Is My LDR girlfriend cheating?

[Anonymous]

So am in a Ldr with my girl for 3 years. Recently she went to spain for a few months for work. She has a friend there who lives with his girlfriend and they agreed to accommodate her for the time being. Recently my girlfriend told me that her friend broke up with his girlfriend and that she moved to her parents. I dont like my girlfriend staying alone with another guy who recently broke up. I dont want to tell her that i dont like that situation because i might look paranoid. Yesterday she sent me a picture of her in the street and told me that her friend took the pictures and that she had a nice day. I can't think of her alone in anothers guys house,! Should i tell her that i want her to change place?

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

This is a tough one, you can’t bring up your insecurities out of nowhere because it come off as controlling.


I think you have to bring up like this “ hey , I know you’re having a good time there and I hope you continue to do so. My question is I hope that guy doesn’t try to place his feelings in your direction. People get emotionally vulnerable and unpredictable during breakups, sometimes they seek comfort anyway they can. Just be mindful because I care about you “

[TommyMountainFigure]

If you do that? You will no longer need to worry that she might be cheating. She'll dump you for it.

You have two very difficult choices. Neither of which are favourable, 1) You fight those feelings inside and trust her implicitly, or you tell her the paranoia that is going around your head is proving too much and you want to break things off with her..

I'm sorry but I DID tell you neither were favourable..

[Avicenna]

Her behavior is suspicious, so tell her what you don’t like

[exitseven]

She is far away and your mind is playing dirty tricks on you.

[In_Trance]

most likely