Why am I still so in love with my child’s father?

[Anonymous]

If I’m away from him and I don’t see him I do OK. We have always had a tumultuous relationship where he would never fully commit to me. We ended up having a daughter together. He never wanted to be a family with us. My foolish self never let go of hope. I thought I was moving on until today he dodged a question of if he’s seeing someone. He said it’s none of my business. My heart shattered in pieces. No I can’t stop crying and wondering what’s wrong with me that he didn’t want me. It’s been a year and I still can’t seem to MoveOn. How do I get past this pain?

[Anonymous]

I don't feel bad for you. I do feel bad for your child. Hopefully your child's sake you learn from this. Doesn't seem like it's happening so far.

[Asker]

How dare you insinuate me loving her father makes me a bad parent

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't insinuate that. I'm saying you're focus is on the wrong thing right now. He flaked and that sucks. But why would you want a guy that clearly doesn't give a s*** about your child in your child's life.

[Asker]

He loves his daughter he just doesn’t love me. I want a family for her and I so badly. It hurts. Nobody should ever be in this position.

[Opinion Owner]

You're the one that said he didn't want to be a family. I tell you what. Get your story straight. Then I'll talk to you.

[Anonymous]

don't spread your legs for him