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Totally agree - but only because he's pulling his weight too. If you both work full-time, then those expectations need to be adjusted bigtime.I had a girl who preferred not to have a regular job, but in return for me supporting us financially, she cooked, cleaned, served, and did whatever she could to make my non-work time easy - and she did that because she felt that if she didn't, she wouldn't be carrying her weight - plus, she preferred to be domestic. That's a totally reasonable split of responsibility, but other equal splits are fine too.
I like this answer. Exactly as things should be.
@MrOracle Yeah, exactly.
No, they’re not that chauvinistic. They’re that pussy whipped. Has nothing to do with chauvinism and everything to do with traditional gender roles. The husband makes the money. The wife spends it. The husband provides the food. The wife cooks and serves it. the husband does the yard work, the wife the housework. That is fair and equatable. If the husband can’t do his roles, why should the wife do hers? That’s not chauvinism. I miss men being men and women being women.
@Exterminatore The wife serving the man implies that she is subservient to him. Perhaps some people see that as being a traditional gender role; certainly my parents' generation sees it that way. To me, insisting that the wife assume that position is arrogant and condescending. When I have dinner at my mom's and I hear her husband tell her - not ask her - to get up from the dinner table to get him something to drink, I want to put my fist through his face! Of course, I don't actually do that but it is that infuriating to me.I am not pussy whipped but I want a woman who is an equal partner with me and not a servant who takes orders. While I appreciate traditional gender roles in many ways, I also understand that those roles were developed at a time when women did not work outside of the home. My girlfriend works a full-time job, just as I do, and since we rent a home, there it no yard work to be done. Should I still insist that she come home and do all of the cooking, laundry, cleaning, etc? I think not. As traditional as I am, I also recognize that there are times and circumstances when traditions need to be changed. Do you think that, after dinner, the men should all go in one room to smoke cigars and drink whiskey while the women all go in another room to drink tea and exchange recipes?
Yes and you as a man having a love that is based on self sacrifice is also serving her.You should not be expected to bring home the bacon and cook it as well.Women should be subservient to men anyway. It is the natural order of things. Little children see it without having to be brainwashed into thinking that’s not how it should be.Your parents generation had a lot of things right. That for starters and the knew you can’t invert your penis and claim to be a man. They knew it was abnormal to be gay. The knew they were the authority in the home and children should respect them. They knew a lot of things that apparently are unknown today.Telling not asking. That’s not ok. I’d be of the opinion he should have to ask. She should see his glass is empty and get him a refill. You see... feminists have indoctrinated this into a women serving men situation. In reality men serve women far more as the way we love them is a sacrificial form of love. So... women can get our refills. It’s right and proper to expect this when the man actually acts like one and is good to her and faithful and provides as he ought to.See to me if you want equality that’s pussy whipped. It’s brainwashing. We’re not equal in the first place despite how much we say it. So when you do what you were designed to do, she ought to do what she was designed to. Which is harder? Doing dishes or shoveling snow? Refilling your drink or cleaning out gutters? See what i mean? Her filling your glass is nothing. However if she’s out there pushing a lawnmower... get your own water. You’re acting like the woman at that point and should be treated as such.I don’t think they “should” do those things, but I think life was better when we used to do those things. I don’t think it’s a mandate, but I miss those times.
So we’ve managed as a society to all chuckle about doing the honeydoo’s. About saying “yes dear, yes dear” when she wants something... but somehow it’s a crime against nature to expect a woman to serve a man. More properly a wife her husband. It’s just so degrading how dare we!! See what I’m mean? That’s awfully imbalanced. We laugh and joke about men serving women as infact they ought to but in a different way, yet women serving men is the injustice of the century! That’s just plain retarded to me.
@Exterminatore No, I don't see what you mean because my girlfriend has a full time job. She brings home the bacon, also.
She’s also your girlfriend and not your wife. If she has a full time job that’s different.
@Exterminatore Yes, that's what I said 45 minutes ago.
Well then either of us have nothing else to say on the matter so I guess we can put a fork in this one.
Fortunately, most of us understand your sense of humor! But you might want to have a few armed guards for the next few days in case the feminazis send a hit squad looking for you! :) :) :)
@OlderAndWiser I added the smiley face man just for them! Ha
Your smiley face did not come through for me. Okay, you are saved by the emoticon or whatever it is called.
The bedroom actually sounds like a preferable place to serve your SO. The feminazis don't know what they're missing!
And other times?
@alex_x988 he gets his own shit
You don't love him
@alex_x988 lol and you can tell that because I only give him food sometimes?😂
If he wants you to then that's not respect
@alex_x988 why would he want me to? I just do it without him saying anything
I pretty much have felt that way about cooking for a long time. But I'm better now
Just noticed that it might sound a bit confusing.
I think you may have gone a bit off the deep end there lol. Just don't date man-hating feminazis and you'll probably be just fine! :D
@SomeGuyCalledTom They have all been branded with the swastika. I did have one try to poison me and another spit in my food. Quick sex only, and run like hell.
Oh really? Well in that case, I can't say I blame you for erring on the side of paranoia. Only takes one shitty asshole to stink out an entire house, eh?
@SomeGuyCalledTom Tell me about it. Have you ever tasted a whole bottle of nail polish remover before in your orange juice after taking a big gulp? You never want to experience that. They are evil witches. Hell, my own feminist mother used to put me in the dog kennel at 2yo with the dog while she went out. So, I figured the dog food was probably ok because I didn't think she would poison the dog.
Jeeezus Christ, what a bitch! (That goes twice, once for your mother, and again for the nail varnish). Hope you find your way to making peace with women, abuse like this can change a man's map of the world pretty badly, but there really are good ones out there. And anyone who hurt you when you couldn't defend yourself can go rot somewhere for all I care. Be safe, mate.
Same, after I’m done cooking. I say “foods ready, go serve yourself. Just leave me some too.”