What would you do if another woman kept trying to ruin your relationship?

[sheikalana]

My partner's ex is completely crazy and been trying to ruin our relationship since she knew about us. We blocked her everywhere but she keeps creating fake accounts and tries to be nosy. What would you do?

[Makeushiver]

Is it out of jealousy? Is she ( I'm going wit5h the odds and assuming you're referring to a woman - but -in any case; it sounds like it could be the party that got dumped on is whom you refer. That's a tough one esp. if they are behaving irrationally. Off the top of my head. Say little, keep notes, photos if necessary and have it on a time line. If it ever becomes a civil suit having everything documented will be of help.
She's in a great deal of pain. I understand, it sicks to be in that situation. Whenever you cab use compassion in dealing with her. Speak respectfully. If she's yelling shit at you either get an app on your phone to record it but- with or without app. Add a note showing the date, the time, and some specific details about her behavior. If you know anyone who works in a legal dept, knowing any specific statutes sghe may be violating. Use video and if she asks what you're doing tell her "just gathering evidence" in a tone that's assertive but never antagonist. Is it the woman that used to date the person you are now seeing? Most importantly, don't do or say anything until you feel inwardly composed. You might need to work through some uncomfortable feelings about anger and fear. Stay with it and try to speak with her in as reasonable tone as you can muster. Don't say, in jest even, I'm going to fucking kill you. The cops would consider that a threat on her life if it were an unfriendly cop

Good luck. It's very difficult fighting with someone who is irrational. If she threatens any type of punitive behavior. Threatening to harm you or whomever you are with or even if she act despondent. Call the cops. If something happens to her, you'll be looked at. If she's threatening suicide call cops and they can can put a 72 hour hold on her which ( in CA at least) in a locked pych unit. She won't be very friendly when she gets out but you could have her put in a 72 hour hold in the closest locked psych unit. If you are physically threatened tell the cops immediately. If you have some non-lethal protection. One convenient one are the lightweight flexible batons more cops are carrying. It isn't bulky like a night stick but whips around generating a lot of force for something light and portable- they are usually telescopic.

Good luck with that

[Danny_dan92]

First attempt would be to try and block her.


Second attempt would be to put a restraining order on her

[sheikalana]

Is there such thing as an online restraining order?

[Danny_dan92]

I believe so. If you can show proof to the authorities that they are continuing to try and reach out to you after the restraining order was placed, that’s them not listening to the law.

[Missgingles]

Hire a hitman. Have her killed. Its the best for everyone. She could have changed. She chose not too🤷🏼‍♀️

[MAC1983]

Maybe ease off on the contract killing for a scorned woman, regardless of what Shakespeare wrote on them... 🫣

[Missgingles]

@MAC1983 nah I still stand for what I said.:)

[MAC1983]

Remind me to never cross you in any way, before you take a hit on me.

[Missgingles]

@MAC1983 as long as you dont cheat, rape or murder children dont worry. And no need to remind.. I only hang out with people who have morals:)

[MAC1983]

No worries whatsoever then. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Jenny-Marie]

I would just totally ignore her. She will eventually give up. She will only ruin your relationship if you let he: shut the door and lock her out of your lives.

[Scorpio198888]

Send her pics or a video of the two of you next time she makes a fake profile to be nosey… but make sure she will know it’s the two of you without showing your faces lol

[sheikalana]

That's how it actually started. I posted a video of me and my partner on social media without even knowing this woman existed. Somehow she saw the video and got to know that we're in a relationship and that's how all the drama started since then she's been harassing us everyday.

[Scorpio198888]

I’m talking a sex tape, make her realize it’s you two without your faces. Do this every time you know the new profile is actually her though. Result will be her upset to the point it won’t be worth the heart ache to bother you two anymore. Orrrr she really is 5150 and she doubles down. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[MAC1983]

No offense @Scorpio198888 but that sounds like throwing water on a grease fire...

[Scorpio198888]

@MAC1983 like I said could to one or two ways, but since the video shouldn’t have their faces in it it’s all truly in her head there’s no real concrete evidence it’s them just her mind messing with her

[pizzalovershouse]

Call cops for stalking you an your boyfriend

[sheikalana]

The police never does anything related to stalking unless they actually attempt to hurt you.

[pizzalovershouse]

That's crazy

[EaterPeter]

Yoy two creat two new accounts she would not know about.

[spartan55]

Is your boyfriend doing anything?

[sheikalana]

He blocked her everywhere and called her in front of me telling her to stop and that he doesn't want to have to anything with her.

[spartan55]

Might be time to file a restraining order.

[sheikalana]

The thing is me and my partner don't live in the same country as this woman but she keeps harassing on social media and mostly through messages she comes up with the craziest stories ever.

[spartan55]

Just keep blocking her. She'll fuck off sooner or later.

[sheikalana]

We hope so.

[genericname85]

i would just ignore her.

[Anonymous]

Why is she so mad at you?

[Anonymous]

tell her stop

[sheikalana]

We did so many times. We blocked her everywhere and she keeps creating fake profiles.

[Opinion Owner]

wow... sorry my dad walked in... ugh..😳