Boyfriend won’t share his passwords, is this a bad sign? (Page 2)

Question

I told my boyfriend of two years that I would like to exchange passwords and he just said “no, not interested in your passwords” and I said “fine but I would like to have you’re still” and he hit me with “why, don’t you trust me?” And I said “it’s not that it’s that I feel YOU don’t trust ME if you won’t share” and he said “you’re not getting my passwords, there’s no need for it” and, wouldn’t discuss it anymore, I’m really pissed off now, I feel couples should have no secrets please, any advice?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know. I'm not a guy but I wouldn't share my password either.

EyeKnowMeNahYou · Answer

Why would it be important for you to have his passwords?

FrankC80 · Answer

Maybe everyone should have secrets. And keep secrets. Why are secrets so heavy that we need to let them go? My wife and I have been together for ten years and don’t share passwords.

IsoUser · Answer

Considering that I am a IT professional working for the US Army and Navy I wouldn't ever give anyone my Passwords Lmao

Guardian45 · Answer

You two have bigger issues than passwords! BOTH of you don't trust each other. You should NOT ask for his password EVER, and he should NOT refuse EVER. Go work it out!

Adronicus · Answer

I'd say the lack of trust in this relationships a bad sign.

boobliker · Answer

no they are private and it against the law to use some computer with there password the fedds could take you away

SignedAutographs · Answer

why you think you need your mans password i dk it'd be like me sharing my ssn with you. WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT

TallAnon · Answer

Nope, I wouldn't share them either, a bit of privacy is just nice. The more you pressure him, the more privacy he will long for.

jammcm · Answer

In a relationship there must not be any secrets if it is going to survive. It is time to move on. You can have my password. :)

OddBeMe · Answer

Probably. But it’s also an issue that you think you need them. Just that trust seems completely lacking. Might be easier to break it off.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Why the heck youd want his password or yours to be shared. So. E things should remain private, doesn't mean cheating or red flag.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

GET A LIFE!! WHY ARE YOU PESTERING THIS MAN? WORK ON YOUR INSECURITIES HE DONT OWe u shit

SeanshterMonster · Answer

It's good and healthy to have some privacy in your life

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Be grateful that he didn't break up with you. I would have left you.

rachel776 · Answer

i don't share mine with anyone

OnTheLevel · Answer

It's a very bad sign that you would feel the need to have his passwords.

Anonymous · Answer

You asking for password is definitely a bad sign that means you don't respect his privacy.

Twalli · Answer

The only reason you'd want his is because you don't trust him.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. Leave him alone with such matters. Passwords are private.

Echosoul · Answer

Demanding passwords is creepy. Trying to access your accounts is creepy.

Waldoe · Answer

no, it's a sign that he has been betrayed and you will need to trust him... so, he can trust you

Birbman · Answer

Don't expect your privacy to later be respected by him if you persist

NYlatefun · Answer

Well, there’s something called privacy, so he’s right, why would he share his passwords with you.

msc545 · Answer

it is a bad sign that you want his passwords. People need and deserve privacy.

driven159 · Answer

Everyone likes some privacy he does want yours because you need something of your own too

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it's a Bad Sign for him. You have no business needing his passwords. If you can't trust him then you shouldn't be with him.

Zygum · Answer

Verybody has his secrets, why to tell you his secrets?

Anonymous · Answer

Expecting your partner to give their passwords is abusive and controlling.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it is a bad sign that you would ask for that before marriage. Depending upon his job, it can also be problematic to ask after marriage.

BCRanger10 · Answer

It's a bad sign that you want it.

fonduegirl · Answer

Personal space is important.

Anonymous · Answer

I do not date so I would not give you the pass word

spartan55 · Answer

You are out of your mind.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Everyone needs privacy

Anonymous · Answer

Dump him... for his sake

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Its basic privacy everyone has the right for that

glennos89 · Answer

100% he is hiding something! No doubt about it

Anonymous · Answer

Why are you asking in the first place?

slatyb · Answer

Grow the fuck up.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

You’re being demanding

jimmy2 · Answer

Lol that why you should not ask

Jay3344 · Answer

Bosco

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Why should he?

In_Trance · Answer

You're the bad sign

Gaurav2 · Answer

You're Wrong here. .

Luckycharms12 · Answer

That's okay

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

İ think yes

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