Is emotional health is okay?

[Anonymous]

So we both confessed. My feelings for him are pure but I notice something bad, my feelings is on&off. (Our relationship is still fresh) suddenly I feel nothing.. maybe I'm bothered because of his ex or for not trusting him yet?

We already made a foundation and friendship before we become lovers.

[Anonymous]

Look up the “ebb and flow” of a relationship. It’s normal, you don’t constantly feel lovey dovey towards your S. O., sometimes you have periods where you just feel disconnected to them - it’s all natural (especially when you’re still building the foundation for trust).

[TheMajesticKing777]

What anon said down there, lowkey that pinky seems more informed on the topic than me, ebb and flow sounds legit

[Opinion Owner]

@TheMajesticKing777 lol I learned that from my therapist, can’t take any of the credit

[TheMajesticKing777]

I commented on your opinion? Damn I was aiming to make my own, I'm trippin, either ways tho, that therapist must know his shit cause it sounds like he does

[Asker]

What's ebb ang flow?

[Opinion Owner]

Copied this from google but this sums it all up:

“All relationships go through a natural series of ebbs and flows. We all have periods where we feel connected—sometimes deeply so. And then there will be periods where the connection isn’t nearly as strong. Or may even feel absent.”

“Relationships ebb and flow, like the waves of the sea. They swell with intimacy, passion, and energy and then naturally wane through periodic episodes of separateness, quietness and space. Attachment and connection, followed by detachment and disconnection.”