Funny I just asked a similar question just now , I have dealt with this a handful of times with girls , to the point I don’t trust it anymore , She will love the shit out of me treat me like Gold, compliment me , give me tons of intimacy and affection tell me she can’t wait to be in my arms when I am at work or away from her and I give the same right back to her and then bam , she hates my fucking guts out of no where , like a flip of a switch , Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde shit , The second I say fuck this and walk away she will come chasing me back and loving me again. I don’t get it to be honest , it’s like they have mental illness or some shit , to the point I can’t fully trust it anymore I have a constant question mark over my head to the point I just go with the flow now cuz I am tired
Of the drama to the point I can not give myself completely to girls anymore like I use to , because I am mentally exhausted on how selfish girls have become it’s fucking abuse , Girls all say they want a man that loves them provides for them and protects them and treats them like princesses have a guy that treats them like a gold , is nice , has a good job etc etc but she will find every flaw in him within time , and changes her fucking mind and starts treating him like shit , the flaws she finds in him is just her excuses for being a whore is how I look at it , like we are these fucking punching bags that don’t matter , I am not saying I am perfect but i know I don’t treat girls this way , I treat girls the way i want to be treated , I have dealt with this so many times with Girls to the point I now see why guys don’t want to get married anymore , or end up cheating and having affairs because Girls have become very selfish people or they have multiple personalities and are absolutely fucking nuts , I am not saying there aren’t guys that do this shit as well , I am just answering based off of my own experiences , I constantly question myself if love really exists , cuz so many people lie and cheat to the point I feel like I should just join them because what is the point of giving yourself completely to someone that is going to back stab you anyways It’s a sad world we live in, it’s like relationships have become something from the past , So we my as well just be FWB’s that’s probably the best thing we will get in todays world because so many people have become selfish , How can you honestly love someone that can’t love you back the same? We can only give what we want to receive , when I am constantly giving without receiving , i use to stand by her side , now I walk away because I am tired of being a punching bag , to the point I don’t even give her a second more of my time , cuz I feel she dug her own grave , I will not be in a relationship with someone that can not be honest with me , plain and simple , you want to lie and keep secrets , Good luck with that shit , You cheat on me , don’t waste your time trying to get me back cuz the way I look at it is you already cheated on me by treating me like I am dirt , But I keep moving forward with hopes of meeting a girl that knows what it means to be in a relationship
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There is this one girl at my school who openly had a crush on my boyfriend and told me to my face they were gonna try and steal them and that my boyfriend loved them already. Then they were really disrespectful like looking me in the eyes then hugging my boyfriend from behind or touching them when my boyfriend didn't want that to happen to him. But then they gave up I don't know and I can't tell if I like them or not (as a friend I mean)
Yes. I have a love-hate relationship with myself.
Sometimes I love the things I do, sometimes I questioned myself on why I do specific things and berate myself for my stupidity.
It's a conundrum.
I only get along with people I’m not close to - If I know somebody well, I can almost always find things about them that anger me
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🤣. Yes it’s called frenemy but more enemy than friend 🤣 . It’s confusing sometimes
I'm dispairing about my ex-crush dating a jerk yet not seeming happy. I could move on but would need to reach out and even actively get to know a new girl, which already took me quite some time with my ex-crush. Things could be easier, if only she was single again.
A little bit. A friend of mine, she's smart, loyal, fun to hangout with... but she's a complete idiot when it comes to love. She ignores my advice, gets hurt or rejected and then proceeds to cry and ask me what went wrong.
No, I don't have any hate in my relations to others. I always get along well with most people, and if hate were to form there would be distance instead of love.
No. Because of my definition of love as "a commitment to seek the better for another." I cannot even picture what love-hate would mean to me.
I used to, but I cleared a bunch of dead brush out of my social life, and lost those unhealthy relationships as a result of the pandemic.
No cuz this sounds unstable and if I see unstable people I'm just out of there.
Yes I do it’s with the New York Jets just like I used to with the Philadelphia Eagles but now I love them just like the Cleveland brown’s
I love how much I hate hitler. Does that count?
Nope. If I hate someone more than I love them I cut them out of my life.
Yup my boyfriend
i guess nah i dont
Yeah, it's called work
My vagina.
Yeah, with my dad
Yep my Math teacher
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Yes, myself.
My blackmailer.
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