Have you ever been insecure about your partners past?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I needed to know everything

Nah, none of my business

Only about certain things

[Aerissa_Jade]

I say its either all or none... none of this selective shit about certain things in your past matter but not other things. It either ALL matters or none of it matters.

I get tired of people picking what matters and what doesn't. Oh sexual past matters, but criminal past doesn't or reverse.

Either agree none of it matters or all of it matters and share everything. I usually go for the share everything, as I want things to be better if/when something comes out in the future. I don't want to hide stuff forever... I want to be me, and not surprise them.

If they can't handle that, then that's fine... we aren't meant to be together.

[RandomGuy1030]

100% agree dishonesty just amplifies how offensive anything is to someone

[Nkyshemera]

I chose option C because that might be my problem if he has a criminal record, an obsessive ex, or psychological issues... So I'd like to know the important stuff, but normal relationships in the past or the privates that everyone goes through are none of my business.

[Andres77]

I want to know everything in tremendous detail. I don't judge, I want her to feel so comfortable with me that she's not afraid to open up. We use it in foreplay because I love hearing her stories. Anything that she regrets we'll change some portions of the story so over time we're turning everything into something fun, no Shame, no regrets, no judgement or fear.

If it was a bad situation then we face it together and I'll tread lightly there.

I want to make love to all of her, past present and future. I want everything.

And, likewise, I've told her everything I've done, shameful or fun. We're not hiding anything.

[Andres77]

DM me for any details

[MTC29]

None of my business.

Even so, my SO drones on endlessly about her ex-husband and everything that went wrong in the marriage... like I'm supposed to care?

Of course, I'll never hear the ex-husband's side of the story, which probably goes like this..."Sure, she was great in the sack, the best fuck I ever had, but the woman couldn't shut her mouth for ten seconds!"

[DaveJord]

I am not insecure over their past relationships or conquests. But I do get concerned over things like high anxiety, depression, use of prescription drugs for stress and anxiety... anything mental health related. These types have a way of coming back full circle on you.

[RedThread]

Not really no. I care more about our present and future together. I'd want to know if they had a criminal record or anything like that though. Having crazy debt or bad credit would also be another thing that would put a damper on things. That's about it.

[maximumpower]

Needed to know about former spouse's earlier life.
Unfortunately, only learned most of it after we were married.
She and her family were a bunch of fruitcakes.

[RebeccaSJ]

No, not at all. We do know each other's number. (His is higher than mine.) But it doesn't really matter. I knew he was experienced; he knew I was. We love each other. That's more important than some number.

[Anonymous]

I only get insecure if his past is still a part of his present… other than that the past is in the past.

[Sparkie460]

Even though I know about her past, I really don't care. What happened in the past is behind us. I'm more concerned about the present and the future.

[jengeorge26]

If we’re partners we should know about everything

[Intothevoid666]

I just don’t think I ever want a serious monogamous relationship because their past is very likely to bother me

[bobby_bush_eater]

I have in the past I think most people grow out of that

[Zolly99999]

Yes definitely. Especially when they lie and withhold information

[nawtee_me]

I have a past and I expect they might too...

[boggboss]

Nope thats some self sabotaging business

[NathanDavis]

never... and I knew about it

[Wise4myage]

B, none of my business.

[EaterPeter]

I was.

[EaterPeter]

And present too