Why would an older man cheat on his girlfriend with a younger, hotter woman?

[Anonymous]

I hear that men cheat with downgrades but I have seen them upgrade too.

[DaveJord]

Are you seriously asking guys why they would cheat on their SO with younger hotter women? I don't know what do thing it could possibly be other then for the obvious reasons.

Seriously, some times a women pops up that you never seriously though you ever have a chance with. But by some twist of fate there she is and here you are faced with this ethical decision... do take advantage of this once in life time opportunity to have sex with this person that by all rights would never have any reasonable chance with or do you pass on it?

Some women take their men for granted and sluff off, and then here comes this young sweet thing with the body of a sex goddess... man starts to think maybe he deserves better or more and his women is not living up to the advertising. Maybe his girlfriend is not all that she thinks she is and he actually does deserve better.

Who knows, but by no stretch of the imagination should you look past the obvious answer. She young, she's hot, and she is sexy and this guy doesn't have too many golden opportunities left to him in his life. I am 46 and I have not had sex with a women in her 20 in over 16 years, I haven't had sex with women in 30' in over 6 years. All the sex I have had in 7 years have been with women in their 40's and I have o regrets about that. But if hot 20 to 30 something popped out of no where... I would be have to think about it.

[Asker]

I don’t understand why she’s coming after me on Facebook and saying shit to me about my age and how he was just going after me for the wrong reasons. And said shit about him taking me to really nice places. She texted him asking why he took me to this nice steakhouse that costed $500 and how that’s insane. Like…why does she care? I guess he never did that for her.

[DaveJord]

Older men seem to think they need to over compensate to get a younger women, which probably is why I don't date younger women. I would not take any women to a $500 steak house just for a piece of ass, and I make $120,000.00 annual. I can buy and make a good steak at home for $50, so sending $500 on any meal sounds stupid to me. But plenty of guys do I guess, but if he's getting laid its cheaper then straight paying for it, which I wouldn't do either.

Some day you will be older and possibly insecure about it, because you will understand, given your experience, with this situation here. There will always be someone younger and hotter, and obviously this women is either not a very good person, or this guy is using you, or if you're using him... but if everyone is getting what they want out this situation then nobody is using anyone. Unless you are not fucking him, then he is being used and is loser. Other then this women, she just got screwed over by her boyfriend and some 20 year old hottie.

When you get to be her age, like me at 46 your best years have past you by and your opportunities to meet good and available women or men, who are not divorced and all screwed up, stuck with 3 kids still at home, or so traumatized by decades of heart break which make them otherwise updateable are limited.

But good for you for giving an older man a chance. But do not be fooled, if you were not the young hottie he would not be as interested.

[D_Bone_Steak]

He would probably cheat on her ass because she's bat shit crazy. Says shit like she could never be 18 because of Jesus. News flash... younger and hotter isn't a downgrade for a man to get. Normally a guy will just keep what he has but if you add a serving of that kind of crazy bullshit with it... The guy would be stupid not to upgrade to younger and hotter even if she's just as fucking stupid crazy.

[Asker]

Oh I’m definitely an upgrade form this chick. Like objectively. And she’s mad he took home to nicer places than her in the beginning stages.

[Anonymous]

sometimes they want to re experience there youth or they never got girls when younger so want to get with one that is younger and hotter , that they weren't able to get years ago

[Asker]

Well his ex is coming after me hard. She’s 35 and I’m 26 and I wouldn’t say she’s more physically attractive than me at all. I don't know why she’s so mad at me

[Asker]

He cheated on her with me. They broke up like that very day.

[Opinion Owner]

sometimes people just can't deal with things , you don't know the exact nature of there relationship and if they were really a happy couple before he cheated on her. sometimes its ego too , there just upset there is someone else

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

The same reason ANY person cheats

To get away with it

it's the only LEGIT reason to cheat

And no, im not trying to legitimize cheating. I'm just saying that's the ONLY legit reason to cheat

[exitseven]

I think that guys do it for the excitement and not the sex.

[Asker]

A lot of like 36 - 50 year old rich men seem to hit on me the most. Lol.

[mr4435669]

I also like women younger than me, my girlfriend is 16 years old.

[Asker]

Well I’m with a guy now and he cheated on his girlfriend with me who is 10 years older. She came after me on fb hard! But I had no idea he cheated. I thought they broke up same day as we met.

[Anonymous]

You answered your own question

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you’re not asking about Adam Levine lol

[Anonymous]

Because he can.