My ex boyfriend claims to be happy but he's getting drunk almost everyday?

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Long story short, I had to leave my long distance ex boyfriend because he became extremely controlling. He would freak out if I told him I wanted to go to the gym, or to my master's degree celebration, and ban it. He started getting crazy about the clothes I was wearing (even though they weren't revealing). His paranoia also escalated and he was accusing me of cheating every day even if I was loyal. I had to leave because it was making both of us suffer.

After leaving, he very soon told me he found a girl who was very loving and respectful and that we didn't need to control her. However, the few times we talked he was very very drunk. He rubbed this new girl in my face, saying how good she was and how bad I was for not being able to love him. However, he says that but still wants to talk to me on the phone for hours. I told him that if we had to be together, it's not only the control that should stop but also the drunkenness, but he's unsure he can control his trust and control issues in the distance.

Is the girl he found even real? Why is he drinking until losing his speech if he's so happy? It was really rough for me the fact of having to move on. I developed migraines and insomnia after what I went through with him.

My ex boyfriend claims to be happy but he's getting drunk almost everyday?
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