Is it true a man will never be with one woman only even when still in a relationship?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

No, it's not true - UNLESS you are only focused on the top 10% of men (which are the only men that most women care about - they generally ignore the other 90% completely). Top 10% men have 80% of the women trying to get with them, so they know they can bang all the girls they want and never have to commit to any of them, so the vast majority of them do just that. And girls know this too - most are completely aware of the history of the guys they choose to date, but they overlook it because they believe that, somehow, things will be different with her. Then the dude ghosts her or cheats on her, and she's hurt and "surprised."

Men who are serious about relationships and want a life-long relationship are ALREADY that way - and if you ask them, they'll tell you so. And just the same, men who don't want a committed relationship usually are pretty open about that too. Hundreds, probably thousands of women have posted a question on GaG that more-or-less says "he told me he doesn't want anything serious, but I want a real relationship - do you think he'll change his mind and commit?" NO! Of course not! That guy was NEVER a "relationship guy" - but that's the guy that women always run to, and think they can CHANGE. You CANNOT change a guy, and if you try to date a guy who isn't already a "relationship guy," you should not be shocked when he doesn't commit to you, and won't change his mind.

"Relationship guys" are generally in the bottom 80-90% of men - which are the men who are mostly invisible to most women. If you aren't looking for a man among this group, then the chances of finding a "relationship guy" are about the same as winning a Lotto jackpot - it's technically not impossible, but the odds of success are absolutely terrible. About the only thing with worse odds is trying to change a "player" into a relationship guy - THAT *IS* pretty much impossible.

And, yet, millions of women will wake up tomorrow and start looking for "relationship guys" among the top 10% guys, and some will tell her "I only want a casual relationship" or "I'm not looking for anything serious" - and a few will lie and say "sure, I'll commit to you!" only to disappear after having sex. She'll get angry at all men, and then she'll do it all over again, never learning the lesson...

BullShark · Accepted Answer

Not true.

Coming from a man and growing up with real men myself all my life, I can tell you that the true ones WILL stay with one woman throughout their lives.

I don't want to point fingers or judge any group, but this question seems very "womanist" to me, but I digress. As I said, the true men won't go looking at other women when they know they've found "the One". Not all men are playboys and not all men are actively looking to increase their lay count into the quadruple digits. That's just a lie these redpillers and pseudo alphas like spreading and I highly disagree with everything these woman haters spread.

Let me tell you the story of my grandpa aka my idol and my mom's dad. Him and my grandma i. e my mom's mom were together since they were teenagers and their relationship lasted around thirty years. My grandpa was a simple man and never dared lift his eye towards another woman, even though he was very handsome and gentlemanly for his time. He only had eyes for my grandma who herself was also beautiful and adored him to death. Their lives was a true storybook romance come to life. Unfortunately, my grandma was aoon diagnosed with cancer, which broke my grandpa. He'd spend all of his time at the hospital next to her and sometimes even cry in between prayers, begging God to make her as good as before and it was heartbreaking to watch. When she passed away, my grandpa was never the same again. He seemed lost in his old world and most of the time, sad and lonely as well. My mom and aunts suggested him to remarry but he rejected the offer, saying that nobody could take my grandma's place. In a few months, he passed away in his sleep, even though he was perfectly healthy physically. He died from heartbreak and sorrow.

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

No, I think that's some toxic soap opera bullshit.

It's extremely likely your partner will cheat, that's just reality. Most people are not very faithful.

But mitigating that is part of building a good relationship.

I've had two long term partners. The first cheated, the second didn't.

But the second partner and I were very open about our sexual needs and wants, and had strong communication about it. I met one of his previous friends with benefits and she and I had a great time just chatting. She remained a platonic friend with him, and she herself was in a non-monogamous marriage.

Having expectations but not communicating will more or less guarantee your partner will cheat, though.

Good communication and trust are necessary.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Totally false. Lots of people (including women) cheat but the majority do not. I hate this myth.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You are asking if EVERY GUY cheats when in a relationship? If you have such a low opinion of men, then why bother with us? This is so condescending it's insane!

DaveJord · Answer

No its not true, I never cheated on a women and I been married. for 20 years, and in several relationships since.

Now once I define the relationship with a women and agree to be in a committed relationship. But if we have only been on a few dates and are not at a piont that we are defining our relationship.

