What does emotional attraction + friendship + sexual attraction equal?

[Anonymous]

[mobiusforniner]

Thats the best feeling in the world... i take it he is not reciprocating?

[Asker]

No, he said he's looking for a girlfriend but he told me to not catch feelings after being intimate but I already have feelings for him

[JHNS98]

Then you clearly have different expectations between the two of you.

[Asker]

I don't get what else would be necessary. I know he deeply cares about me a lot though

[JHNS98]

I don't think he cares so deeply as you think he does. If so, you would already be an actual couple rather than this FWB-level thing. This whole thing feels like what I had with my friends with benefits last December, you can DM me if you want to know more about that dilemma.

[mobiusforniner]

@JHNS98 concur with JHNS98. If youve already given him booty, and he is not committed to you, thats a problem...

[JHNS98]

Sounds like the basis for a healthy, loving, committed relationship.

[Asker]

Why doesn't he love me then? We have those but it seems like my feelings aren't reciprocated

[Asker]

I wish

[JHNS98]

I don't know. Ask him, voice your concerns.

[Ihatethewill]

A relationship. I feel like that's painfully obvious.

[Asker]

Wow, that’s what I was thinking. He hasn’t asked me out but I’ll see him tomorrow so who knows what will happen. He knows I have feelings for him

[ZSean]

You do realize youuuu can ask him out right it isn't the dudes obligation

[Asker]

Telling him I have feelings for him isn’t good enough?

[clampfan101]

A relationship?

[Asker]

So the only reason why he hasn’t asked me out is because he’s in a relationship or it’s been sometime since I’ve seen him, or both? I’m gonna see him tomorrow

[Wise4myage]

Fireworks, lol.