
Sure. I am opposed to smoking even tho i try not too and it's mostly just a social thing depending on who i am around and my date would be a factor in that social thing. I vape a tiny bit in my own time. I am not addicted at all and can stop anytime and one smoke wouldn't hurt. And if My So smoked well i would probably join in if i know were gonna be together. Cause it's nice quality time :) like me and my ex used to smoke every night at 3am ish and just talk about life.
Well, assuming we're talking non-covid times here...
I think it might depend on if both people are smokers, if they're both in the mood, if they both want enough drags on it that they would want their own. Aside from those aspects, I would think it's a bit hot to pass it over once or twice. But not back and forth constantly. Then each just have your own. I don't think about things like germs regarding this. If you have sex, everything gets exchanged anyway. That's the key difference between them and everyone else in your life, what sets them apart as your partner.
I'm only a social smoker. I never bought a pack of cigarettes in my life but I'd occasionally bum a cigarette from friends. Yes, I did ask my boyfriend to share a stick with me. I never asked any man for such on a 1st date. I only asked and have been asked to share a stick after we've gotten to know and gotten comfortable with each other very well.
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I dated guys that smoked before, and as much as they smoked, i noticed i would get very sick, so they had to start smoking outside so i wouldn't inhale some of the smoke... but it wasn't that they couldnt smoke it bother me. After they smoked they were respectful to wait at least one hour if they wanted to kiss me... lol. i used to smoke but i dont anymore.
Smoking is a deal breaker for me, so that wouldn't go well.
I see random strangers sharing cigarettes with randoms at work all the time and i think thats disgusting. This was before corona but im sure people still do it. They claim its not an issue since only the lips touch it. I remember my ex doing that with a blunt/black with some friends and then tried to kiss me after. I dodged him and told him why. I dont play that. Im not into smoking and wouldn't date a smoker as of now but i did in the past and yea, sharing is disgusting. He also tried to do that thing where they blow smoke in your mouth. I punched his ass when he caught me offguard with that
I share a joint so why not sure a cigarette , fuck it if the sex was amazing enjoy the moment after the cigarette is finished fuck her again , now if you really don’t like the taste of cigarettes then just be upfront my with her that you don’t like them but don’t mind if she she has one
I would share it.
I live by the conviction that I am the master of my own vices and would never fall into addiction unless I chose to.
So I don't really smoke on my own but I have smoked here and there so sharing one wouldn't be a problem.
How would I FEEL? Well, that's not the same as "would I accept", though. No, I would not accept. I don't think I would feel one way or the other, unless if I had already told her (that thing you said I shouldn't mention). Then I would feel IGNORED.
I don't smoke at the moment and don't plan on doing so ever in my life. Not even to "try it out". So I'd politely decline
I would say thank but but no thank you. I’m sorry I don’t smoke. That all.
i was going to answer but read the description, thanks for warning about that👍
I don't smoke so she'd presumably be taking out one of her own and asking me if I'd like to share it with her. I'd decline because I also really don't like the smell and I'd also not be thrilled that she's about to light up. I'd teasingly ask her if she's just trying to satisfy an oral fixation and offer her up a more fun alternative!
Depends, but it can be atrashy kind of hot. Like fuck it...
When i started smoking , it was at school and it wasn't easy to get a cigarette so if we get one , we will be 3 guys smoking one cigarette. I wouldn't mind it.
Before I used to share cigarettes with my ex (if we only had one) and other people.
I'd refuse to smoke, let her smoke if she wants and just walk away.
If I was a smoker, I'd share. Why would someone not?
Offended if were getting cancer lets do it properly with Cubans cigar with 50 year old scotch
That would be no. I have dated a smoker but she knew not to smoke around me.
I'd say "no thanks, I quit. How often do smoke, truthfully?" If it was the very occasional smoke, I wouldn't care. By that, I mean I can't ever smell it on her breath or clothes, ever. Any more than that and it would be our last date.
You say not to say I don't smoke and assume I'd date a smoker. I ask if they smoke early on. So it wouldn't apply.
First date? No, I'd give er a cigarette, but as time progresses it'd be a different story
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