Can you say at this very moment you are 100% Happy With being with your significant Other?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Yes I can say it, but I will assume you want the truth. First my SO is amazing, she's lots of fun, she's caring, compassionate and just over all awesome and I care about her a lot. We have talked about moving in together, but there's a few obstacles in the away that kind of puts a damper on things.

1. Her mother has dementia.
2. She has a 16 and 17 year old daughter
3. She owns three big and very hairy dogs that she adorns like they are her children.
4. She has debt and bad credit.
5. Her living arrangement is shaky.

So these factors are kind of distractors from the relationship. When we first met she would come over every weekend for the first 3 months or so. But then she needed to start spending more time with her kids. Which is understandable mo big deal, then her mother lives with her brother. Well brother wants my girlfriend to watch her mother every weekend. So now instead of every weekend its every other at best.

Then the dogs, I hate feeling like I live in a barn yard. I told her if she ever wants to live with me... those dogs aren't coming into my condo. I am not against having a dog... but not huskies hell no, and not more than one dog. This women has 5 cats, 2 rabits, 2 x pure German Sherperds, 1x German/Husky mix, and one pure Husky.

And she lives in a half converted garage, of a house that she owns. Yup, when she got married she put her house on Section 8 so her best friend and her husband and 22 year old and 16 year old could move into it. She got divorced and moved back into the half converted garage of her own house. She hates her friend, but can't force them out... its complicated

Then there is the debt... Best I can tell its not all that bad.. but her mother stuck her with a lot of bills when she lost her mind and ran up 40k in credit card debt in my girlfriends name... so she has money problems but she wastes so much money on the pets and frivolous spending on her daughter's, well mostly just the one.

So as far as dating goes I am like 85% satisfied, wish we could spend more time together. If we could spend more time together I'd be like 100% happy. But we can't really advance the relationship beyond that until her kids are both 18, she gets rid of some of the pets, and she and her brother figure out how they are going to deal with the mother situation.

Wubs3000 · Accepted Answer

Yes I am 100% happy. I love them so much and they are perfect. They are very nice, caring, fun to talk too. We have chemistry and their love language is also physical touch. (Plus they are very good looking)

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

Yep, absolutely 100% happy. Have been since the day I met him. He is a simply wonderful man. So much so that we marry at the end of the year.

He is a true gentleman. That seems increasingly hard to find these days. He does all those little things that make me feel special and loved. In return, I do the same for him. He has learned to take interest in things that I like and I do the same for him. It is a true give and take relationship.

Thats what makes it so successful and him such a great guy. He treats me as an equal and always has. I find it hard to think of negative things about him as a person or a SO. I guess I am just blessed to have him in my life.

InsideBeauty · Accepted Answer

Almost but not 100%. I think noone is 100% happy with their SO. In my case is partialy his fault and partialy it isn't his fault.

EllaNella · Answer

Yes. I am incredibly grateful for having him in my life. He makes me happy

sheikalana · Answer

I'm 200% happy and grateful that my partner chose me. We love each other so much.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Nope, not right now, pretty pissed at him actually.

Twalli · Answer

At the present time I'm far more interested in my bowels than my girlfriend, but today I am 100% happy being with her. It will be even better tomorrow on our 4 year anniversary.

Prof_Don · Answer

I am, and we are engaged after 5.5 years together!

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am more like at 200%.

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck no. She cheated and I stayed for the kids. I care about her but resent her.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope I dont have feelings for her anymore, my eyes are on this other girl

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Yep. Absolutely I can.

Guy13 · Answer

Nope…who can say that?

exitseven · Answer

yes, she is pretty awesome.

LazerBean · Answer

Yes, always!

EmmaMary · Answer

Totally 100% plus.

lofii · Answer

Nah she get annoying sometimes 🙄

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

Yes I can

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Yeah

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, definitely

In_Trance · Answer

Yeah

Can you say at this very moment you are 100% Happy With being with your significant Other?

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