Do you think and believe a woman should serve her husband his food at the dinner table or he should do it himself, why, why not?

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Stoner710 · Accepted Answer

I don’t like these required too by any means I think it’s nice for her to do with that I mean in my experience my mom is the best cook in my life. And she had dinner almost ready by the time my dad got home like she would give them about 45 minutes to relax and then we go to eat. So I don’t think it’s a required thing but it’s definitely a preferred thing if that makes any sense.

That being said if she was Mexican or Latina give me A cheese enchilada every single day and I’ll be happy. Mexican women are amazing cooks

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

It's not a question of should SHE serve the food. Whoever cooks the meal (he or she) should prepare each plate and serve the food at the table. Just like it's done at a restaurant... Chef cooks the food and prepares the plate and it's delivered to the table by a server.

Dinklex3 · Accepted Answer

It's not a "should" or "shouldn't" thing.

Whatever the individuals want or feel comfortable with. I've cooked and served men at the table before. It was no big deal. Men have done it for me too. I've even served them while they were watching or playing a game.

As a kid my dad would serve me, my sisters, and my mom. When my mom retired she served him. Sometimes i would serve him as well.

It's as simple as just an extra small thing you do for someone you love.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Nah I don't mind cooking the food but if my man wants some he can get it himself

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

He's a grown ass man, he should set a good example for his children and serve himself. Use those arms and legs.

The one exception is if I've made something that requires special plating, like ramen or a fancy dish I want to plate in a certain way.

Then I'll make the plates for anyone I'm feeding. Because the first taste is with the eye and if I spent an hour or more on this meal it's damn well looking good when it goes out.

SlangSlayer · Answer

I'm different I don't expect much from women outside being a good person, sex and don't be too much of hassle.

I don't require much.

I have a "maid service" , I have my own laundry room and I use a service for pick up dry cleaning , and I can order door dash food.

Would it be nice for her to being my food yes. If I ask and she say no with a attitude then we will have problem.

Haha456 · Answer

Everyone on GAG would agree with you that she should.  But the rest of the world would disagree with you that she shouldn't.

BullShark · Answer

This is a pretty dumb question to ask. Honestly, why does it even matter whether or not you should serve your spouse? Regardless of gender, if I'm cooking and I made myself a sandwich, I'll make one for her as well without her even asking. In the same way, if she's making something and she brings a plate over for me, I'll appreciate the gesture.

LazerBean · Answer

That is something that couples have to mutually decide with each other. My husband likes it when I get him his food, but my dad likes to get his own food. Both are just fine, and many couples have many different reasons for their own preferences.

dustybiker · Answer

Want is more like it. If it gets to should the couple needs help. Whoever cooks in my house gets help from the able bodied. We all participate in the entire process (chopping, cooking, cleaning up) I help at friends homes too.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

We do it in turns, here.

It's a ''nice'' gesture to take care for the other one's food.

So - in a way - we two please each other... on 'equal terms'.

We are of two different cultures; so: taking turns makes our food experience very rich and varied. Of course it helps me, that I like cooking anyway.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I have been taking care of myself for a very long time. I do not expect my wife to serve me. I even set the table and sometimes I cooks the meals. What are you going to leaves for a time? I even cleaned the house. I have been taught by my parents that it should be a shared responsibility.

Marshymallow · Answer

If you’re hungry enough you’d pick up that plate and go get yourself some food not waiting for someone to serve you.

Bluemax · Answer

If she wants to, sure. If she doesn't, then no. I served my wife food when I cooked. I served my mom food when I took care of her.

ALewis30 · Answer

No body should serve each other food. People should be free to fix their own food

EarthRealm · Answer

I’m a MAN not going act like I don’t have a Large Penis in my Pants.
I’ll make my own food 🥘 and I’ll make my own plate.
But If I bought the food 🥘 it’s my food if she wants some food 🥘
I will need Payment.

SkyCastle90 · Answer

Depends on who is cooking. Both my fiancé and I work, so if it's my turn to cook I serve him sometimes if he's too busy/tired to go to the kitchen; he does the same for me when he cooks.

Tommy789 · Answer

Men and Women should take turns serving dinner to one another. I appreciate when My Girlfriend serves Me dinner and in return on another day I will cook for Her and serve Her dinner. What's wrong with that?

FootfetishistBoy · Answer

It all depends. If she enjoys it, why not? Some people enjoy serving, I dont want my wife do everything for me. The only thing i require from my wife is back scratching 😂. But like i said, it all depends. The thumb rule, is 50/50.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, she shouldn't. Come on guys, she's not a servant and he's not a 5 year old kid.

mobiusforniner · Answer

she's not a slave... holy hell the mentality of some guys...

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

It's not like she is forced to but more like it's her role to make food ans present it to her king with love of she's a housewife... In my case if i was married, i'll eat her and the meal 😋

Grl2live_nlearn4u · Answer

If her job is a stay at home mom yes. If they both work and she also does. mosta the kid's stuff then nah

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

It's nice for her to do so, but he shouldn't take it for granted.

llorando · Answer

No, he needs to get off his lazy butt and get his own food unless he's sick and isn't able.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Impartial  if she wants to serve me food she can but I’m perfectly fine with serving myself.

XXblack88 · Answer

No I don't think so. If the husband has two working arms and legs he can get his own plate and serve himself.

Subarugirl · Answer

She shouldn't have to... unless he can't use his arms... she's your wife not your mother or your domestic slave.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Don't see why not if I'm already dealing with my plate. Also would hate having him in my way.

Sarahplus2 · Answer

Nowadays with both people working. Sometimes impossible.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

As a family everyone pitches in. Not just one person cooking and serving.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Its the way things have traditionally always been done. I mean when I’m the one earning the largest salary in the household, the least you can do is have a plate of food ready

Anonymous · Answer

And show him respect for what? Breaking his back all day to provide for her? Get real.

fonduegirl · Answer

I think we should get servants for that

HoneyButterCup525 · Answer

Unless his arms are broken.

Blackcosmo · Answer

It depends on what they want.

Iron_Man · Answer

They can take turns

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't think it matters. I'm not traditional.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if she wants to.

sneakyslimp · Answer

The best option is to do it together!

Anonymous · Answer

I think it should be a 50-50 sort of thing.

Kelly6 · Answer

50/50

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