I mean I have gone out on multiple dates with different women within days apart. But thats dating, once I am in a relationship I never cheat or entertain other wimen.

With that said, I have been disappointed by other women. When you think its building into something and they won't commit and they are seeing other guys. So yeah you got to expect it to happen... but you still got to get out there and into the game.

Lliam · Answer

No. That's no more true for men than for women.

I always had one girlfriend at a time. I never cheated. I think cheating is as dishonest as stealing. It's despicable. It shows greed, self- absorption, and an inability to empathize with others.

I've been married for over 25 years and look forward to spending the rest of my days with my wife. We're both loyal and trust each other completely.

I'm not alone in my ethical beliefs.

Bmories99 · Answer

It sounds like you have been hurt badly by someone who cheated. The answer is no not every guy cheats. Even when presented with the opportunity. Honestly there is no full proof plan to choose someone who won't cheat. What I would advise is to have open communication with your SO. My wife and I tell each other everything even our fantasies, if someone is flirting with us. Or if we ended up in a compromising position. (Me both times and not by my choice) but we both trust each other immensely because of this. We also let each other know if we are uncomfortable with a situation. We take each others feelings in to account. So yes it can be risky and hard at times. The key is communication.

Kreneman · Answer

That is not true, because I have been in love before and at the moment, I was willing to spend my life with the lady that I want (we were friends with benefit) and I honestly was loyal to her but she wasn't ready for marriage and didn't want to be in relationship. Now, I am engaged because I did it right and I am in love; that is not going to change. Take time to get to know who you're dating, make sure to analyze and improve on yourself, use wisdom, and you will know the One for you.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Statistically the majority of men cheat OR would be willing to cheat given the opportunity.

It comes down to opportunity of the man. An obese broke nerd has little opportunity so he may be faithful but he most likely would not be faithful if he woke up a rich adonis with game.

Women as a whole are willing to look past this. Personally I've had no issues and never had to be faithful to a woman, so i hadn't. Never really been single too much time. Most women dont give 2 shits as long as they have the commitment from someone they view as a good catch.

Chris7094 · Answer

I never cheated in 15 years even when my friend's sister tried to sleep with me. I did end up getting cheated on though.

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously not. The majority of men never cheat, and the difference in cheating rates between men and women is small. In fact before age 30 women cheat more than men. Men do tend to cheat more than women as they get older, but not by much. Before age 50 the difference between men and women is only 3%. But even by age 70, the percentage of men who have never cheated is 74%.

I know it sucks being cheated on. It happened to me twice with two different girlfriends. But I'm not ignorant or childish enough to say most women cheat, because they don't nor do most men.

Is it true a man will never be with one woman only even when still in a relationship?

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Someone who cheats is not an adult. They're a child

Fireguy17 · Answer

No. The vast majority of people are monogamous.  You tend to only hear about the ones that are cheating.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Well I can confirm it's false for me personally but I can't speak for others

Anonymous · Answer

Nope it's all in the type of guy you choose. Those women would have you believe all men are like that. Simply because they don't want accept responsibility for their inability to choose loyal men.

dudeinohio · Answer

When in a relationship I'm always with just the one woman. Totally loyal.

Twalli · Answer

I doubt I will ever be with another wo m. j an. My girlfriend is my first and will probably be my only. Completely happy with that.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Not all men cheat but sometimes a woman might just attract the wrong kind of guy

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not. It's sad that cheating happens so much that women actually start to think this way!

exitseven · Answer

No, I know plenty of guys who e married and would never cheat.

Jouth · Answer

Never had. Never will. Cheating sucks. I just want love, loyalty, warmth and kindess. And I've found it before. Tho I've also been cheated on by girls who were so much less.

OddBeMe · Answer

I've only ever been with one woman at a time. People i know say they are too. You can never know really….

Juxtapose · Answer

This is what you think when you only date players, you outed yourself!

Anonymous · Answer

I know many men who have NEVER cheated, I have never met a female who has been loyal.

Anonymous · Answer

Most men are prone to cheating.

MountAverage · Answer

Fuck you and your sexism.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

You’re right, only Giga Chads do

Hulk30 · Answer

false im in a closed relationship and im happy

spartan55 · Answer

Uh... no?

LazerBean · Answer

No lol

Anonymous · Answer

yeah true, 1 woman is boring

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Someone lied to you.

In_Trance · Answer

no...

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