Did you talk to your partner about the party you planned and get him to change his mind?
If you didn't it sounds like you shot yourself in the foot in an attempt to punish him by volunteering to work on those days.
You can't punish yourself and expect it to not hurt those that love you.
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You've been together for two years and he didn't invite you to a birthday celebration that he planned for himself. I would say that he is the asshole.
What an asshole (not you, him). You should break up with him for that. The fact he didn't invite his own partner to his bday party is crazy.
No you are not in the wrong, he made plans with out you so why would you do with him?
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Nice that you planned something for him. He naively made his open preparations. Maybe assuming you'd go, maybe not.
It would be natural to ask him about it, having found this problem. But having cancelled everything it would still have been wise to leave the time open just in case you were needed.
You get not to be the a-hole if you accommodate him on his birthday and don't hold it against him. Even if he didn't think of you.Sounds like communication is a problem for you both. Have a conversation with him, maybe explain what you were doing and how not knowing his plans affected you
What makes this worse is that you didn't bother asking him yourself.
You acted without thinking, which is bad in itself.
He could've told you his plans for hos birthday but oh wellHe didn't invite you? It doesn't sound like much of a partnership.
well some might argue that women belong in the kitchen if he's your boyfriend and all
i dont think you're an ahole tbh. if i were youu i'd definitely feel so upset
No you're a sweet little thing. He's a jerk.
That doesn't sound like you're being an A-hole.
Kick that motherfucker’s ass to the planet Uranus
Yes, you are
Complete shit go
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