If you are in an open relationship, what rules have you put in place?

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Rules that keep you and your partner happy...

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

EVERYONE gets tested before anything beyond hand holding occurs, at least once.

We meet each other and make damn sure the situation is abundantly clear. If they have any issues with it, their time with us is done then and there.

If we go out of the area with someone, we tell each other where we go and when to expect us back.

Keep in contact.

Be safe and do as thou wilt.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

The reason i wouldn't do an open relationship is because I dont see how there can be rules. If we can't commit to eachother, whos to say we can commit to a set of rules/limitations/boundaries? Im sure most would say “just let me know who you’re going out with and when” but aside from that, i dont think partners HAVE to tell anything more since they agreed to see others on the side

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

I date girls with or without her. I have sex with girls with or without her. If a girl causes drama she doesn't come back. If i want a relationship with a girl its ok as long as she spends time with my girlfriend too and they like each other. Thats it really. She just gets to fuck new girls i bring home sometimes and otherwise has nothing to do with it.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

There shouldn’t be any rules because there isn’t a real relationship, it’s just 2 selfish people using each other that only like the convenience of each other , so an open relationship is pointless and some made up nonsense term that selfish people label it as

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

Personally I could never be in an open relationship. Not in a million years. Not in any universe under any circumstances. It just doesn't compute for me. Hope someone has some useful advice for you though. 🙂

Intothevoid666 · Answer

I’m strongly considering one and I def don’t think there is a one size fits all but for most people making sure the other person is comfortable with who else ur seeing seems very important. Like personally I don’t care if my girlfriend fucks other dudes so long as its only certain guys I don’t feel uncomfortable with and they only do certain things.

menina · Answer

I'm not in an open relationship, it's not something I would do. But I guess there has to be respect and communication like any other relationship.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

My very first relationship developed over years in 'open' relationship. Number one rule was "things that happen between us remain exclusively between us". Somehow my ex couldn't close her mouth and I started to glow on radar of drug investigators

billmunch · Answer

I'm not in an open relationship per se but if my wife has sex with other guys, it isn't a deal breaker

soe11 · Answer

No interference one another, respect eachother, trust one another, no binding eachother. It's my rules.

007kingifrit · Answer

she can see whoever she want on tinder once, after that if they want to be with her again they have to pay no meetups out of tinder and no swiping right on anyone she knows

Anonymous · Answer

The only rule is we discuss everything we are doing and meet everyone involved. It works well for us, and we have happily married for a long time now.

Anonymous · Answer

No romance or feelings can be involved. I get to pick out the other people, and I'm always present. Same rules apply to me.

ChasingtheWind · Answer

The girls should always save the face of his boyfriend in public places and in front of friends.

Chiarac2003 · Answer

I don't know if it’s an open relationship…. But my boyfriend picks who can be with me.

Xtendable · Answer

Transparency - talking about all experiences, before and after. This includes emotional leanings and growing feelings

Anonymous · Answer

I don't understand the open relationship or poly thing. Neither make any sense to me. But threesomes or moresomes are fun. It's a team sport and we do it together.

fireforeffect · Answer

An open relationship, in reality is no relationship at all.

HopefulGuy94 · Answer

The most idiotic thing that the human species ever invented so far lol

Anonymous · Answer

Has she always tells me what she's doing

MrTaboo · Answer

I'm the only guy and no new people.

scooogy · Answer

Her crotch and butt are mine and only mine 👀

Waldoe · Answer

condoms... always

Andres77 · Answer

Lofty goals

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Are you thinking about being in one?

Massageman · Answer

not in one of those.

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