Im I loser for this if so what shouldIdo now?

[Colour_buzzy]

I haven't had a relationship with a guy, I've never had sex before even I've never ever kissed a guy. I don't have good relations with girls and boys, I can't understand people's actions and behavior. I'm generally antisocial and this makes me feel insecure. I also have social phobia, I go and talk to people when I push too hard, but then I can't continue the that relationship

[GallopAcrossEurope]

Nope, you are not a loser. In fact, having this kind of stress this early may actually be a good thing. Understanding what it feels like to be a loser when you are really not may actually in fact help you better in understanding guys like that, of which is there is a ridiculous amount - these are likely guys may truly be trying their best, but have some mental problems hampering them and just need someone they can talk to or understand.

Some people don't experience this kind of stress early in their life, so when it happens to them later they get so confused and crumble under pressure, leading to devastating results. But the most important thing to remember is - no one is truly a sad, pathetic loser. Perhaps misguided and potentially dangerous? Sure. But definitely not in your case.

[Adele_26]

I didn’t have a relationship until a couple months ago and I’m 22! As for sex, I wish I didn’t sleep around bc all of the men I unfortunately chose were DIRTY ASF and sooo not worth it. Honestly, when it comes to sex, nothing compares when two people actually love and care for one another.

I’m socially awkward, too, so my advice is to embrace it!!! Some people find me hilarious, others find me extremely weird. Whatever. The hard truth is not everyone will like you, and that’s okay!! Best advice I’ve ever gotten is to ask yourself in any social situation, “Do I even like them?” Not from a place of envy, but GENUINELY. You’ll find your people. They’ll feel like home. And let yourself experience things, good and bad. I isolated myself for YEARS due to personal experiences and finally decided to force myself to open up and be comfortable with myself. I’m still learning, but if I can do it, you DEFINITELY can.

[ALPHABLACK]

Absolutely not you are living the perfect life according to the present time I would very strongly recommend that you continue to live just as you are living and when your time comes leave happily

In the mean time you can earn money and spend it or experiences like travelling rather than on people and useless temp stuff. Also you will be saved many times from emotional damage that can never be actually calculated in any way.

Good luck keep smiling

[driven159]

First off no one is a loser sometimes we don't find the right person till later in life find the things you are interested in and see if they have groups around you to join in time will be good just have patients

[BrunoCuritiba]

You're not a loser, you're amazing. To start feeling more secure you have to feel amazing yourself

[mobiusforniner]

Sweetheart, you're 19. You have so much life ahead of you. Enjoy it.

[TheFlak38]

Long story short you're a mental nutcase.