When a woman breeds with an attractive man and he leaves her or cheats on her, who’s fault is it?

[EmyyWolf]

• The woman’s fault for being attracted and mating with him?
• Or the males fault for choosing someone else since he’s got options and has a pick of the litter?

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1 y

KEEP IN MIND:

- Women can’t impregnate themselves , the seed comes from a male

- Women don’t choose to leave their offspring , it’s majority of men who choose to do this

- Women don’t tend to cheat on the father of her babies, and if so that’s less than 1% of cases

- Women don’t always choose to be mothers even if married. Pregnancy is a result of intimacy. Inside or outside of wedlock.

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SO YOU TELL ME WHOS REALLY AT FAULT FOR SINGLE MOTHERHOOD AND LEAVING BABIES

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1 y

I still don’t remember the last time that I was able to impregnate myself with my own bare hands. All alone in my solitude.

And also I don’t believe I should feel forced to resort to being intimate with only simpletons and beta males for the sole reason of keeping a man loyal. I shouldn’t have to mate or breed with the least appealing men in other to have a righteous relationship.

SP YOU TELL ME WHICH SEX, WHICH GENDER IS TRULY AT FAULT OF SINGLE-MOTHERS AND FATHERLESS CHILDREN

[misfittoy]

this is layered question with separate topics. looks are subject for interpretation. anytime someone chooses to have sex its always a risk of pregnancy however with protection it is a very dwindled chance if its used properly. both have a choice to use protection, both can get contraception. boils down to personal responsibility on both sides. looks really mean nothing in this scenario. being a cheater is not something someone who is considered by others to be attractive are only capable of. anyone can cheat and leave kids, no kids etc.

cheating doesn't discriminate any race, color, creed and gender. and i did see where you put out of wedlock, i think its both peoples stupidity to be honest. personally i think it goes back to people just jumping into bed with each other with out so much and knowing their birth days, sex these days is treated as nothing more then a handshake these days its really crazy. as for whos fault? both, the child is half of two. you know as a male you can get someone pregnant and as a female you know you can get pregnant. both to blame, both stupid, both irresponsible. if people dont know the basics of sex as most do not these days, they should not be having sex. both at fault

[Apple1996]

It's obviously the deadbeats fault for being a freaking deadbeat. Single moms are not at fault for the situation they are in. Most are doing the best they can for their child while the dad can get away with paying 50$ a month for child support and basically living a child free life.

[Summeroflove]

They picked him...

[Apple1996]

@Summeroflove and are guys gonna act that way when you first meet them? No that behavior comes out later

[EmyyWolf]

@Summeroflove

“You picked them”
That’s just these unattractive betas saying

“You should’ve picked me”
As is the unattractive simps wouldn’t do the same 💩👍

[Summeroflove]

People who use the word beta... Are unattractive and you don't know what you are talking about. Thank you for showing how ignorant you are. When someone picks bad men (or women)... Then what do you expect? I know people come here looking for sympathy and when they don't get it they get angry

[Summeroflove]

You aren't wrong Apple. This is why I only have sex after I am married and only date Christian women.

[Summeroflove]

What does this have to do with attraction? Frankly you don't know me so you don't know anything about me. I could assume a number of things about you but I will stop right there. I am better at that game then you are...

[HighValue]

1. Actually, women choose to use the court to PREVENT men from being with their kids.

2. Women DO tend to cheat on the father of their kids. I work in schools which means I mostly work with women. About a third of the ones that are in a relationship and have kids cheat on their SO while they already have kids with him. That's correct, women in education that are supposed to be role models for kids are cheating on their SO often. Every school I have worked in had that happening.

3. Women initiate around 80% of divorces, so they are actually the ones that break up a family most often.

Besides what I already stated, when someone cheats or leaves their partner, when it comes to who is to blame it is difficult to know without knowing the details. For instance, if someone chose to have a partner with a past of casual sex, they would be partially to blame for choosing a partner like that, whether it is a man or woman that knowingly chooses a promiscuous partner.

[Adam1978]

Depends if he never committed to her it's hers, since she didn't secure the relationship she wanted before breeding. Which would give the expected ending of her as a single mother. If he is in a committed relationship and cheats its his fault. Women need to understand that breeding doesn't make a commitment, that is a forced social construct. And they have teared that construct apart for years.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I would say the woman, it's difficult to know whether the guy has red flags for these kinds of situations but most of the time they do. Especially if they're an attractive mate to most other women. At the same time, there's the issue of sex because they could've been using birth control but it failed somehow.

[Sixgunsound]

My voluntarily single mother kicked my father out because her newly graduated feminist lawyer friend told her she would get more money divorcing him than she would staying with him. Screw the kids screw the future show me the money baby!

[Sixgunsound]

In an interesting plot twist, she’s broke, alone, and miserable with children who resent her and don’t visit.

[Sixgunsound]

Also are children commodities like pets to be bred?

[BlueScorpio]

Him cause he cheated and left her behind with kids. Men and women who do this create broken families.

