How loyal a guy can be in a long distance relationship?

[Anonymous]

how loyal a guy can be in a long distance relationship, espesially if both have not seen each other for a long time?

[teddybear16]

Me and my bf are in a long distance relationship for like 2 and a half years now... We have never met each other but we do text each other whole day... I really trust him a lot and he has always bewn true to me and has sacrificed a lot for my happiness... There are some guys u still can trust in a long distance relationship... We have has fights and everyone expected we would break up but we always forget and love eachother... I would say no fights or ego are greater than our love... Even i meet 1000 guys a day i am true to my bf... And so as he... We r meet soon in 2 months for the first time... I am really excited and please wish us long and a never ending happy life together

[littlezaliz]

I don't know how to go about mine. he was my Ex and we just got back but am in Germany and he is in Ghana. it been 5 years since I saw him. my heart tell me to go for it but my mind is challenging me a lot. i need help

[Anonymous]

I don't want to say this. but I have been in a long distance relationship. for about 2 years. She meant everything to me, she was like the shining light the shed light onto my dark path. She meant so much that I ended up driving over 5 hours to see her every 3 or 4 times in a month when I was with her. And yes. a man can be loyal. because I haven't seen her for over 5 years now and the present that she has given me. a single 4 leaf clover that he gave me. =) It is still with me. I know that it could sound like an excuse but there are true loves. that still exists in this world. God Bless. =)

[Asker]

Waw! seldom sees a guy so loyal:) nevr seen for 5 years!! but you still in the relationship with her?? waw ..thanx I wish true love does exist too:)

[Opinion Owner]

No... haven't spoken with her ever since... yet new doors open but it's never the same, and I am hesitant to open a new doors that knocks.... but what is important for me is the memories that I still have of her... the memories that brings smiles, which I am thankful for. =) I guess this is what love is. A true love.

[atkcody08]

My girlfriend and I made a relationship work for two years while she lived in Texas and I lived in Iowa. I only saw her when she came to visit her dad in my town (holidays, summer, and random weekends).

It was very difficult. but we made it work. We loved each other, and we stayed faithful. As long as you keep in touch, stay on the phone, and communicate. you should be fine. Just make sure the communication makes up for the lack of time you can see each other.

[Asker]

But for me is quite hard to see each other, cause I live in Asia and he live in USA..we can meet only when his summer holidays then he came here, meaning one year once :( we do call but seldom cause is expensive so we text a lot, but I will not know wheather he is loyal?

[AJtogo]

I believe it is possible in a committed relationship but the statistics say otherwise. Relationships need togetherness in order to grow and being apart doesn't allow for this. As well, it is so easy to hook-up with someone else to have physical needs met.

[Thanatos]

It's possible to be very loyal if the relationship is good when the distance hits for both parties. It all depends on the people in the relationship. I've had many issues with girls not being loyal once the distance gets entered into the equation.

[Asker]

Ok can I ask you another situation where a guy just broke up with his Girlfriend in his country and then with me when he come to my country, it is possible for him to go back with his EX? and how to know wheather he still likes her? thanx alot!

[Thanatos]

Wait, so he left his girlfriend in his country, came to your country, and then dumped you? Ummm, it's possible, I don't have enough information to give an accurate assessment.

[Hercules]

It depends on the guy, but I don't think a large amount of guys or girls stay faithful in these relationships, or at the very least just break up.

[Asker]

But what if the guy says and promise to be faithful? should I believe in his words?

[Hercules]

No relationships work well without trust. If you want it to work, you have to trust him.