My ex told me that he was adopted but refuses to disclose any details. I haven’t met him in person. What are the chances he is using sympathy card?

[Hoomin]

Nah, he just doesn't feel comfortable talking about it

He is using sympathy card for personal reasons

He doesn't want to open up until he trusts the person

Add your opinion

Voted 9 times in total. See detailed results

[Anonymous]

Need to know more to answer. What brought up the conversation? He's an ex but you haven't met him in person? lol "Sympathy card" for what purpose? Some people are more open than others. From this, I wouldn't read anything much into it. I don't think there was any "agenda" at all.

[Avicenna]

It's possible, but he should be able to open up about this to an ex unless things ended badly. When you say you haven't met with him, you mean since the breakup, right?

[Hoomin]

No. We had LDR

[Avicenna]

So you never met him at all. Wow. Yeah, it's a gambit to get sympathy from you.

[Avicenna]

Thanks for the mho

[Hoomin]

Thanks for the advice :)

[driven159]

it might be better for him not to talk about till he is ready to if ever

[Twalli]

My girlfriend was adopted, that's all that is really important regarding that.

[Guy13]

That’s his Business.

[Guy13]

From my perspective, an Ex is outside of your purview…why do you care?

[Hoomin]

Because I needed to sure if he was lying to me

[Guy13]

I would not be speaking with you. BUT this is me. When I cut ties, as long as not potentially suicidal, I cut them permanently. Best in those endeavors :)

[Hoomin]

It's ok to be keep talking if things didn't end badly

[Guy13]

Ohh. For me, the end badly one gave me weapons…that makes sense? Like it was easy…SO that hair in neck or twisted stomach happens. You mean like that feeling?

[Hoomin]

I like talking to him

[Guy13]

Well, it sounds like fun Circus 🎪 for you. Maybe, it will turn good…

[boggboss]

Not sure why it even matters at this point

[Hoomin]

I kinda have feelings for him

[boggboss]

Couldn't be that strong if your telling him about your new gentleman

[Hoomin]

🤣 I am not sure at this point

[boggboss]

Well meh u guys clearly need to work on basic come skill

[Jamie05rhs]

How is he your ex if you've never even met him?

[Zolly99999]

Sounds like it to me

[Anonymous]

You've met your ex? 🙄

[Hoomin]

I haven't

[Opinion Owner]

Than he can't be an ex.

[Hoomin]

Well LDR counts

[Jamie05rhs]

No, it doesn't. Lol