[LazerBean]

Both. The woman is at fault for either having bad judgement or being stupid, and the man is at fault for his own irresponsibility.

[EmyyWolf]

Does a woman need to be a therapist?
A psychologist?

Or do you mean women need to choose YOU instead 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[LazerBean]

None of the above. I don't even understand what you are trying to insinuate.

[Jamie05rhs]

Of course it's the man's fault for having that attitude towards women in the first place. But it's also the woman's fault for not being aware enough to be able to identify his stripes.

[Jamie05rhs]

@EmyyWolf I just read your last update. You have a lot of growing up to do, hon.
But you'll learn eventually.

[EmyyWolf]

@Jamie05rhs
“Identity him”?
Is a woman supposed to be psychologist? A therapist?

[Jamie05rhs]

@EmyyWolf A wise woman will learn about men, in order to protect herself. It's a survival skill.

[AddylynnNightingale]

His of course. He could just address the issue or leave. But instead he chooses to cheat.

[Summeroflove]

Well his fault. If he isn’t happy. Then he needs to break it off. Same way for a woman. If she ain’t happy. She needs to be the one who says she’s done.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Absent father crisis is called that for a reason. Many dudes just run away from their children.

Did you know that most men don't even fight for custody in court when they can?

[nawtee_me]

You ask two separate questions here. First whom ever cheats on the other it is always their fault. Cheating is a choice. Leave them if you can’t work it out and make the relationship better.

second,

[nawtee_me]

I know for a fact that there are women out there that get pregnant multiple times to collect government money and food stamps so they don’t have to work. And if they do work a little it is so they can collect max benefits on their taxes at the end of the year.

[nawtee_me]

www.10tv.com/.../530-4accb1cc-3ecc-4a24-aa66-4b09040a8887

[EmyyWolf]

That’s sooo rare. Most women DREAD pregnancy and ruining their bodies and being stuck with a brat for life. The child support money is not enough.

[nawtee_me]

@EmyyWolf for me and you yes it would not be enough. But it is not rare, at least not in my state. In the past few years there has not been enough government money to go around so cuts were made and all hell broke loose about it.
I say if you are going to give them money then make the go to school too and learn a skill to get a job.

[nawtee_me]

www.wafb.com/.../

[Juxtapose]

If you have such a bad judge of character that you let a shitty man impregnate you? Yeah, it's your fault for not saying the signs just as much as it's his fault for being an asshole.

[Juxtapose]

*seeing the signs

[Juxtapose]

And actually, women initiate 80% of divorces sssooooo.. yeeeaaaah..

[EmyyWolf]

@Juxtapose
And the women who initiate the divorces aren’t doing it for a reason?
I don't know; maybe “cheating” 👈
Maybe he could put her at risk of “STDs “ 👈

No? She just divorced him just because?
For no reason?

There’s only one person that can impregnate 🤡

[Juxtapose]

Do you really believe that women initiate divorces because of cheating when they cheat just as much as men? Men do not cheat more than women.

[Gloree]

The terms you use are appealing. Breed, mate as if you're talking about werewolves or animals and not humans

[Jamie05rhs]

You mean appalling?

[EmyyWolf]

@Jamie05rhs
LMAO “appealing “.

[Gloree]

@Jamie05rhs exactly. That was a typo. But thanks

[Jamie05rhs]

@Gloree You're welcome.

[admles]

The cheater is ALWAYS at fault.

Cheating is a conscious decision someone makes.

[bamesjond0069]

Salty single mom who chose a bad guy or she had a good guy she didn't treat right.

[EmyyWolf]

Ew , you’re disgusting.
You’re the reason I’ll ever marry

[Anonymous]

It's not anyone's fault as long as you don't try to manipulate and trick another guy into being a provider for your baby. As long as you take care that you are good, no one can blame you for your decisions.

[DevinAM]

His fault, if it was prearranged that he would leave after the fact it would be fine but he just up and leaves her without warning after getting her pregnant is 100% his fault.

[AsaKyo]

Obviously the dude lmao

[EmyyWolf]

That’s not what some of these commenters are telling me………

[Anonymous]

Did she ignore the gut feeling or danger, that is telling her, that something is not right with this guy?

[Anonymous]

Well keep in mind she CHOSE that cheater. 🤣🤣🤣

[EmyyWolf]

Yeah that’s like saying
“she should’ve chosen me” 🤡

What, is she supposed to be a psychologist? A therapist?

You’re acting like unattractive men can’t do the same BS? 🤡

[Opinion Owner]

🤣🤣🤣 here's a crazy thought. Rather than always being the victim how about own up to your bad decisions.
Oh I know that makes far too much sense. Instead let's lash out and someone attempted to help.
Stupid is as stupid does. 🤣🤣🤣

[lookingeverywhere]

No woman should be used for sex and getting pregnant with an unwanted baby. She could always just masturbate or suck the guy.

[Anonymous]

Oh boy. Someone is feeling self-righteous today 🙄