GIRLS- DID U WAIT TIL MARRIAGE TO START YOUR LIFE?

[Sugar100]

By starting life I mean Living with guy, have baby. I’m 25 by end this year and next year 26. I’m empty in life and boyfriend lives with mom. I live alone and feel settled down in life. I don’t want wait til I’m 30-34 to marry and start life. I’m Ready now as I’m settled down and empty in life as I accomplished what I wanted already. I won’t be party girl til age 30 either. Im not that person. I’m a settle down women. I don’t believe you need marry to have kids either. that’s bullshit and my mom gets mad when I say that excited in her old days. She’s ignorant and innocent & don’t realize that don’t exist much in 2022

Yes

No

[Apple1996]

Nah I did things a little backwards. Had a baby, lived together then got married

[Sugar100]

Y backwards?

[SnakeBoop]

yeah nah.
Plus to many "start your life" isn't marriage and kids. To me thats a toxic mentality.

[Sugar100]

So what’s start your life to you?

[SnakeBoop]

starting your life is just living your life in a way that keeps you the majority of the time happy to me. whether thats by focusing on career, or family, is an individual choice. to some starting life is by exploring the world or cultures around them for instance

[LazerBean]

I got married before we moved in together. We were happy before, and are even more happy now. No regrets.

[Sugar100]

Yes but no one gets lucky to all get married at your same age 22, not everyone’s destiny is get married that same age. Some have to wait til 30s to be proposed to

[LazerBean]

Destiny is only half the story. Good choices and dating tactics are super important.

[IveGotNoName]

I want to be married before I have kids. I'm not planning to wait with the moving in part, however.

[Sugar100]

boyfriend don’t even live with me he jsut visit sometimes that’s it. It’s boring and depressing. All girls live with boyfriend I don’t hear any girl say they live alone Independent

[Sugar100]

What if you marry til age 30-35? U will wait until then to start your life? Wait 10 years? Lol

[Sugar100]

Not everyone gets lucky to marry fast at age 20 or 25. So it’s not fair for a women wait 10 years to start life

[IveGotNoName]

My boyfriend doesn't live with me either, and I live alone too. But I'm fine with it. To me "starting my life" isn't defined by whether I live with my boyfriend or not.

[Sugar100]

To me starting my life is living with boyfriend having a baby. I can’t have baby if boyfriend want live with his mom only

[Sugar100]

I’m settled down already at age 25. I’m not 18 , 21, I’m empty in life as I’m ready serle down. Settle down don’t mean marry , it can be start your fmaily no longer live alone but live with partner. I already accomplished my goals , have my dream studio home. I just work and alone empty daily

[Sugar100]

What if you marry til age 30-35? And u are age 19. So u will really wait 10-12 years until you start your life married? I have 5 years but I ain’t waiting that long.

[Sugar100]

Some people r ready earlier at age 23, I don’t believe you have to start your life til you are 30-35 only.

[IveGotNoName]

Again. My life isn't defined by me being married or livung with my boyfriend. I am completely contempt as it is now. We do plan on moving in together in about two years however. But I dont want kids until I'm at least 30.

[Sugar100]

I need find a boyfriend to plan live with me then. I’m 25 lol. At your age I wasn’t even planning with a boyfriend to live together I was alone.

[IveGotNoName]

Yea well we've been together for 3 years now, so